NYMassageAddict

Bodywork and Day Spa on Clark and Belden can do the job. They have a male masseur but you need to call in advance to make sure he will be there. https://yelp.to/qTKq/yHYeXz3iNQ

Well then maybe it’s not Jasper or maybe he only did that to me. I liked it.

Here is one I enjoy quite a bit. It appears that it’s at a Chinese body scrub place. Because the camera quality goes in and out (due to steam) I kinda believe this is legit. It’s a series of guys getting a shower body scrub who allow the masseur to help them out beyond the scrub. I think I like these because it fits some elements that I enjoy. 1) being blindfolded and 2) having an unexpected experience https://m.xhamster.com/videos/gay-spa-massage-4207869

Another question, did he cover your eyes with a towel when you were turned over?

Think that’s Jasper. I enjoyed him.

They do have a shower. Maybe they were rushing to get you out for another customer. Was your masseur young, thin?

I know this is too late and most people are now using this post to talk about individual Masseurs, but for anyone “new” seeking a massage, I understand it’s tempting to research the hell out of this. You’re spending a lot of money and want to make sure it’s spend wisely, but at some point you have to let go and give it an experience. Sometimes if you know exactly what you’ll experience it’s not as enjoyable. Find a guy you find attractive. Make sure his reviews are positive and take a plunge.

Most spas in NYC

Nope.

This is why it would suck to be famous - and also a nice reminder to keep names confidential when dealing with spas or Masseurs.

This one is soft core - no exposed genitals but I think pretty passionate. https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph55ba436f17761

Bigman is a big fan.

Don’t get me wrong, I tip 20% religiously when out at a restaurant or bar. Also tip my barber. I just think a tipping society is dumb. If you expect more money for your service, just charge it.

Why are you so passionate about this? I think I made my point clear. Owners, historically don’t accept tips. No, I don’t ask someone as I mostly assume someone serving me ISN’T an owner. But I have had owners say “no need to tip, this is my bar”. If a masseur is advertising on masseurfinder or comparable especially under sensual, I do assume a HE is included. If a masseur wants to take a shot at not providing that, that’s their prerogative, but I’m guessing their customer frequency and pool will be smaller. In my opinion, I think a masseur working for himself would actually be at a competitive advantage if they said “this price is all inclusive - no tips necessary”.

I don’t know you or the circumstances involved, but is there any possibility someone walking out was just a rude dude or maybe someone not attracted which has nothing to do with your race? Some white dudes aren’t into me and I’m white. I can’t claim racism.

The old rule was if an owner pours you a beer, you don’t tip the owner because he’s making money on the beer he sold you. It was seen as low brow for an owner to accept a tip if they served you a meal or poured you a drink.

When you’re at a restaurant, you tip the server but not the restaurant owner. Which, by the way, is just another way for a restaurant to pass off its duty for paying staff onto the customers. I wish they’d be more blatant about it and just increase the cost of food. Tipping in general is such a gray area overall, and when you tip below acceptable levels - say service sucks, you are left feeling bad and even managers will pressure you about why you didn’t tip. If it’s optional, get off of me.

Bigman is my favorite person in the world.

Funny. I made an appointment with him and saw this ad. It flagged a concern for me and I told him why. Pointed him to this and he went silent. For whatever it’s worth, he never denied and told me he would bottom willingly. Maybe because he never intended to do anything but take money and kick me out.

More from the “hidden” camera collection. I don’t know why, but I really love these. https://www.xtube.com/video-watch/gay-massage-hidden-cam-32293912

I think this is due to having one boy manning the spa by himself. I find one masseur is also the receptionist - so when he’s busy massaging someone, there is no one else there to answer the phone or door. Not good but probably a way of saving money.

Sorry I just came across a full thread on this topic and I see it was quite spirited. Sounds like there are divided views. No need to follow up here.

Sorry if this is already covered, but I have been mostly a spa type guy, mainly because I can’t host and I enjoy the scene there. I have a pretty good understanding of minimum to maximum tips for the guys who work at spas and I know they only get a small portion of the hourly fee. However, I’m considering trying a few independent Masseurs who work from their homes and I’m not sure how tipping works when you hire someone like that. In the “real world” if someone is the owner of a business, you don’t tip them because they are already getting all the money. Is that the case with masseurs? I know they’d all appreciate more money but if you don’t tip, do they think you’re cheap or don’t like the work? What is the norm for going to someone who massages from masseurfinder, etc? Thanks!

I’d love to have a drink in a Hell’s Kitchen bar with bigman!

There’s a thai spa called I’m Thai Spa very near the airport. Not sure if they’ll be open when you’re laying over. They have male masseurs. I don’t think HE is to be expected but could occur.