LaffingBear

I suspect you're correct.

Usually too skeptical, I rarely join/subscribe/pay for internet content. Curiosity won out.... I joined one only fans account. After 6-7 days, I saw that content was just fair, and sparsely updated... perhaps a new post every other day. Ive unsubscribed..... a process which means no renewal, but continued access for the remainder of the 30-day subscription period. Now a message appears on the hosts page. Translated "For reasons of problems with the collection of the website Only Fans my profile will be discharged until I receive my payment. I apologize to everyone and thank you for your support." I think that means the host isnt getting his money from onlyfans. Except, if you're not subscribed, you cant see that message. And the links from twitter remain active. And the host's Twitter continues to report new subscribers. Imagine subscribing to see a message that the page is "on-hold" The experience simply reinforced my determination to never waste money for online content.

No idea. Conventional interpretations no longer apply. We live in a very reactive world, fueled by electronic communications. Humans no longer bother to consider the info before them... they see a brief electronic squib, don't consider accuracy or application, dont pause to heed fundamentals.... and just react.

In 2018, its not too much to believe anything.... even corn sex...... http://cdn2.holytaco.com/wp-content/uploads/images/2010/corn-vibrator.jpg

I'd agree that the internet is having an effect on strip clubs. For some patrons, preferable to sit home in private, searching through a menu of guys. And, considering the "work for tips-only" policy of many strip clubs, why wouldnt a performer prefer a safer, less invasive setup where he can get $3 to $5 a minute or more.... and just sit there, not bumping & grinding, until someone's paying? Tech also adds the options of Grindr and similar apps.... less dependence on thrill of a dancer, or the video arcades, etc. Add in that, while theres still progress to be made, being gay is less taboo. That is having an effect on gay strip clubs, gay bars, all-gay cruises, the need for gloryholes, etc.

LOL Where else but social media can we see someone post a threat to punch people in the throat, with the signature "hugs"?

No. Havent heard that one. I'd infer that an escort citing flu fears as a reason not to kiss is using it as an excuse. With all of the contact and proximity, its akin to saying "I dont want to get wet" and trying to avoid the stream from only one tiny nozzle on a showerhead. Really... they'll lay on top of each other. They'll breathe all over each other. Maybe licking, rubbing, grinding, touching, etc etc. If he says those words, he doesnt want to kiss that particular client.

I am almost embarrassed to admit my passion for a trendy pop-culture hit. But this current social media sensation is in my head.

My answer would be based on my interests. I honestly can't think of one city where I'd want to spend an entire week. .. So I'd think regionally. Like the southwest. The Utah national parks. The Grand Staircase of Bryce Cyn, Zion, Grand Canyon and Vegas. Santa Fe & up to SW Colorado. A few days in San Diego, a few in Palm Springs. Maui. Id say same about Boston & New England, but not in late March.

Dont get hung up on labels. You're a pussy-loving, man-muscle fan. Better yet... you're you. A female wife is not the only path to kids and a family. As long as youre safe, and honest with yourself and the world around you, dont get hung up on norms. You could live with a man, and father children with a woman, with an active parenting role. You could adopt. The right woman could agree to live with, bear and raise children with you, and be very open minded if you have occassional male sexual needs. How would you feel if you married a woman, and she told you she wanted lesbian sex occassionally? In your 20s... dont obsess over fitting into societal boxes.... be yourself.

Go. What have you got to lose? Maybe you'll make a new friend or acquaintance. Maybe you'll just add some activity to a Sunday that you report is unscheduled. Maybe he simply enjoys the company of people who admire his physique. If things develop in a manner you don't like, leave. If he suggests a compensated session, make a yes-no decision. And, if, by some chance, you're wondering "what if things get frisky, and then he tells me I owe $$$?" if that wasn't clear up-front, just leave. If there are odd suggestive comments before things get started, ask him to clarify. If it was me... I wouldn't break existing plans because I developed a fantasy scenario of what might happen. But I'd definitely go if I had no other plans.

Was this a revelation? I check A4A perhaps twice per week. Most common in my inbox.... users who contacted me from other locations.... with a system note that they're a "suspended user." I could host a massive orgy if everyone named "suspended user" would attend.

I noticed it too. Assumed it would get reported and corrected.

Live. What does anyone do as they transition through life?

I had a similar situation. Although no sleuthing was involved. The rentguy overtly stated that he wanted to be 100% private and anonymous. Even asked me once if I had looked through his phone when he went to the restaurant bathroom. Except, he was pretty bad at remembering to be careful with his identity, and by the third visit, I knew his full name, his other occupation, the city he lived in, etc. All because of his actions, not because I went looking. I considered telling him. Even if only as cautionary advice. I never did. And, to this day, never told anyone, not even referring to his pro-name on boards such as these. Ultimately, I was sorry I knew. Except a very small part of me thought it might prove to be handy information if things went sideways. (We were driving through the San Francisco Civic Center, windows open, when a homeless guy stuck his head into my car, startling the rentguy in the passenger seat. He was not only startled, he flashed anger, and as I started to drive on, the rentguy wanted to jump out of the car and engage the homeless guy. I had to restrain him, and cautioned him "if that lunatic picks up a rock and throws it at my car because of you, its coming out of your fee!" It was after that incident that I considered knowing his personal info as a 99.9% unlikely to be used safety net.

As a client, I feel the same in practical terms. We pay for time. Over the years, Ive had guys ask for a few minutes to make a call, use the bathroom, shower as they just finished a workout, finish something on their laptop, etc. So, to be a little more precise... its when the rentguy's ready to spend time with me - whether we're sitting and talking, or....... If Im hosting, I always offer use of my shower after. With a few exceptions, clock-watching has rarely been an issue in my experiences. Most guys spend a bit more than the alotted time when all is said and done. And Ive had guys choose to spend alot more time just hanging out, going for a meal, etc.

Damn! Stole my post-idea!

I'd consider an older quote on Daddys applicable. A major lapse, like 5 years, I might wonder about reasons. The RM reviews I disregard entirely. I've seen RM guys using fake pics.....yet several RM reviews say they match their photos.

Hmmm... feels odd to answer this one. Three guys total One guy was a disaster.. One guy was fantastic, but he quit the biz a few days after I saw him, and One guy.... I could extoll the highs, but there were lows. So... theres no one whose name I would share, qualifying for this post.

And now, you can see her when she goes on tour this Spring. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jItGxg8vafk

I have a personal rule.... if Sweetbreads are available, I order them. Love escargot. Good onion soup. I dont know what red deer is. Venison? Dont recognize the wine.... is it a bordeaux? I think the last time I had salad made tableside was La Grenouille... decades ago. Or was that Tartare?

For that exact reason, I pay no attention to the term. I have no expectations of anything specific when I read that someone offers BFE. I will ask about specifics. And, if I become a repeat customer, seeking lengthier appointments, I may specify an interest in additional behaviors - some things some people consider BFE behaviors.

Same answer, but for different reasons. Stop pursuing the guy who, after indicating interest, has, in actuality, been a source of frustration. I'm projecting, but I tend to believe that, sometimes, as clients, we get stuck considering the possibility of an outstanding meeting. Even after all indications are that it won't happen. And we prolong our frustration. Go with the tried and true. Don't bother to initiate contact with the other guy --- not even to say that you're no longer available. You'll derive no happiness from the effort. Now, if he suddenly contacts you after his non-communicative behavior.... then you can tell him, "can't do it, but maybe another time."

Hope youve contacted your credit card carrier, opened a dispute, and initiated a chargeback.

Bitchy people on the internet?! Who'd have thunk it!?!?!? Seriously.... admonishing people to behave in a particular manner online, or to comply with organizational setup... has zero chance of succeeding. So, I wouldnt advise you its a "dick move" @Tarte Gogo, just futile.