FrankR

Discussed here before, currently on tour in the USA. https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/411-on-latinlucas-in-nyc-from-spain.136649/#post-1551793

Poor is flashy. Rich is loud. Wealthy is quiet.

In my experience the reaction you can expect depends on whether the masseur is truly professional. Most guys on these sites are not doing it because it is their career. They are doing it to make some money, perhaps to tie them over until they can move on to something else. The rate of turnover (comings and goings) should support my position. A true professional is ready for all types. The others are not. It is odd, I have the opposite problem. I have always been a skinny runt! I live in fear that the guy will turn to me and say: 'Dude, you are all skin and bone; there is not enough for me to work with!!!'

You always have the right to say ‘no’ or ‘stop’. This is not a typical massage experience. If you have not been tested for STDs recently, I recommend you do so. It does not sound like, nor should you feel like you did anything wrong. The fact that you refused to play when he offered his dick for oral should have been a clear sign to him that you have boundaries. There is a word for sex without conset: rape. The guy took advantage of you. Name him and shame him. Be well.

Dmitri is well know to those in NYC. https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/411-dimitri-nyc.111184/#post-1050749 Best to avoid - if you choose to go ahead, make sure you two agree on what is to be delivered ahead of time....

They still sell pizza for $1 a slice in midtown. Another dollar will get you a coke. My Colgate smile is free! What more could you possibly want???

According to this article the average cost of a date in New York is $297.27. That can’t be right? Maybe I am doing it wrong... https://www.usatoday.com/story/money/personalfinance/budget-and-spending/2018/08/10/average-cost-of-date-in-each-state/37292105/

I am not well versed on the laws and practices in the Netherlands. If you are truly concerned you should seek local legal advice. As far as I can tell, you have nothing to be concerned about. No crime has been committed - why would the police get involved? You had an agreement, I assume you have a text or email outlining your request for an hour’s service. The escort breached that contract and now you are in he said/I said territory with no actual proof that the contract was amended. If anything, the act of him attempting to take your phone was the crime - it is called attempted robbery! I would not pay any more, I would not communicate with him any further, other than informing him that you are contacting your embassy to identify a local attorney to represent you in the future. (I would do this anyway, consulates do this all the time and they don’t need to know your business, just ask for a recommendation for a local civil matter.) As for the union, it likely looks out for its members, not you. Take any response from them with a pinch of salt... Now, take a deep breath. Post script: the escort appears to be a bully, from your description. You should definitely write a review to help others avoid him.

I am totally ‘fabulous’ - it is so obvious, there is never any doubt!!

I know a couple in a similar situation. They went with Terri.

Seems to me like they had a meeting of the minds on the terms of the loans. Was there a lack of performance?

No search results - anybody have any experience with this guy? https://rentmasseur.com/Paulpal

I will be in Philadelphia for a few days this week - looking for a bar where a fella can go for a beer, enjoy some eye candy and perhaps meet someone for...conversation. Any recommendations? I will be staying close by city hall. Thanks!

I’m with your brother on this one - low cost, broad based index funds are my preferred way to invest my brokerage funds. I dont have the time or inclination to personally track or hire somebody to advise me on a managed portfolio. Advisory fees take a big bite out of your returns, let the buyer beware. John C Bogle has been preaching this for a long time and I have not seen any evidence to refute his positiom. Warren Buffett gives the same advice. So I am pretty much sold on this approach.

Yes, discussed before, search for: Marcell https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/411-on-marcel-in-nyc.130029/#post-1548494

I did the exact same thing. Loved Fios, had it for many years, but too overpriced. Spectrum isnt bad - have not had any problems (knock on wood!) Post script - are you sure this qualifies as a momentous life decision???

This request may be better suited for the fetish section of the forum...

Well said - my experience is very similar. I have had very few bad experiences with Russian (or eastern european men in general). The key thing is to be clear on what you are looking for. “Naked, full body, erotic massage with release”

Take a look here: https://www.daddysreviews.com/cruise/2018-05-30/tony_ayfun_nyc

Ugh, get naked? I can’t even. Like, seriously, is that a thing? I am getting through the summer grind, showing off the mad kit I spent my swag money on and you want me to get naked!?!? Hashtag WHATEVER! (The ‘kids’ nowadays really sound like that!)

No go on the thumbs up, sorry. No response from him - looks like he isn't really serious about building up a client base...

It is my understanding that bed bugs mainly spread by means of hiding in luggage (suitcases and backpacks). When you or a guest stay at an infested place, then head home, they travel with you. Also avoid used furniture....

Really? Good to know. His rentmen profile does not reflect that...

Miller time!

Mine is motion driven too. I used to be able to take it off on Friday, put it back on, on Monday without need for adjustment. Nowadays it runs out of juice by Sunday morning so I have to adjust it every Monday morning. (I know, it is SUCH a burden! )During the week I need a watch. Weekends, not so much.