FrankR

Dont sell yourself short! I am aware of circumstances where a character witness can be very helpful. Especially when the individual providing the reference is in an acknowledged profession (think Attorney or Certified Public Accountant) or is an executive with a large or well know organisation. It is an attestation, but is not under oath. You may be asked later to repeat it under oath. It should also be understood that these are only helpful if you have known the individual for an extended period of time and can explain the context of your relationship.

Any insight you can provide on how your willy became desensitized in the first place will be helpful. Physical injury? Medical condition?

I plan to wait for the iPhone XXX - the phone has to be worthy of my d_ck pics!

After much procrastination, I ordered them today - should be here by the weekend. Thanks for the recommendation!

You are incorrigible! When I grow up, I want to be just like you!!

Hasn’t happened to me...yet!! I have to ask - do you have a thing for ‘bad boys’? Did yet get a ‘this guy is fun, but trouble’ vibe from him over the years?

I don’t think I got all the way through Regarding Billy... I enjoyed A Warm Wind, I found the scene where they talk politics around the dinner table very nostalgic - and we thought we were a country divided during the war; look at us today!!!

Asked and answered...if nudity is a requirement for you, you may want to look elsewhere.

Guys on rentmen tend to use the “pornstar” label a lot, especially the hash tag. Interchangeable with “escort”. Does not necessarily mean he has done actual porn. If he indicates he is available for movies, it may mean private movies for your personal use, live shows via skype etc. Reach out and ask - if he has done actual studio porn, he is probably proud enough of his performance to point you to the studio and provide his porn name!

Glad to hear that I am not the only sports fan on here! (I was beginnig to wonder.)

In the words of Bill Maher: “New Rule!” After 5 bumps you have to take the plunge and report back!

That may be pushing it a bit...but not by much!

You say that like it's a bad thing! lol

Cal has been discussed here before. In general he provides a medium pressure, full body massage. He is a nice guy, friendly, personable and very handsome. I dont recall any negatives apart from those that asked for deep pressure massage - my understanding that isnt really his skillset, but that may have changes. Will be glad to be corrected. Regardless, I would repeat my visit if I had the opportunity.

I have seen some threads on him but no reviews submitted to Daddy. Please do provide a link to any reviews that I may have missed. I am aware of his surgery but have not found him to be either violent or dangerous.

Are you saying he has the same look as the guy in the photos (general body shape, skin tone etc) but it isn’t actual photos of him? That is good to know... Did he provide an erotic massage?

According to the review site he relocated to Fort Lauderdale. He will be missed...

Its officially my first Daddy’s Hat-Trick. I’ve met all 3 guys mentioned on today’s review page! - Justin in Philadelphia - many moons ago (and his photos were outdated then, so by now they are truly ancient!) - Steve Holt of Philadelphia who relocated to Ft Lauderdale (you Laudies are lucky to have him, I may have to visit...) - Peter Hung of Las Vegas - who is an awesome guy; celebrating his 113th review! Anybody else ever have a twofer or hat-trick on the daily reviews???

It is fine to say that we should not judge others - I try not to, but sometimes we have no choice but to consider the impact of their actions. As an example, a few years ago I had an employee and became aware that he was cheating on his wife. The employee was in a position of trust. I had no choice but to take into account his actions and ask myself: he is lying to his wife (he admitted it and they did not have an ‘open’ marriage) and he has demonstrated that he cannot be trusted in a material respect, how can I not question his character and suitability for this role in the business? If he ended up abusing the trust and the business got sued, my judgment could be questioned for being aware of this ‘character flaw’ and not acting. To make it even harder, by this time I had known the employee for many years and considered him a friend - as in, we had lunch together most work days. Ultimately I had to sit him down and explain that he would not have any future career prospects and I would advise him to seek employment elsewhere... Not a fun experience. To this day I believe I acted appropriately. You may disagree.

Will freely admit that I dont always understand other people’s choices. Nor do I know what is right for others or feel obligated to judge. Treat others as you want to be treated has never steered me wrong. Can only say that this arrangement wouldnt work for me. I take my commitments and contractual agreements seriously - a marriage is both. Keeping the women in the dark is clearly dishonest and contrary to the commitment and contractual agreement of marriage, as I see it. No thank you. I would not ‘out’ the guys and I would not lie for them. Now what about the women though... Putting myself in the woman’s shoes, how would I feel if I found out 10 years from now that my husband was cheating on me. That my friends (i assume you are a friend?) knew and couldn’t bother to tell me that my husband was cheating and making a fool of me in the process by pretending to be loyal etc. Boy, a lot of pain there... I wont call this a good situation.

Looked at him before but his profile is confusing: states that he likes simplicity and to review details listed, but he does not list anything under “I am into” on his profile that I could see. Discussed here before under a number of names: https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/411-on-riley-durden-nyc.103413/ https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/411-on-durden-in-ny.130484/#post-1399394 He’s been around for a while.

There was a discussion about him a while ago here: https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/goldenmasseur-nyc.139745/

I remember seeing some videos on YouTube where Dr Oz discussed the concept. You may find it interesting. I have not considered it - does feel like a gimmick to me. Of course, I don't blindly follow Dr Oz's advice, whatever it may be. Remember the show where John Oliver discussed Dr Oz's bogus advice around supplements: Let the buyer beware - plenty of snake oil left out there!

My price range is pretty wide - I make allowances for the location I am in, whether I am hosting or not AND what I am looking for (massage vs whatever). Usually I look to schedule 90 minutes- - I am usually pretty detailed about what I am looking for, but not explicit, if you know what I mean... Nothing wrong with your response - I find it reasonable.

You sound surprised... Why? Does it sound too frequent or not frequent enough from your point of view? I get a massage at least once a month. I have a masseur that I schedule (my ‘regular’) for this. So 12 times a year seem reasonable.