Epigonos

Well here is my two cents worth and most likely that's exactly what it's worth. Your three boys are very bright. To know that one only has to look at the institutions of higher education they are attending or will be attending. I assume you have NOT been dating women since your wife died. My guess is that your boys already know or at least suspect. Some of our more militant members here probably won't agree with me regarding what I'm about to say. Were I you I would do exactly what you have already stated "by joining DC's gay basketball league or some such thing". I really don't see the need for some dramatic declaration. When THEY are ready to ask they will ask and then again I would do what you have said you will NOT LIE. I sincerely believe a low key approach here is probably best.

Well here is my two cents worth and most likely that's exactly what it's worth. Your three boys are very bright. To know that one only has to look at the institutions of higher education they are attending or will be attending. I assume you have NOT been dating women since your wife died. My guess is that your boys already know or at least suspect. Some of our more militant members here probably won't agree with me regarding what I'm about to say. Were I you I would do exactly what you have already stated "by joining DC's gay basketball league or some such thing". I really don't see the need for some dramatic declaration. When THEY are ready to ask they will ask and then again I would do what you have said you will NOT LIE. I sincerely believe a low key approach here is probably best.

Well here is my two cents worth and most likely that's exactly what it's worth. Your three boys are very bright. To know that one only has to look at the institutions of higher education they are attending or will be attending. I assume you have NOT been dating women since your wife died. My guess is that your boys already know or at least suspect. Some of our more militant members here probably won't agree with me regarding what I'm about to say. Were I you I would do exactly what you have already stated "by joining DC's gay basketball league or some such thing". I really don't see the need for some dramatic declaration. When THEY are ready to ask they will ask and then again I would do what you have said you will NOT LIE. I sincerely believe a low key approach here is probably best.

Well here is my two cents worth and most likely that's exactly what it's worth. Your three boys are very bright. To know that one only has to look at the institutions of higher education they are attending or will be attending. I assume you have NOT been dating women since your wife died. My guess is that your boys already know or at least suspect. Some of our more militant members here probably won't agree with me regarding what I'm about to say. Were I you I would do exactly what you have already stated "by joining DC's gay basketball league or some such thing". I really don't see the need for some dramatic declaration. When THEY are ready to ask they will ask and then again I would do what you have said you will NOT LIE. I sincerely believe a low key approach here is probably best.

As a dad who has been through this moment, I absolutely agree. I knew the time had come to come out to my son, and I did. He just hugged and kissed me and gave me a "yeah. Okay" look! It was a real non event. Nothing changed between us.

Well here is my two cents worth and most likely that's exactly what it's worth. Your three boys are very bright. To know that one only has to look at the institutions of higher education they are attending or will be attending. I assume you have NOT been dating women since your wife died. My guess is that your boys already know or at least suspect. Some of our more militant members here probably won't agree with me regarding what I'm about to say. Were I you I would do exactly what you have already stated "by joining DC's gay basketball league or some such thing". I really don't see the need for some dramatic declaration. When THEY are ready to ask they will ask and then again I would do what you have said you will NOT LIE. I sincerely believe a low key approach here is probably best.

Well here is my two cents worth and most likely that's exactly what it's worth. Your three boys are very bright. To know that one only has to look at the institutions of higher education they are attending or will be attending. I assume you have NOT been dating women since your wife died. My guess is that your boys already know or at least suspect. Some of our more militant members here probably won't agree with me regarding what I'm about to say. Were I you I would do exactly what you have already stated "by joining DC's gay basketball league or some such thing". I really don't see the need for some dramatic declaration. When THEY are ready to ask they will ask and then again I would do what you have said you will NOT LIE. I sincerely believe a low key approach here is probably best.

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I would like to very humbly state, with tears in my eyes, what a joy, and an honor it is to be an active member of this site. When I read some of the loving responses on this thread I realize what a great bunch of guys many of you are and what a great thing it is to be a part of this family. My heartfelt love to you all.

me, too.....that deep southern accent and fantastic body......
 
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I would like to very humbly state, with tears in my eyes, what a joy, and an honor it is to be an active member of this site. When I read some of the loving responses on this thread I realize what a great bunch of guys many of you are and what a great thing it is to be a part of this family. My heartfelt love to you all.

I can scarcely imagine how hard it must have been to begin this conversation in the forum, with no idea whether the response would be positive, negative or 'meh'. I would like to think that the positive response was a foregone conclusion but in some things I'm pessimistic. You have lightened up our lives. We have enjoyed your joys and shared your disappointments vicariously and we are the better for it. I shed a tear at the thought of your son quietly crying in the back seat of the car, and another at his going to sleep in his brother's bed, and I do so again writing this. You encapsulated the pathos and the beauty of those moments.
 
I don't know what MIDN Basketballer meant when he said 'Be Happy', but the implicit love in that murmured statement was clear. Don't presume that he has seen through you, neither assume that he hasn't. That will become clear. Just let things play out as they will. Hugs, big time!

I would like to very humbly state, with tears in my eyes, what a joy, and an honor it is to be an active member of this site. When I read some of the loving responses on this thread I realize what a great bunch of guys many of you are and what a great thing it is to be a part of this family. My heartfelt love to you all.

I would like to very humbly state, with tears in my eyes, what a joy, and an honor it is to be an active member of this site. When I read some of the loving responses on this thread I realize what a great bunch of guys many of you are and what a great thing it is to be a part of this family. My heartfelt love to you all.

Wonderful! I shed a tear of joy both for your happiness and your sadness. Do consider joining us in Palm Springs in the spring. I would love to meet you

I would like to very humbly state, with tears in my eyes, what a joy, and an honor it is to be an active member of this site. When I read some of the loving responses on this thread I realize what a great bunch of guys many of you are and what a great thing it is to be a part of this family. My heartfelt love to you all.

I would like to very humbly state, with tears in my eyes, what a joy, and an honor it is to be an active member of this site. When I read some of the loving responses on this thread I realize what a great bunch of guys many of you are and what a great thing it is to be a part of this family. My heartfelt love to you all.

In my case it's definitely NOT a deal breaker. I have gotten together with numerous escort without seeing a face picture. I also agree with BabyBoomer it most definitely would NOT be a problem in YOUR case.

I would like to very humbly state, with tears in my eyes, what a joy, and an honor it is to be an active member of this site. When I read some of the loving responses on this thread I realize what a great bunch of guys many of you are and what a great thing it is to be a part of this family. My heartfelt love to you all.

I would like to very humbly state, with tears in my eyes, what a joy, and an honor it is to be an active member of this site. When I read some of the loving responses on this thread I realize what a great bunch of guys many of you are and what a great thing it is to be a part of this family. My heartfelt love to you all.

I would like to very humbly state, with tears in my eyes, what a joy, and an honor it is to be an active member of this site. When I read some of the loving responses on this thread I realize what a great bunch of guys many of you are and what a great thing it is to be a part of this family. My heartfelt love to you all.

I would like to very humbly state, with tears in my eyes, what a joy, and an honor it is to be an active member of this site. When I read some of the loving responses on this thread I realize what a great bunch of guys many of you are and what a great thing it is to be a part of this family. My heartfelt love to you all.

You have no idea how much I'm enjoying being a "vicarious Dad" through you.
 
It's been eye opening, moving, and something I never expected from these boards.
 
Thank you.

In my case it's definitely NOT a deal breaker. I have gotten together with numerous escort without seeing a face picture. I also agree with BabyBoomer it most definitely would NOT be a problem in YOUR case.