Michael Paul

I think I would too. I have my profile set to invisibility, but when I'm planning to contact someone, I will change it to visible, and visit their profile, just to see if they will reach out to me first. So far it's never happened.

I like it when escorts say hello on RM.

This was a topic in another thread. I believe the consensus was most clients didn't like the unwarranted message.
 
Response to OP. I haven't searched for a client.

I’m like the old-lady-with-a-dozen-cats who holds the Mormon door-knocker as a conversational hostage.

the escort has contacted me first a few times after I have looked at their profile. Which I think is a little odd,

No

Being contacted on Rentmen it's fine.
I'd rather not being called or texted by an escort I have never met, though.

I'll gladly "support" them....

someone's gonna need extra support as they age..

Because some guys like to bareback!
 
Are you using condoms for blowjobs? Because if not, you can easily contract and spread all the STIs you mentioned from oral sex. That's not a risk SPECIFIC to bareback anal sex.
 
If guys are asking you to bareback when your profiles clearly state that you DON'T, then I certainly empathise with you though. It's never acceptable for a client to push your boundaries when you've already said NO.
 
But at the end of the day, your safer sex preferences are not superior to anyone else's. We all make choices about which risks we want to take and which we don't. You can justify your choices and condemn someone else's by citing STI risks, but in reality no penetrative sex (including oral) is truly safe. The best we can do is choose the types of protection that make us feel at peace with our choices.
 
And you are NOT competing with escorts who bareback for clients who are exclusively interested in barebacking. Those clients will find what they want regardless. If you don't provide the service that they are looking for, they will move onto someone else because that's what people do.
 
If the exchanges are annoying you then I would recommend making it exceedingly clear in all your marketing that you don't BB and don't want to be asked about it. Consider anyone who asks you to reconsider to be a boundary-pusher and delete them without responding. Problem solved.

Nope, there are absolutely no limitations! Joking of course. Depending on position, anything over 8 is gonna be close to your colon. I recommend you get some toys in order to figure out what length hits where. Also, you don't have to take every inch on every thrust. Let the guy know what feels best for you.

I’m so lonely right now, if I could afford it, I’d pay a high price for any attention from one if these hunks I see on this site. Just a hug, a long embrace, s kiss and a comforting word would be heaven. Just to lay there and hear him breath and smell him would complete me and give me fantasies to last a lifetime. If my equipment pleased him a little that would just be the icing on the cake.

More than a Mouthful.....Is Heavenly
 
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How about, "Dear God" or "Lordy!"

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Perhaps, but think of what their alternative is..... Older, overweight guys with 3 inchers, saggy asses and man-boobs.... So a nice big cock is the Holy Grail.

This is for the Escorts that have a booked client. Everything is set, what the client expects, time and place. When that day arrives. I usually text or email them several hours before to confirm our appointment The client tell you everything is a still on, and will give you the address closer to our appointment time. You pick out your clothes, shower, shave and do everything to be "Ready " for the reason you were hired.. Only to have that client not respond to any further communication.
 
Why is so difficult for a client to let the escort know something has changed and they will not be able to keep our appointment.....

I'm no dummy. Its a roundtrip...I thought that went without saying..... did I really need to specify that?... I do have enough business sense & common sense to not pay for such a trip............In any event, Im looking forward to it.

And remember, if your "big dick" needs a little boost..... Dont hesitate! (he'll never Know )
 

If you are as "gifted" as you claim, you will do splendidly out in the Gay world... We gay men are shallow and LOVE big dicks... Just dont be a dick about it, and we'll gobble you up !

I had one no-show in 15 years, but several no-show/no further contact-types in the past three years. It's one reason I feel some of our hobby has taken on the quirks and ickiness of grindr.

I can’t think of any incident where a client canceled at the last minute. I have had more than a few who have canceled with a reasonable amount of notice. The thing I noticed though is how unwell clients’ relatives seem to be. Often a sick or dying relative in another state whom they have to go visit is the reason they give. But the most common reason given is work. Something came up and they unexpectedly have to work. It’s not typical that a client cancels, so it doesn’t really bother me much when it happens.

"May I be of service to you?"