I’m having trouble with prepping for anal sex. About 2-3 hours before an appointment, I’d start cleaning up with a disposable enema bottle. It’d get to the point where the water comes out clear so I figure I’m done. I’d test every 15 minutes or so and only some mucosa comes out.
For several times now, I’ve had accidents when being topped. It’s very embarrassing and frustrating. The providers say they may have gone too deep. But I’ve had “big” providers going deep without any accidents. What could be the problem here?