Pepper Young

Assuming you're in the US, protect yourself using all legal means (wink, wink).

No one makes lemon chicken anymore? I made it just the other day. Chicken Cacciatore is a staple in my kitchen. Coq au vin. Mmm, coq... Chicken a la King. Gross. Chicken stroganoff? Yeah, no one makes it because it doesn't exist.

First, I never negotiate. It seems uncouth and desperate to ask for a discount. If I don't like the price, end of discussion. There's plenty of fish in the sea. Second, what's worth having is worth paying for, often at full price (this rule applies to a lot of things in life).

I contacted a provider in Phoenix (!) who quoted me $375/hr. No way. I stopped responding (which is a response) to his texts and deleted them. I noticed he no longer advertises but his OF is still updating. While I'm all for these guys making a living, I'm also aware that as a client I have control of the process and can step away if I don't like the rates or attitude of the provider.

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I achieved the American Dream by inheriting it from my parents.

$1200/hr? Someone thinks well of themselves. Pass.

No experience with him, but holy cow! My type of man!

I'm sorry. I just don't get the "pup" thing. Like the dog mask does nothing for me. I can understand other kinks but this one completely escapes me. Please advise.

I definitely look at reviews. I look at the average. Since you can't please all the people all the time, I look for an average of 4.7 or greater. Anything less than that is a red flag. I look at the date of the last review. Was it two years ago? Pass. Are there no reviews even though the provider has been advertising for a while? Red flag. It's all part of the vetting process.

This guy, right here! This guy gets it! 👏

If you're concerned about future employers finding out you escorted, then don't do it. While I personally think escorting and sex work are legitimate jobs (sex work = work), a lot of employers probably don't. But, to be honest, I'm not sure a background check will pick up on escorting, especially if you use a pseudonym and have no face pics in your profile. Let us know if you decide to post an ad!

Hard pass on this one.

I agree. I've seen responses and posts that are snarky and mean. Their usual defense is to say it was just a joke, or meant in fun. They're jerks. Ignore them. Move on.

Because the apps are trash. Bars are dead. Cruising the park has no appeal. Hiring gets me exactly what I want, when I want, and with who I want.