GTMike

I really don't want to change the subject and know this is an asking escorts section but I'd also be curious how others feel about a situation. I will not say who but I've struggled with a guilt situation somewhat related to this as I've met a person who has a public profile and otherwise is a very fine and upstanding young man from my interaction with him. I do not have a license or the affiliated education or practical experience other than life experience and the problem is i feel that he's most likely (and please excuse the term and no offense meant at all) but "on the spectrum". My technical, unscholarly term is that i perceive him as a "highly functioning but somewhat socially autistic" perdon and from things he's told me frankly naive. Nevertheless he is grown, physically fit, "knows what he is doing", and an adult, but I can't justify meeting him again as i feel in some aspects, he was, is and i would be to a degree, taken advantage of him. I feel awful and agonize over feeling this way and making the decision not to meet him again, which is admittedly based on that I suspect others look past it because he is very attractive and accomodating. I admit i do have somewhat of a "Jesus Complex" (in the sense of typically wanting to help and save people), but i'm totally torn because on one hand he does understand what he's doing and makes that conscious decision as an adult so who i am to discriminate against him, but on the other hand, I'm not sure he's also aware of or getting guidance in further supplementing his education and other practical personal and professional life skills for his longer term prosperity. I feel that as he ages, the "looks fade", his pool of potential clients diminishes and he's not better equipping himself to cope with life's typcial and persistant challenges and that hiring him makes me complicit as well in taking advantage of him more than helping unfortunately.

Look forward to it Anthony! Hope you're well after your trip and move.

I wish. Good luck to ya finding that great match.

Interesting. Obviously you know your particular and unique situation better, but i might think a way it could "go south" is if he potentially thought during the PT workouts that an escort client may start acting inappropriately forgetting for example they're in a public gym and it's not flirty and play time versus being serious about the training.

Yeah that's how i look at it and experience has pretty much shown.

Ugggh, I don't care what people are privately, but when you're putting yourself out there in a profile, for "basic fundamental" characteristics, at least have the courtesy to be somewhat accurate!! Haha

Thank you @azdr0710, for actually making me realize it could be confusing who i was referring to. My comment above was in reference to Strongpower, not Xander who i've had no contact with in any capacity.

Hahahaha.

I'd be curious to hear more about your experience and if ok, could PM you as well?

I've found him to be a "so-so" coomunincator over email at first when he doesn't know you, but switches to text when he feels he knows you better. That's how it happened with me at first and i found the intermittent email communication quite frustrating but in the end very worth the wait. Nothing to do being with "Straight, Gay or Magenta colored". Also a few months ago, he had an accident that curtailed his physical activities for a while but is active again in NorthEast. I'm still hoping he comes out West this Fall.

If you find out anything please share!

Don't know for sure but you prolly have good "Spidey Senses" unfortuntely. (As I'd wish they were completely legit coincidental or not).

Hahaha Congrats

That sucks. Sorry to hear.

I hate to ask but do you suspect he has a similar, "song and dance" with a few more clients at the same time as well?

Wow! How did that connection get made with him. Thanks.

Now i really feel uninformed? Don't know that either, haha

"MMF Forum?" Haha. I'm embarrased that i don't know what that is?

Very new profile, and pic's seem authentic. But of course could be new name using recycled pic's possibly. Curious if anyone has met this gentlemen? https://rent.men/KierenOdell/

He was the very first escort i met when i first started a couple years ago. I didn't have a good frame of reference to compare him to. I met him a few times and admittedly made some "rookie mistakes" in terms of directly communicating my expectations that caused some initial awkwardness but as i mentioned several months ago before above, he acted very inappropriately for a brief period of time, but i can say the more time i spent with him, it became clearer he was struggling with some things psychologically and when a certain threshold of alcohol was reached, (I hope I'm not getting into review territory), but i will say he exhibited a clear Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde personality type disorder on more than one occasion.

Have been interested in him for a while from a far. Wish he'd travel to LA!

His Profile is reactivated and states he's in Florida. I haven't personally met him but he was responsive over text. Said he took a break for a while but is back. At this point, I don't know if he is still living in Philly area and is traveling or that he relocated.

I fully get it that everyone needs to be cautious and careful for so many numerous reasons and i probably like most everyone absolutely strongly prefer that pic's in Profiles are real and represent the escort accurately and also provides clients more ways to satisfy safety and certainity concerns, but with that said, I've had a similar experience with two different guys who don't use their real pic's and have maintained long-lasting, on-going good relationships. It's not for everyone to risk that level of certainity, but in theses cases, i know for sure the reason they don't use real face pic's is entirely related to their "privacy" concerns because they view it is a "side-profession" for a few years as they transition into other work.

Again depends on situation. For example, I have a great "regular" but he lives >2,500 miles away and we meet up every 3 months or so and he wouldn't be offended by the question but i know his network of potential escort friends doesn't extend close to me geographically either. Not only that, don't many of us happy and satisfied "regular" clients openly and gladly provide positive public and private reviews encouraging others to meet escorts we know and like? Really just thinking out loud, but again if you're asking to figure out in advance how your friend might respond, my opinion is still it's most likely really gonna depend on your unique situation.