GregM

It’s just a word. Albeit a loaded word.
Some men say “rape me”....when they are clearly not prepared to be “raped”.
Even with safe words, it can go very wrong.
Rough/manhandled sex? Sure no problem.
”Rape” you?.....yeah, pass.

I know your post is not seeking sympathy, but I just want to say Im really sorry that happened to you. I happen to agree that the term should be avoided. Rape isnt about sex, its about violence - which is more than simple dominance or control, though those are certainly aspects of it. The thing is that some people, for whatever reason, are turned on by violence - a tiny minority even to the point of murder. And there are people use the term 'rape' even though violence doesnt turn them on but without fully appreciating how it might affect others. They aren't looking to trigger anyone, but that is invariably what can happen.

Maybe it's a way for them to say they want to feel used, owned, in possession of someone hot!
 
Just make sure they have a "safe word" to stop all the action.

Everything can be fetishized. Like many things, rape fantasy is a lot different than the reality of being raped. It does play into my fantasies, but when describing what I like with an escort, I use the word "manhandled" rather than raped.

Like so many other words, it does have multiple meanings. It is slang for being financially abused, which I learned not all that long ago FIN DOM is someone who has a desire to take (a much better word than the one you, I and many others consider offensive) money, and lots of it, for pleasure.

Explain to the provider what you want and your expectations. Some are fine if the hooker doesn't cum and others want the load. Cant speak for others but I always cum. Just tell me where to make the deposit and it's all gravy.
 
Hugs,
Greg

Explain to the provider what you want and your expectations. Some are fine if the hooker doesn't cum and others want the load. Cant speak for others but I always cum. Just tell me where to make the deposit and it's all gravy.
 
Hugs,
Greg

https://www.reviewjournal.com/business/some-las-vegas-casino-workers-say-jobs-not-safe-as-resorts-reopen-2051371/
 
This report probably gives some idea about the situation in the casinos. Casinos do have a infrared thermal scan as we enter and they can give you mask (and gloves in some) if you request. However very rarely do guests use them in my observation and very few visitors here who can be seen walking outside on the strip seem to use masks. Though casinos have set up for people to play on only alternate slot machines, the aisles, staircases, etc are really not designed for social distancing and cannot be practiced. This is the true state of affairs and as is with most public places that are open one has to make personal adjustments adapting to the inevitable post-Corona-panic life. Human beings will adapt to the environment. After all we have (or still are) gone through so many pandemics and highly contagious diseases like the measles, smallpox etc and life goes on in spite of the horrific death of many people on this planet. Awareness, practice of maximum possible practically possible care (of self and others) and enjoying life (or what remains of it) as much as possible is all that we can do.

I still get notified. I'll test it for you in another thread.
 
~Boomer~

Awwwee thank you ??
 
Hugs,
Greg

Awwwee thank you ??
 
Hugs,
Greg

Explain to the provider what you want and your expectations. Some are fine if the hooker doesn't cum and others want the load. Cant speak for others but I always cum. Just tell me where to make the deposit and it's all gravy.
 
Hugs,
Greg

When I used to use RM many clients didn't fill out the profile. While in the past the only time I've turned work down is when the potential client wanted me to pnp. That is an absolute deal breaker.
 
Hugs,
Greg

I think your doing the right thing asking others what the words mean before play. I do the same thing. Last thing I want to happen is get myself into a potentially harmful situation because there was a lack of communication.
 
Hugs,
Greg

Explain to the provider what you want and your expectations. Some are fine if the hooker doesn't cum and others want the load. Cant speak for others but I always cum. Just tell me where to make the deposit and it's all gravy.
 
Hugs,
Greg

Explain to the provider what you want and your expectations. Some are fine if the hooker doesn't cum and others want the load. Cant speak for others but I always cum. Just tell me where to make the deposit and it's all gravy.
 
Hugs,
Greg

When I used to use RM many clients didn't fill out the profile. While in the past the only time I've turned work down is when the potential client wanted me to pnp. That is an absolute deal breaker.
 
Hugs,
Greg

Explain to the provider what you want and your expectations. Some are fine if the hooker doesn't cum and others want the load. Cant speak for others but I always cum. Just tell me where to make the deposit and it's all gravy.
 
Hugs,
Greg

Agreed,
 
The first thing that came to mind was the thread on this site a while back, where a very average-looking, out of shape, older escort was being roasted and humiliated with absolutely no restraint.
 
Guess who suddenly became the mean girls? Not other providers, but the customers... the same potential clients that cry “ageism, body shaming, and discrimination”, when the tables are turned.
 
I even remember the Kenzo thread, where this masseur gained a few pounds and these guys suddenly became “model scouts”, and picked the poor guy apart...
 
I’m just a firm believer in the golden rule... even when it comes to this... ☺

Most comments here talk about discussing expectations with the provider. How do you deal with those who don’t want to discuss details before the meeting?

I’ve been using “selective companionship” for at least 30 years. Some have cum, some have not. I was disappointed but it was my fault not requesting in advance. For that point on, I request it in our negotiations. Sometimes I’m specific - if it’s BB, I request breeding, sometimes it’s swallowing. If we are spending the night, I might ask for both. Sometimes I’m less specific - can you come? Sometimes he’ll ask “do you want me to cum?” You simply have to start the conversation.

IF I can get away with saving it and still leaving my partner satisfied I will, that way it builds up for the next person, if you happen to be that next person I am cumming twice probably:p
For me at least it boils down to not if I can (I never schedule appointments if I wouldnt be able to) or want to (I always want to btw) but how much fluid I have in the tank or need in the tank for later.

Explain to the provider what you want and your expectations. Some are fine if the hooker doesn't cum and others want the load. Cant speak for others but I always cum. Just tell me where to make the deposit and it's all gravy.
 
Hugs,
Greg

Kid, are you a cum machine? (jks) But, anyways, do you cum by default like @GregM or it depends?

When I used to use RM many clients didn't fill out the profile. While in the past the only time I've turned work down is when the potential client wanted me to pnp. That is an absolute deal breaker.
 
Hugs,
Greg