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You talk, you text? You get thrown out
 

As @poolboy48220 said, you don't generally want to contact an escort far in advance. I'm not an escort, but I do sometimes contact an escort early to be sure I get on their list for a trip. I don't want to miss a chance I just contacted one escort to get on the visiting list 3 weeks before he would be in a city I will be in at the same time. Being clear that you are doing so should relieve the escort of time-wasting questions. You might want to ask when he wants to set up the date time for the meeting.
 
Since you're new, and have had at least one 'misdial', I'd suggest trying an email in or out of an escort site (I prefer starting with the Rent.Men internal mail system to start a conversation). If you text, I start with something that doesn't make it look like I'm contacting an escort. So if the working name is "BestEverEscort", I'll start with "Hey, BestEver, is this you?" Many have some name (Lucas, Mark, whatever - check their profile), so you can use that. When they respond, I say that I'd like to visit them and suggest a date and time. When I'm doing this, I mention that I'm pretty vanilla. If they don't have prices listed, I'll ask on it. Not wanting to say "How much for you to pound me into next week?" I say something like "I know your time if valuable, what is your fee for an hour?" You should mention anything special you want, or that you want to be sure happens. For example "I really like to kiss, is that good with you?" Keep it to as few message as possible.
 
Once the date is set, I'll send a text a few days before just to confirm. Than another the day of, usually in the morning. So "Just a reminder that I'm looking forward to seeing you at 6 tonight."
 
Escorts get a lot of messages, so there is a high chance concise messages (and polite) messages would be better received. Take a few minutes to get all your questions out rather than a lot of them.
 
It is possible they will text a bit back to you, if so, it's fine to respond. @VictorPowers has recently agreed to see me in a few weeks. He's a nice guy and sent a few messages after we set the time that made me feel great. I always responded, but when he broke off, so did I. It's just further proof of what a great guy he is.

As @poolboy48220 said, you don't generally want to contact an escort far in advance. I'm not an escort, but I do sometimes contact an escort early to be sure I get on their list for a trip. I don't want to miss a chance I just contacted one escort to get on the visiting list 3 weeks before he would be in a city I will be in at the same time. Being clear that you are doing so should relieve the escort of time-wasting questions. You might want to ask when he wants to set up the date time for the meeting.
 
Since you're new, and have had at least one 'misdial', I'd suggest trying an email in or out of an escort site (I prefer starting with the Rent.Men internal mail system to start a conversation). If you text, I start with something that doesn't make it look like I'm contacting an escort. So if the working name is "BestEverEscort", I'll start with "Hey, BestEver, is this you?" Many have some name (Lucas, Mark, whatever - check their profile), so you can use that. When they respond, I say that I'd like to visit them and suggest a date and time. When I'm doing this, I mention that I'm pretty vanilla. If they don't have prices listed, I'll ask on it. Not wanting to say "How much for you to pound me into next week?" I say something like "I know your time if valuable, what is your fee for an hour?" You should mention anything special you want, or that you want to be sure happens. For example "I really like to kiss, is that good with you?" Keep it to as few message as possible.
 
Once the date is set, I'll send a text a few days before just to confirm. Than another the day of, usually in the morning. So "Just a reminder that I'm looking forward to seeing you at 6 tonight."
 
Escorts get a lot of messages, so there is a high chance concise messages (and polite) messages would be better received. Take a few minutes to get all your questions out rather than a lot of them.
 
It is possible they will text a bit back to you, if so, it's fine to respond. @VictorPowers has recently agreed to see me in a few weeks. He's a nice guy and sent a few messages after we set the time that made me feel great. I always responded, but when he broke off, so did I. It's just further proof of what a great guy he is.

As @poolboy48220 said, you don't generally want to contact an escort far in advance. I'm not an escort, but I do sometimes contact an escort early to be sure I get on their list for a trip. I don't want to miss a chance I just contacted one escort to get on the visiting list 3 weeks before he would be in a city I will be in at the same time. Being clear that you are doing so should relieve the escort of time-wasting questions. You might want to ask when he wants to set up the date time for the meeting.
 
Since you're new, and have had at least one 'misdial', I'd suggest trying an email in or out of an escort site (I prefer starting with the Rent.Men internal mail system to start a conversation). If you text, I start with something that doesn't make it look like I'm contacting an escort. So if the working name is "BestEverEscort", I'll start with "Hey, BestEver, is this you?" Many have some name (Lucas, Mark, whatever - check their profile), so you can use that. When they respond, I say that I'd like to visit them and suggest a date and time. When I'm doing this, I mention that I'm pretty vanilla. If they don't have prices listed, I'll ask on it. Not wanting to say "How much for you to pound me into next week?" I say something like "I know your time if valuable, what is your fee for an hour?" You should mention anything special you want, or that you want to be sure happens. For example "I really like to kiss, is that good with you?" Keep it to as few message as possible.
 
Once the date is set, I'll send a text a few days before just to confirm. Than another the day of, usually in the morning. So "Just a reminder that I'm looking forward to seeing you at 6 tonight."
 
Escorts get a lot of messages, so there is a high chance concise messages (and polite) messages would be better received. Take a few minutes to get all your questions out rather than a lot of them.
 
It is possible they will text a bit back to you, if so, it's fine to respond. @VictorPowers has recently agreed to see me in a few weeks. He's a nice guy and sent a few messages after we set the time that made me feel great. I always responded, but when he broke off, so did I. It's just further proof of what a great guy he is.

I have an account and follow Griffin Barrows. He posts quite frequently. I think that would be the key. The cost can add up, and if there isn't a lot of good content, the viewers will leave.
 
Griffin does solos, but has a lot of play dates with men, so it's great seeing that. He's also very enthusiastic, so I get this vibe of him really enjoying it all. So it's all something you are excited to watch.

As @poolboy48220 said, you don't generally want to contact an escort far in advance. I'm not an escort, but I do sometimes contact an escort early to be sure I get on their list for a trip. I don't want to miss a chance I just contacted one escort to get on the visiting list 3 weeks before he would be in a city I will be in at the same time. Being clear that you are doing so should relieve the escort of time-wasting questions. You might want to ask when he wants to set up the date time for the meeting.
 
Since you're new, and have had at least one 'misdial', I'd suggest trying an email in or out of an escort site (I prefer starting with the Rent.Men internal mail system to start a conversation). If you text, I start with something that doesn't make it look like I'm contacting an escort. So if the working name is "BestEverEscort", I'll start with "Hey, BestEver, is this you?" Many have some name (Lucas, Mark, whatever - check their profile), so you can use that. When they respond, I say that I'd like to visit them and suggest a date and time. When I'm doing this, I mention that I'm pretty vanilla. If they don't have prices listed, I'll ask on it. Not wanting to say "How much for you to pound me into next week?" I say something like "I know your time if valuable, what is your fee for an hour?" You should mention anything special you want, or that you want to be sure happens. For example "I really like to kiss, is that good with you?" Keep it to as few message as possible.
 
Once the date is set, I'll send a text a few days before just to confirm. Than another the day of, usually in the morning. So "Just a reminder that I'm looking forward to seeing you at 6 tonight."
 
Escorts get a lot of messages, so there is a high chance concise messages (and polite) messages would be better received. Take a few minutes to get all your questions out rather than a lot of them.
 
It is possible they will text a bit back to you, if so, it's fine to respond. @VictorPowers has recently agreed to see me in a few weeks. He's a nice guy and sent a few messages after we set the time that made me feel great. I always responded, but when he broke off, so did I. It's just further proof of what a great guy he is.

As @poolboy48220 said, you don't generally want to contact an escort far in advance. I'm not an escort, but I do sometimes contact an escort early to be sure I get on their list for a trip. I don't want to miss a chance I just contacted one escort to get on the visiting list 3 weeks before he would be in a city I will be in at the same time. Being clear that you are doing so should relieve the escort of time-wasting questions. You might want to ask when he wants to set up the date time for the meeting.
 
Since you're new, and have had at least one 'misdial', I'd suggest trying an email in or out of an escort site (I prefer starting with the Rent.Men internal mail system to start a conversation). If you text, I start with something that doesn't make it look like I'm contacting an escort. So if the working name is "BestEverEscort", I'll start with "Hey, BestEver, is this you?" Many have some name (Lucas, Mark, whatever - check their profile), so you can use that. When they respond, I say that I'd like to visit them and suggest a date and time. When I'm doing this, I mention that I'm pretty vanilla. If they don't have prices listed, I'll ask on it. Not wanting to say "How much for you to pound me into next week?" I say something like "I know your time if valuable, what is your fee for an hour?" You should mention anything special you want, or that you want to be sure happens. For example "I really like to kiss, is that good with you?" Keep it to as few message as possible.
 
Once the date is set, I'll send a text a few days before just to confirm. Than another the day of, usually in the morning. So "Just a reminder that I'm looking forward to seeing you at 6 tonight."
 
Escorts get a lot of messages, so there is a high chance concise messages (and polite) messages would be better received. Take a few minutes to get all your questions out rather than a lot of them.
 
It is possible they will text a bit back to you, if so, it's fine to respond. @VictorPowers has recently agreed to see me in a few weeks. He's a nice guy and sent a few messages after we set the time that made me feel great. I always responded, but when he broke off, so did I. It's just further proof of what a great guy he is.

As @poolboy48220 said, you don't generally want to contact an escort far in advance. I'm not an escort, but I do sometimes contact an escort early to be sure I get on their list for a trip. I don't want to miss a chance I just contacted one escort to get on the visiting list 3 weeks before he would be in a city I will be in at the same time. Being clear that you are doing so should relieve the escort of time-wasting questions. You might want to ask when he wants to set up the date time for the meeting.
 
Since you're new, and have had at least one 'misdial', I'd suggest trying an email in or out of an escort site (I prefer starting with the Rent.Men internal mail system to start a conversation). If you text, I start with something that doesn't make it look like I'm contacting an escort. So if the working name is "BestEverEscort", I'll start with "Hey, BestEver, is this you?" Many have some name (Lucas, Mark, whatever - check their profile), so you can use that. When they respond, I say that I'd like to visit them and suggest a date and time. When I'm doing this, I mention that I'm pretty vanilla. If they don't have prices listed, I'll ask on it. Not wanting to say "How much for you to pound me into next week?" I say something like "I know your time if valuable, what is your fee for an hour?" You should mention anything special you want, or that you want to be sure happens. For example "I really like to kiss, is that good with you?" Keep it to as few message as possible.
 
Once the date is set, I'll send a text a few days before just to confirm. Than another the day of, usually in the morning. So "Just a reminder that I'm looking forward to seeing you at 6 tonight."
 
Escorts get a lot of messages, so there is a high chance concise messages (and polite) messages would be better received. Take a few minutes to get all your questions out rather than a lot of them.
 
It is possible they will text a bit back to you, if so, it's fine to respond. @VictorPowers has recently agreed to see me in a few weeks. He's a nice guy and sent a few messages after we set the time that made me feel great. I always responded, but when he broke off, so did I. It's just further proof of what a great guy he is.

As @poolboy48220 said, you don't generally want to contact an escort far in advance. I'm not an escort, but I do sometimes contact an escort early to be sure I get on their list for a trip. I don't want to miss a chance I just contacted one escort to get on the visiting list 3 weeks before he would be in a city I will be in at the same time. Being clear that you are doing so should relieve the escort of time-wasting questions. You might want to ask when he wants to set up the date time for the meeting.
 
Since you're new, and have had at least one 'misdial', I'd suggest trying an email in or out of an escort site (I prefer starting with the Rent.Men internal mail system to start a conversation). If you text, I start with something that doesn't make it look like I'm contacting an escort. So if the working name is "BestEverEscort", I'll start with "Hey, BestEver, is this you?" Many have some name (Lucas, Mark, whatever - check their profile), so you can use that. When they respond, I say that I'd like to visit them and suggest a date and time. When I'm doing this, I mention that I'm pretty vanilla. If they don't have prices listed, I'll ask on it. Not wanting to say "How much for you to pound me into next week?" I say something like "I know your time if valuable, what is your fee for an hour?" You should mention anything special you want, or that you want to be sure happens. For example "I really like to kiss, is that good with you?" Keep it to as few message as possible.
 
Once the date is set, I'll send a text a few days before just to confirm. Than another the day of, usually in the morning. So "Just a reminder that I'm looking forward to seeing you at 6 tonight."
 
Escorts get a lot of messages, so there is a high chance concise messages (and polite) messages would be better received. Take a few minutes to get all your questions out rather than a lot of them.
 
It is possible they will text a bit back to you, if so, it's fine to respond. @VictorPowers has recently agreed to see me in a few weeks. He's a nice guy and sent a few messages after we set the time that made me feel great. I always responded, but when he broke off, so did I. It's just further proof of what a great guy he is.

They are two of the great places in the area. If you are interested in country music, try the Ryman and Country Music Hall of Fame.
 
The Parthenon is great, I hope to make it to Athens to see the original at some point.

The statue of Athena is amazing. Painted and gilded like it would have been in ancient Greece. I still want to see the original. Ancient Greek culture is a fascination of mine.

I'm not usually on this board, but I live in the area. I've never hired him for massage, but as as escort. You may want to consider https://rent.men/ParkerPitts . I've enjoyed the times I've hired him.
 
Nashville has a number of things to do, the Parthenon, Hermitage, Ryman and Country Music Hall of Fame. I'm sure you will have a great trip.

I'm not usually on this board, but I live in the area. I've never hired him for massage, but as as escort. You may want to consider https://rent.men/ParkerPitts . I've enjoyed the times I've hired him.
 
Nashville has a number of things to do, the Parthenon, Hermitage, Ryman and Country Music Hall of Fame. I'm sure you will have a great trip.

The statue of Athena is amazing. Painted and gilded like it would have been in ancient Greece. I still want to see the original. Ancient Greek culture is a fascination of mine.

They are two of the great places in the area. If you are interested in country music, try the Ryman and Country Music Hall of Fame.
 
The Parthenon is great, I hope to make it to Athens to see the original at some point.

I don't want to be in a relationship and I want to have sex with hot men - men I could never get cruising bars or other avenues. It's a big win for me, getting to be in bed with body types I've always wanted to feel next to or on me.
 
And there is the elimination of the question of whether I will get lucky on a "date".

I don't want to be in a relationship and I want to have sex with hot men - men I could never get cruising bars or other avenues. It's a big win for me, getting to be in bed with body types I've always wanted to feel next to or on me.
 
And there is the elimination of the question of whether I will get lucky on a "date".

I don't want to be in a relationship and I want to have sex with hot men - men I could never get cruising bars or other avenues. It's a big win for me, getting to be in bed with body types I've always wanted to feel next to or on me.
 
And there is the elimination of the question of whether I will get lucky on a "date".

I met Zayn some months ago, and had an enjoyable experience.

He seems to have a Flirt4Free account: http://www.flirt4free.co.uk/videos/guys/models/nick-everett/ so you can check him out. He doesn't seem to have had a show for months however.

It's the "temporary" Experience of having a boyfriend, without having to actually have one. And since I hire men much better looking than I am, it's a great experience. I get a short-term "boyfriend" that really revs my gears.
 
I don't have to fight over who left underwear in the bathroom.

A part depends on the mode of communication. When writing an email, I have a full keyboard so it's easy. I'm horrid at texting. I shorten words a lot because I'm not good at typing on the small screen, even if I've been doing it for years now. I drop vowels and the rest. It's very common as texting is designed as a short communication method.
 
Consider the "terseness" of old telegrams, where you paid by the letter.
 
Even when Blackberries were new, many people put a note in the signature to excuse poor typing because of the device. Doing so remains a standard option for many devices so the recipient knows the sender may err in function.
 
Some of the specimens in your example however are puzzling, as they require more keystrokes to apostrophe a plural.

@kevininsa I'm not an escort, but part of the reality is that based on what I've read here, most escorts will not contact a client who views their profile. Again, I don't usually log onto RM so people can see who I visit, but from reading the forum, the escorts don't get enough business contacting viewers to make it worthwhile. Some do, but they also wouldn't be the type to block you.
 
Where your shyness may make you hope they will start contacting you, my advise is to go invisible since all that is happening is you get blocked (which shouldn't be a pattern, but happens) so you get the best experience you can.

As a client, I love texting the hot guys I hire. It's always a bit of a thrill to exchange non-session talk. In the vast majority of cases (for me) these are started by the escort. These don't get into sexting or anything, but it is great for me to be chatting with a really hot guy, even over electronic media. It's similar to when I get private time with a dancer - I'm getting the attention of a really hot man.
 
As part of the business, an escort needs to respond to some graphic messages (@Brian Kevin I know I'm not telling you anything you don't already know - I'm just covering the basics). Properly, these are part of being sure the match will work. If I want to cover you in chocolate and lick it off, I need to be sure you're OK with that.
 
Knowing that, there are guys who dangle out the possibility of a session just so they can get to dirty talk someone, and even better it's someone hot. You're doing this to get business. They are doing it to get their rocks off since they either can't afford a session like they are describing (I would think that some of this would command a premium), or are in the wrong place for the guy they want, or it's something they would just never actually _do_. I admit to having a few fantasies that I wouldn't actually want to do: I fantasize about them a bit, but as they are impersonal, and I really like the connection I can get with an escort, I don't want to mess that connection up. And if I've seen and like the guy, I don't want to get impersonal.
 
I feel for the escorts who get messages that never go anywhere. But in reality it's like shopping. We can look at the pictures, but messaging the escort is like trying on clothes - seeing if they fit. Even if they don't it's something the shop has to allow.
 
Scat is a fetish I have zero interest in personally. I would suspect that a number of the people who contact you about it are fantasizing about it, but when the time comes to actually do it, they get a lot of doubt in their mind, and that pushes the over the edge of not going through with it.
 
I'm sure you have had a lot of first-timers who chickened out at the last minute. For whatever reason, when the time came, it was too much for them. They had never been with a man, or never done it deliberately (i.e. just drunk stuff) or whatever. Unfortunately, it's part of doing business. Edge stuff is even more so, even if it's with a client who has done stuff before.
 
For a much milder example, I'll use me. I contacted my regular before an overnight and told him I wanted to do the whipped-cream thing. You know, putting it on his dick and balls and lapping it up. He agreed, after all that request isn't so off the wall as to cause pause. When we were in bed that night and I got the whipped cream out he mentioned that of all the people who had asked to do it, I was the first to actually go through with it. I thought it was odd, since I didn't make the request until I was sure I wanted to try it. If a request as simple as that gets people to back-out, I can only image how often harder requests get backed out from. Incidentally, where it was OK, I didn't find it mind-blowing. It seems to be one of those things more suited for porn than real life.
 
There is another thread somewhere about escorts offering non-sexual cuddling time. Since (again, I'm not an escort, never will be [i'd starve to death], this is completely a client opinion) sexy/fetish messages could be a service you offer, you might want to find and publish a rate plan. "I'll spend an hour total messaging you on any sexy subject for $XX. So I agree completely with your effort to get something out of these people. But I think publishing it _might_ reduce the scammer allegations. And provide you with what I think of as fairly easy money.
 
@Brian Kevin I know you are a reputable escort, and the scamming allegations are just people being upset they are not getting anything for free. They are the scammers. An escort's time is valuable. I try to take up as little of my escorts time planning sessions as I can. I want to get the details set, and a few confirmations, and I'm good.
 
As for how real it is. I think it is real. I think there are people out there who are into it. I don't think there are a lot of them to be honest. I don't get into it, so I don't know for sure, but it has always struck me as something that appears more in written porn than anything else. There are some videos, but like a lot of the more edge fetishes, not a lot. The fact there is not a lot of video reads to me that there isn't really a market for it ( I don't think there is a lot on pornhub or the like - and not because of the content, because of the market). Since it's so edge, it's much harder to find a partner to engage in it than even just man-on-man sex. An escort, any escort, is more likely to be open to it than any regular gay man. (That's a statement about percentages, not desire. A number of escorts I know will do something they have no interest in as part of the session because it's their business. And my general experience is their willingness is wider than most guys you would pick up in an average gay bar).
 
Vent away, man. I'd rather forum-reply to a hot guy like you than a lot of things. It means I'm chatting with a hot guy for free

A good escort's time is a gift as well.