Bearman

Well then there’s your issue....

Most guys are attracted to others who reflect their own likeness in looks, body and other physical components... opposites typically attract in other personality traits....

 

I guess my initial interpretation of your situation was incorrect. You’re not some poor shy big guy who got served a bad deal and is being caught up in the matrix of “gay shallowness”.....

 

You’re part of that matrix ?

 

All of those other bears (who look just like you), you’ve been passing up could have been possibly the love of your life....

 

But instead, you chose the shallow/delusional route and have been chasing an idea of what “perfection” is to you.

 

Now Karma has turned that back on you... you now can’t fault a service provider or a guy in general dating, for turning you down for your size, because their behavior and beliefs match yours. You are in fact, projecting your own ideas of looks and body image upon yourself.

 

When you don’t like the physical attributes you possess, and see in others (that look just like you) then why , should you expect any one else to? They have your same mindset..... ??‍♂️

I get your point but you've misunderstood. We're talking about hiring escorts not the dating or romance scene. Few overweight middle-aged men hire other overweight middle-aged men. I'm also guessing that you also hire men you're attracted to that differ from yourself?

You also like guys who are willing to rim. Maybe you are to direct and explicit as you seem to be on here. That could sound bossy to some escorts

I suspect it might be an English as a second language issue. And native speakers are reading into what's said meanings that were just not intended. I speak other languages and travel a lot so I see it happen all the time. So I give Muscmtl the benefit of the doubt. I think I understand his point.

I have had one escort express his delight at the prospect of topping a full-figured-gentleman; They are out there. Remember Communicate, Communitate, Communicate.

Yes they may be out there but I at least have yet to find those escorts. Yes I find men that love me as I am at Bear Bars, but I'm not attracted to other bears or men that look like myself. Opposites Attract is my motto, but while they may be out there, usually they just grit their teeth and do their job and thinly veil their disgust which I clearly see, finish ASAP, grab their money and scram. It might be one of the reasons I opt for Body Worship with "straightish guys" and keep most of my clothes on! There is less disappointment with them.

Very interesting thread and very good feedback for all you guys. I'm glad I read it!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TAOD50blOKk

 

I don't know what this show is about... but Jude Law... damn.

Hopefully they've decided to continue the saga of "The Young Pope" which sadly wasn't continued after one season.

This legislation is the Neo-abolitionism Nordic Model and is applied in Canada, Iceland and several European nations. Look it up. I am surprised you are not aware, but maybe cuz you are American and more distracted by your own developments eg SESTA/FOSTA.

 

You describe a very rudimentary grasp of commodities/utilities economics, b'man.

 

I can assure you there is nothing less logical about Canadian law compared to US law. Previous to 2014 it was less logical because the exchange was legal but communication/planning trade was indictable for both seller and buyer.

 

I am not summarizing it in detail. It is becoming de rigeur in the EU and is aimed at curbing prostitution, brokering, and trafficking while shifting culpability away from providers. It has a lot of flaws. I am not supporting it just describing it. The approach will likely not make its way into Spain, Switzerland, or Germany.

As verbose as you might be you actually don't know what ad hominem means!

In Canada (I assume from your handle suffix 'mtl'), only a client need be wary of a law enforcement sting. It is not illegal to sell sex since 2014.

If it's not illegal to sell sex then why is it illegal to buy sex in Canada? A seller has to have a buyer, if not why would he/she sell it? That defies logic! Canada has some strange things but this one I really don't get if it is indeed the case.

The only thing I ever get from them are emails promoting their app for the cell phone. I don't need that on my phone.

Pierre Fitch

I was a regular of his when he started out dancing/stripping in Montreal. He used to come in on his day off just to give me some lap dances whenever I came into town way back in the day! Then he started doing some local videos till he was called to make videos in the US from big porn studios in San Francisco and the rest is history.

It's been over twenty years that I've stopped going to them here in the U.S.

I might only go to one if I'm traveling abroad just to meet locals and sample the local fare.

Kinda new here. What does it mean when someone says "Bump"?

It's a ploy used by people who have nothing of value to contribute yet wish to draw attention to and/or somehow keep relevant a post by not saying anything worth reading.

Cameron Monaghan and Noel Fisher!

Maybe the next Charlie’s Angels will be guys. Any dream cast???

Dream on! According to the "woke", men aren't underrepresented nor oppressed. They'll probably choose a Trans, a Black Woman, a Latina or possibly even a hijab wearing Muslima to fit their agenda.

I do not understand why you are giving negative ratings to many people here based on what?

 

Negative ratings are fine in almost all cases. But, this thread is especially sensitive to many people, not just you.

If the shoe fits, wear it! We're all on equal footing here. Or is it only those you agree with sensitivity that you're concerned about?

My hot, go-to escort in San Francisco whom I've seen periodically over a two year period professes to be bi but he doesn't touch my cock or stimulate my nips as I'd like, but he loves to be rimmed and have my fingers up his tight chunnel. He has a son and claims to be married. It perplexes the hell out of me, but I do wish he'd be more interactive. Hung--kisses divinely-- and fucks like one hell of jackhammer, esp. when I'm on my back, my fav position in receiving.

So does this escort advertise on RM? From what you describe he sounds VERY interesting and just up my alley!

Yes. His fixation was being spanked.

WOW, really?!! I don't remember seeing him in any fetish or spanking videos back then. I would have never guessed him straight or bi either. Interesting!

Lol i might be hosting a masterclass. Im taking students.

But my question is have you found any Guidos willing to "entertain" an elderly gentleman caller?! Do let us know!

Aww... you feel insulted. Girl, you need to grow a thicker skin.

My apologies.

Mi intention was not insulting you, but just to put in evidence that you have issues with being "masculine".

Your childish. (Among other things). Thank you for exposing your true nature to us all and making my case. Enough said.

Nop. I am threatened by stupidity, but I do not feel threatened here. I am not the one talking about his "masculinity".

Ooooo… Seems like I struck a cord there! So if I said I was "queeny" and was attracted to effeminate men, you'd have no verbal attacks and erroneous opinions?! Gee, should I judge you though we've never met by your ethnicity and taste in men of lets say "certain ethnicities"? People are how they are and like what they like, like it or not!

LOL. It is amusing to read so much concern about manners, and specially how easily we make up our own "reality" when actual reality does not adjust to our "norms". We are so confident, besides, about our own "masculinity" LMFAO! We talk about "them" when we address the ones who are supposedly "effeminate", and we are so "supportive" and so "tolerant" of them. I am moved.

 

I know what I am talking about, I am very masculine.

Do you know us all? Interesting because I don't remember ever having met you! You seem threatened by masculinity.

Anyway, I'm comfortable in my skin and with who I am.

I prefer men who do not feel the need to act one way or another and, instead, are themselves.

Oh but it's not an act! If they're acting then they are not themselves and who likes fakes?! I like men that it is their nature to behave like men and be men! That's what we mean by "acting like men". Just like nobody deliberately acts effeminate if it's not their nature unless they're doing it in jest. I'm a masculine man and I don't decide to be this way over being effeminate. It just they way I grew up and it's the way I am. So if people "feel the need to act" as you put it, they aren't being themselves and just pretending to be "butch". .

Masculine. As a homosexual male I like men who look and behave like men. Women don't appeal to me, so men that look and behave like women or have female characteristics and mannerisms don't interest me. I don't care if a man I'm with is the biggest bottom in bed, but damn it act like a man! This is my taste and preference.

Seriously??? He must have a market, for if not he wouldn't be advertising. I'd be curious as to the type of men that hire him.

https://rentmen.eu/fuckbunny

My apologies babe... that’s taken from two song lyrics... I do apologize if it’s offensive... it was an admiration in the context of the songs... my bad

OK, no problem. It's just that in the 21st century as much as Americans are traveling now and with the influx of immigrants from every corner of the world, people here still have these erroneous stereotypes about what people in other counties look and behave like. That song is just another example of a reinforced stereotype. Sorry I didn't mean to bit your head off and I apologize for the rant.

Havana ooooh lala! Brown cocoa skin and curly like hair ... love em

That's a stereotype and only represents a small fraction of the population.

Have you seen him?

No, sorry. Just commenting on what we see on his profile.