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Um, based on his dick pics, that seems unlikely, but somebody with a better idea of the current state of F to M transition procedures should weigh in.

Good to know—thank you!

My trainer has a background in physical rehab, but I was 55 when we started, and it’s taken him (and me) the better part of five years to get it all back. It’s by far the hardest thing I’ve ever done physically, but I continue to make gains in strength, size and flexibility, so I don’t see any reason to stop now!

Totally agree. A long period of inactivity left me with some physical issues, and as I tried to get back into training I had a lot of people—including doctors—tell me I couldn’t possibly regain functionality in one area or another. Like @Rudynate, I needed a trainer to help get me past the mental obstacles to rehabbing those old injuries, let him convince me that I COULD achieve full range of motion in my shoulder, that I COULD deadlift without breaking in half, etc.

Details?

Hyperbole, sure. But the larger truth is that if you rely on others to motivate you, if you don’t eventually come to love training for its own sake, you likely won’t stick with it.

This is a semantics issue, maybe. You define “motivation” one way. My definition goes more like this: https://www.t-nation.com/training/tip-stop-looking-for-motivation

No: my trainer PUSHES me—to do five more reps, to up the intensity on the next set, to put more weight on the bar. He doesn’t motivate me, that is, he doesn’t MAKE me WANT to do those things. I don’t need external stimulus or assistance to be in the gym x times a week, or to work hard when I’m there. He recognizes that I am already pretty intensely self-motivated, and that what I need is guidance—how many more reps is enough to grow, how much faster should I take that next circuit, how much more weight should I add—which includes that push to do more than I think I can. C’mon, man—you’re a gym rat, this has to be familiar to you!

Can’t tell if you were referring to my post or not, but I didn’t mention motivation. For whatever reason, I don’t need to persuade myself, or need others to persuade me — “motivate” me — to workout. But I do need somebody who can help me channel my own inner drive and intensity regarding exercise. I do the work, my trainer shows me how to do it more effectively. Unfortunately I’m not always very smart about things like “resting.”

Theoretically, sure. But I prefer to work out with somebody who knows more than I do. I don’t need motivation, or companionship (I got plenty of both, thanks) so much as expertise.

Human beings are complicated, and I believe that escorts and clients can connect in ways that are not purely transactional. BUT — I think it is important to always keep commerce in mind. Yes, he may enjoy sex with you, and he may genuinely like you. But no, the relationship will probably not not survive without a regular infusion of cash.

If you can afford it, a trainer is key. Workout by workout, my trainer consistently pushes me just a few percentage points past what I think I can do, and that’s where growth happens, whether “growth” is shape, size, or functionality. Left to myself, I’ll push myself hard, but not always smartly, or in the right direction; so a good trainer will not only challenge you, he’ll also know when to apply the brakes.

I don’t care if he’s “educated” or “educate,” if real, he’s one smokin’ hot motherfucker. Anybody seen him?

I’m attending with a very large friend. Any of you other muscle-obsessed guys planning to go?

Wow — hope he travels to NYC sometime!

Ha! I was just thinking that myself.

Those Cassinelli movies are a stitch. To each muscle fetishist his own, I guess, but if I had an hour or two to play with that amazing mountain of beef, I’d choose a VERY different menu of activities!

LOL somebody should tell hot, ripped muscle man https://rentmen.eu/Gregoo that listing his body type as “chubby” may limit his client base ...

Hot couple—I’ve followed them on IG for a while now, and I’m intrigued to see that they are now escorting. They’re coming to NYC in June, maybe I’ll splurge ...

In the scenes where he bottoms I see evidence, not just of anal pleasure, but of broader erotic enjoyment—for instance, he really seems to get off on his partners’ bodies as he’s fucking/being fucked; and there’s a lot of deep eye contact, and passionate kissing. Good acting? Maybe, but evidence suggests that he’s into it. VERY into it.

REALLY hot body, but I’m also not a fan of his cock—looks like he might have gone a bit overboard on the vacuum pump? But here’s the boy in action. You decide! http://www.fuckindudes.com/pierce-paris-jay-dymel-room-106-falcon-studios/

I’ve only had that happen once. I was a little taken aback, but in the end it didn’t turn me off, or ruin the session. It did keep me from hiring the guy again right away, even though he was (and is) hot af. But when I broke down and hired him again last week it didn’t come up, whether because he’d wised up in the intervening year (he was pretty young, and apparently new to the business when I first saw him) or was just hornier that day, I can’t tell.

Whoa—definitely going on the Buddy List, and here’s hoping he makes it to NYC one of these days!

Reached out to him, he’s in the area for the summer, I’ll take the first opportunity I can to see him. YOWZA.

Haven’t seen any of them, but would test-drive https://rent.men/Dilancristian/#platinum if only to see WTAF he means by his profile: “smelling of milk owner of a beautiful dowry is ready to satisfy you between four walls”