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Escorts: how far in advance do you like clients to contact you about a meeting? Or, to put it another way: how far in advance is TOO far?

This about sums it up for me: https://www.t-nation.com/powerful-words/oil-bags-rise-of-the-idiots.

Um, no. A particularly clumsy and outrageous use of synthol or some other “site enhancement” oil. Pretty common among bodybuilders, and can be really effective if used selectively and smartly, but THIS—this is just ... no.

The correct URL is https://rent.men/KenMaster, but the ad is gone.

Thanks for sharing this, yours is a voice we need to hear. It strikes me that this attitude in younger folks has always been at the heart of sex work, and it’s wonderful to see it now going mainstream.

Obvs, but it’s something I prefer not to do on a “first date,” for a lot of reasons.

I really want to hire https://rentmen.eu/BruceBeckham and https://rentmen.eu/KyleStrong one of these days, but they can’t host, and neither can I.

All this. The one guy I see regularly presents as a big, straight gym bro-type, but he’s actually quite versatile—perfect combo for me. I didn’t connect with him on rent.men, so I had (and have) no idea what his real orientation might be, or what he claims to other clients, but what little he says about his private life leads me to believe he’s straight. I love not knowing this for sure—I find the ambiguity erotic, and it sustains the fantasy.

Hubba!

Huh. I only really know the NYC scene, so can’t say how it differs elsewhere, but a number of guys I’ve met here have reached out afterwards, kept in touch, let me know about travel schedules, etc. But that applies to visitors as well as to local providers; so really, I’m inclined to think that the tendency to “cultivate” good clients is based more on individual provider personality and business philosophy, and less on geography. Interesting question, though, and I hope we’ll see other responses.

The quote has been investigated here: https://quoteinvestigator.com/2012/08/02/gandhi-customer/, and yeah, almost certainly not by Gandhi. But back to the topic at hand: Eric is exactly right about the “regularization” process, at least as it applies to me. I sort of woke up one morning and realized that I’d been seeing the same guy every 2 or 3 weeks for the past 6 months, and that, without planning it, or discussing it with my provider, I had become a “regular.” In some ways I feel like I’ve been (and am being) groomed for the role. Usually it’s my provider who gets in touch, asks me how I am, sends me a couple of jaw-dropping photos, and the next step is an appointment in our favorite seedy motel. My experience with escorts is limited, but this strikes me as a slightly unusual business model. Of course, I’m sure my guy appreciates the steady income; and for my part, it turns me on when he takes the initiative—so I am more than willing to be groomed!

Good hair, tho.

I was talking about his body, but what I said about the size and quality of his muscle might apply to his dick as well!

I’ve seen Avi Dar a number of times. On the pro side, he’s huge as f**k, in great, ripped shape whenever I’ve seen him. And he is certainly 5’8” as advertised, or pretty damn close—NOT 5’5”. I’m 6’ and he’s not that much shorter than me—not that we ever spent much time in height comparison. The only downside is a purely personal one, of chemistry—he OUGHT to drive me insane with lust, but we just don’t seem to click. Shame, because he’s really sweet, and up for pretty much anything. I recommend him highly!

What FigureSkater said. I didn’t exactly “fall” for my first escort, but I did think about him a little obsessively, and it took two (not terribly satisfactory) additional sessions with him to get him out of my head. In retrospect, “imprint” seems exactly the right term for it.

I haven’t seen him yet, but he has told me that he would charge extra to travel to my place in the Bronx.

Thanks for all the useful feedback, guys! Unexpectedly, I see that https://rentmen.eu/gianluigivolti is going to be in London while I’m there. Taking into account the somewhat mixed reviews, I just can’t resist the hotness, and I’ve set up an appointment—wish me luck!

I texted him about some possible dates in mid September when he and I are both back in NYC. Looking forward to meeting him!

Thanks, OceanTraveller! Unfortunately it looks like FabioGiovannini and I will just miss each other in London, but I’ll definitely keep SebastianMx in mind.

I’ll be in London for just one day in the mddle of September, so I’d like to make this count. I’ve widened my pool from RM to include the SleepyBoy and Best Flex sites, and so far am considering the following: https://www.thebestflex.com/profile/HULK89 https://rentmen.eu/MuscleBlondTed https://rent.men/hungmuscletop I would love to hook up with https://rentmen.eu/gianluigivolti, but he’s in Manila now, with no word on when (or if) he might return to London, and his RM profile has expired. Anybody got contact info for him, or know his travel plans? Any personal experiences with any of the above, please let me know!

Hi guys, Heading to the UK in a week, and will be in London and free to party for just one night, Saturday 9/15. Thanks to you filthy animals I have a good sense of the muscle readily available through RM, but I’m also interested in bodybuilders/muscle guys who advertise elsewhere, or not at all. Any particular favorites who fly under the radar?

I have only ever taken photos of an escort at the escort’s own request. That always comes as a bit of a surprise—I’m shy about pushing the discretion envelope in that way—but it has happened more than once. And with one muscle-guy I see regularly, it has become a routine (and kinda steamy) part of our sessions.

Ironically, part of the fun (for both of us, I think) is playing our respective professional roles—serious fitness-minded. client and dedicated no-nonsense trainer—to perfection in the gym, all the while knowing that we’ll be indulging in a certain amount of raucous filthy UNprofessional behavior afterwards ...

Well, he’s a regular — we’re pretty well acquainted, and by this time he knows (or I hope he knows) that I’m a) discreet, and b) very, very serious about fitness. Our one workout together so far was at his neighborhood gym, and our interaction was I think friendly but professional. FWIW, I already have a trainer that I’ve been with for years, so I don’t plan on hiring my other guy on any regular basis. But I found it a fun experience, and I hope he’ll feel comfortable repeating it occasionally.

My point exactly. And there are all kinds of ways this might go south, theoretically. I could get inappropriately attached, which would be awkward for both of us; in the workout he could treat me like an escort client (flatter me, make me feel good about myself) instead of a PT client (push me, challenge me physically), which would frustrate me and make me feel condescended to. I don’t think these are serious risks in this particular case, but there you are.