nategrimes

If I may speak for myself -- this copy was not written by me, nor have I ever been consulted as to how I am described in promotional material. I am fully aware that some people may choose not to meet with me based upon what I have done in front of a camera, and I am ok with that. However, I will say that the studios do not speak for me, and what I have done in front of a camera is not always indicative of my personal sex practices. Let us not forget, porn is fantasy. I believe that the safest sex is sex that is the most informed, regardless of whether a condom is used or not. Direct communication and trust between partners is paramount. I take my health seriously, and the health of my clients even more so. If you have any questions or comments for me, do send me a private message. Very truly yours -- Nate.

If I may speak for myself -- this copy was not written by me, nor have I ever been consulted as to how I am described in promotional material. I am fully aware that some people may choose not to meet with me based upon what I have done in front of a camera, and I am ok with that. However, I will say that the studios do not speak for me, and what I have done in front of a camera is not always indicative of my personal sex practices. Let us not forget, porn is fantasy. I believe that the safest sex is sex that is the most informed, regardless of whether a condom is used or not. Direct communication and trust between partners is paramount. I take my health seriously, and the health of my clients even more so. If you have any questions or comments for me, do send me a private message. Very truly yours -- Nate.

If I may speak for myself -- this copy was not written by me, nor have I ever been consulted as to how I am described in promotional material. I am fully aware that some people may choose not to meet with me based upon what I have done in front of a camera, and I am ok with that. However, I will say that the studios do not speak for me, and what I have done in front of a camera is not always indicative of my personal sex practices. Let us not forget, porn is fantasy. I believe that the safest sex is sex that is the most informed, regardless of whether a condom is used or not. Direct communication and trust between partners is paramount. I take my health seriously, and the health of my clients even more so. If you have any questions or comments for me, do send me a private message. Very truly yours -- Nate.

If I may speak for myself -- this copy was not written by me, nor have I ever been consulted as to how I am described in promotional material. I am fully aware that some people may choose not to meet with me based upon what I have done in front of a camera, and I am ok with that. However, I will say that the studios do not speak for me, and what I have done in front of a camera is not always indicative of my personal sex practices. Let us not forget, porn is fantasy. I believe that the safest sex is sex that is the most informed, regardless of whether a condom is used or not. Direct communication and trust between partners is paramount. I take my health seriously, and the health of my clients even more so. If you have any questions or comments for me, do send me a private message. Very truly yours -- Nate.

Bravo to Maus and Nate for their responses.
 
I’ve written highly positive reviews of both of them. I can vouch for their endowments and skill. I arranged a two-hour 4-way with them as a birthday present to my BF. They are both smart and considerate. Yum.
 
I appreciate their self-discourse about being on PrEP. Some of you may be like me, a survivor from the epidemic’s early years. They remind me that safer sex is no longer simply using condoms. It’s also PrEP, STI testing, treatment and disclosure, and HIV testing and treatment (U=U). Also, it’s better for me to ask and discuss than to assume or infer while reading ads, viewing porn, or participating in this form.
 
Thanks for reading this.

If I may speak for myself -- this copy was not written by me, nor have I ever been consulted as to how I am described in promotional material. I am fully aware that some people may choose not to meet with me based upon what I have done in front of a camera, and I am ok with that. However, I will say that the studios do not speak for me, and what I have done in front of a camera is not always indicative of my personal sex practices. Let us not forget, porn is fantasy. I believe that the safest sex is sex that is the most informed, regardless of whether a condom is used or not. Direct communication and trust between partners is paramount. I take my health seriously, and the health of my clients even more so. If you have any questions or comments for me, do send me a private message. Very truly yours -- Nate.

Any chance you guys can take this little bitchy tirade offline so we can get back on track....big dicked guys in L.A. Gee whiz!

If I may speak for myself -- this copy was not written by me, nor have I ever been consulted as to how I am described in promotional material. I am fully aware that some people may choose not to meet with me based upon what I have done in front of a camera, and I am ok with that. However, I will say that the studios do not speak for me, and what I have done in front of a camera is not always indicative of my personal sex practices. Let us not forget, porn is fantasy. I believe that the safest sex is sex that is the most informed, regardless of whether a condom is used or not. Direct communication and trust between partners is paramount. I take my health seriously, and the health of my clients even more so. If you have any questions or comments for me, do send me a private message. Very truly yours -- Nate.

If I may speak for myself -- this copy was not written by me, nor have I ever been consulted as to how I am described in promotional material. I am fully aware that some people may choose not to meet with me based upon what I have done in front of a camera, and I am ok with that. However, I will say that the studios do not speak for me, and what I have done in front of a camera is not always indicative of my personal sex practices. Let us not forget, porn is fantasy. I believe that the safest sex is sex that is the most informed, regardless of whether a condom is used or not. Direct communication and trust between partners is paramount. I take my health seriously, and the health of my clients even more so. If you have any questions or comments for me, do send me a private message. Very truly yours -- Nate.

If I may speak for myself -- this copy was not written by me, nor have I ever been consulted as to how I am described in promotional material. I am fully aware that some people may choose not to meet with me based upon what I have done in front of a camera, and I am ok with that. However, I will say that the studios do not speak for me, and what I have done in front of a camera is not always indicative of my personal sex practices. Let us not forget, porn is fantasy. I believe that the safest sex is sex that is the most informed, regardless of whether a condom is used or not. Direct communication and trust between partners is paramount. I take my health seriously, and the health of my clients even more so. If you have any questions or comments for me, do send me a private message. Very truly yours -- Nate.

A full panel STD test at Talent Testing Services uses only blood and urine analysis. This does NOT include a throat swab or a butt swab for Chlamydia or Gonorrhea. Yet this is all that most major (especially higher quality) studios require from both gay and straight performers for bareback and condom scenes alike. That's pretty silly, huh?
 
TIM may be "known" to use HIV+ performers, but its not a prerequisite and ALL of the studios use HIV+ performers. TIM depends on the guise of "unsafe" sex to maintain relevance, and in order to portray more realistic sex, they seek less inhibited models with a greater understanding of STD's. Higher quality studios are no more diligent about obtaining test results from their models, turn a blind eye to the lack of tests they require, and are much more likely to use chemicals and needles to keep their models dick's hard for a 30 minute scene that takes 12 hours to shoot. Think about that.
 
HIV+ men contract it through sex with someone who THOUGHT they were negative. NOT someone who is HIV+ and on meds and NOT someone who is on Truvada and tested regularly. The next time you have bareback sex with someone who insists they are negative but is not on Truvada, please keep in mind that they are a much higher risk than anyone else.
 
Honestly, it's up to the models to determine how safe a shoot is. We talk to each other. We share test results that some studios need only a vocal confirmation of. I am HIV- and on Truvada, and so is my dear friend Nate Grimes. We don't shoot if we've come up with something and we certainly don't take clients if we have or have been exposed to an STD. To believe otherwise because of the studios we shoot for is a grand assumption based on gossip and a lack of knowledge. You want two big dicked studs in LA to give you the ride of your life (or at least your summer) and not have to worry about STDs? Look no further.
 
Maus

If I may speak for myself -- this copy was not written by me, nor have I ever been consulted as to how I am described in promotional material. I am fully aware that some people may choose not to meet with me based upon what I have done in front of a camera, and I am ok with that. However, I will say that the studios do not speak for me, and what I have done in front of a camera is not always indicative of my personal sex practices. Let us not forget, porn is fantasy. I believe that the safest sex is sex that is the most informed, regardless of whether a condom is used or not. Direct communication and trust between partners is paramount. I take my health seriously, and the health of my clients even more so. If you have any questions or comments for me, do send me a private message. Very truly yours -- Nate.

No rimming? No kissing?? Snooze. There aren't enough muscles to make someone who doesn't rim or kiss exciting.

No rimming? No kissing?? Snooze. There aren't enough muscles to make someone who doesn't rim or kiss exciting.

I've been fisting/taking fists for nearly five years now. Recently, I was chatting with a potential client about helping him open up and take it for the first time - he also mentioned PNP as a means to "relax." I think I can say pretty confidently that being high/drunk/whatever generally does not help one relax, if one is relatively new to the mechanics and sensations of fisting. Meth, for example, increases the heart rate, can cause muscle spasms/tensity, and makes it incredibly difficult to focus on the slow, steady breathing that is required in order to relax certain involuntary muscles of the sphincter, as well as the smooth muscle tissue deeper in the colon. So, unless you can keep yourself calm and relaxed while on powerful, mind-altering substances, I wouldn't recommend getting super high while exploring the mechanics of fisting - and remember, it certainly can be done without drugs. People do it all the time, no big deal. If you can handle yourself while on drugs and understand how to relax your body, then go for it. I'm not here to do any moralizing about substance use.
 
That being said, my tips for fisting in general are:
 
-Slow, steady breathing: I count to 4 (slowly!) with each inhale/exhale
 
-Get used to pain: another reason why people turn to drugs. It might hurt the first time, but get into it. It gets better!
 
-Use toys/go at your own pace: dildos and plugs can help you understand and become comfortable with the sensation of something very large entering your body. The measurements of toys can also be useful - I think a small sized fist is about 8" or 9" around (circumference).
 
-TONS OF LUBE: find what you like. I enjoy a combo of Elbow Grease and J-Lube. Reapply often
 
-If you're a fisting bottom just starting out, please do yourself a favor and find someone with small hands. The smaller the better. I did the opposite and worked with a giant set of paws when I first started out, but I was living in Maine at the time and he was the only one in town who was into it. Also he was really hot
 
-Shit happens: learn how to clean out deeeeep. This can also help you relax.
 
-Blood happens: usually, this isn't as alarming as it looks. Anal tears feel like a knife going into your bowels any time you try to push out with those muscles, so unless you feel something like that when going to the bathroom, you're likely to be just fine. One surefire way to reduce bleeding on sight is to put ice cubes up your butt, or very cold water.
 
-TOPS - TRIM AND FILE YOUR GODDAMN FINGERNAILS! Even if you're using gloves, DO IT, I'm fucking serious, I am WEARY of getting to someone's place who claims to be some kind of FF pro, and finding dragon claws at their fingertips. Having long, sharp fingernails is the easiest way to injure a bottom. If you're topping, your nails should be nubs. You shouldn't be able to scratch yourself.
 
-Take it slow: too many people think of fisting as extreme, or an act of domination, which I guess it can be. To me, it's much more intimate. Sure, I enjoy getting punch fucked here and there, but I'm much more a fan of slow, sensual movements, as well as depth training. Stay away from movements that feel too forceful, especially if you're new.
 
-And finally, make sure you and your FF buddy trust one another. This act requires much more connection and communication than anything else, so do it with someone you can be close with, or at least someone who has a lot of experience.
 
Hope that answers some questions! Feel free to DM me if you'd like to chat further.

As a Versatile FF myself.... fisting is not for everyone. Just as WS is not for everyone. Fisting is very involved and takes time, building that connection and trust. It is quite possibly the most intense from of sexual gratification as it involves both top and bottom to reach the maximum pleasure together. It is true that blood can be present, but as an experienced fister we know the difference in the color of the blood. If there is a light pinkish hue to your lube , not big deal actually....when you begin to see bright red you should stop. Usually this occurs when you as the top have either stretched or gone beyond a point that the bottom has never experienced. No need to rush to the ER. ... Clean up and stop all anal action. Find a more casual way of enjoying the rest of your experience.

Experienced FF bottoms develop a high level of skill at relaxing their holes.

Met with him today for a two-hour session. He is all his pictures and profile claim, and more. He's every bit of 6'4" and 280 lbs, for one thing, and as somebody into really big guys, I found his sheer physical presence incredibly erotic -- literally a mountain of muscle. He's not training for competition these days, but he is still in phenomenal shape -- more "off-season" than shredded, which I prefer anyway. We had BIG fun for the entire two hours, and it was worth every single penny. He is a total sweetheart to boot. He's not in Miami for much longer, and then I think is headed west. If he's coming to your town, BOOK A SESSION. He gets a 5-star rating from this boy, anyway.

I've been fisting/taking fists for nearly five years now. Recently, I was chatting with a potential client about helping him open up and take it for the first time - he also mentioned PNP as a means to "relax." I think I can say pretty confidently that being high/drunk/whatever generally does not help one relax, if one is relatively new to the mechanics and sensations of fisting. Meth, for example, increases the heart rate, can cause muscle spasms/tensity, and makes it incredibly difficult to focus on the slow, steady breathing that is required in order to relax certain involuntary muscles of the sphincter, as well as the smooth muscle tissue deeper in the colon. So, unless you can keep yourself calm and relaxed while on powerful, mind-altering substances, I wouldn't recommend getting super high while exploring the mechanics of fisting - and remember, it certainly can be done without drugs. People do it all the time, no big deal. If you can handle yourself while on drugs and understand how to relax your body, then go for it. I'm not here to do any moralizing about substance use.
 
That being said, my tips for fisting in general are:
 
-Slow, steady breathing: I count to 4 (slowly!) with each inhale/exhale
 
-Get used to pain: another reason why people turn to drugs. It might hurt the first time, but get into it. It gets better!
 
-Use toys/go at your own pace: dildos and plugs can help you understand and become comfortable with the sensation of something very large entering your body. The measurements of toys can also be useful - I think a small sized fist is about 8" or 9" around (circumference).
 
-TONS OF LUBE: find what you like. I enjoy a combo of Elbow Grease and J-Lube. Reapply often
 
-If you're a fisting bottom just starting out, please do yourself a favor and find someone with small hands. The smaller the better. I did the opposite and worked with a giant set of paws when I first started out, but I was living in Maine at the time and he was the only one in town who was into it. Also he was really hot
 
-Shit happens: learn how to clean out deeeeep. This can also help you relax.
 
-Blood happens: usually, this isn't as alarming as it looks. Anal tears feel like a knife going into your bowels any time you try to push out with those muscles, so unless you feel something like that when going to the bathroom, you're likely to be just fine. One surefire way to reduce bleeding on sight is to put ice cubes up your butt, or very cold water.
 
-TOPS - TRIM AND FILE YOUR GODDAMN FINGERNAILS! Even if you're using gloves, DO IT, I'm fucking serious, I am WEARY of getting to someone's place who claims to be some kind of FF pro, and finding dragon claws at their fingertips. Having long, sharp fingernails is the easiest way to injure a bottom. If you're topping, your nails should be nubs. You shouldn't be able to scratch yourself.
 
-Take it slow: too many people think of fisting as extreme, or an act of domination, which I guess it can be. To me, it's much more intimate. Sure, I enjoy getting punch fucked here and there, but I'm much more a fan of slow, sensual movements, as well as depth training. Stay away from movements that feel too forceful, especially if you're new.
 
-And finally, make sure you and your FF buddy trust one another. This act requires much more connection and communication than anything else, so do it with someone you can be close with, or at least someone who has a lot of experience.
 
Hope that answers some questions! Feel free to DM me if you'd like to chat further.

I've been fisting/taking fists for nearly five years now. Recently, I was chatting with a potential client about helping him open up and take it for the first time - he also mentioned PNP as a means to "relax." I think I can say pretty confidently that being high/drunk/whatever generally does not help one relax, if one is relatively new to the mechanics and sensations of fisting. Meth, for example, increases the heart rate, can cause muscle spasms/tensity, and makes it incredibly difficult to focus on the slow, steady breathing that is required in order to relax certain involuntary muscles of the sphincter, as well as the smooth muscle tissue deeper in the colon. So, unless you can keep yourself calm and relaxed while on powerful, mind-altering substances, I wouldn't recommend getting super high while exploring the mechanics of fisting - and remember, it certainly can be done without drugs. People do it all the time, no big deal. If you can handle yourself while on drugs and understand how to relax your body, then go for it. I'm not here to do any moralizing about substance use.
 
That being said, my tips for fisting in general are:
 
-Slow, steady breathing: I count to 4 (slowly!) with each inhale/exhale
 
-Get used to pain: another reason why people turn to drugs. It might hurt the first time, but get into it. It gets better!
 
-Use toys/go at your own pace: dildos and plugs can help you understand and become comfortable with the sensation of something very large entering your body. The measurements of toys can also be useful - I think a small sized fist is about 8" or 9" around (circumference).
 
-TONS OF LUBE: find what you like. I enjoy a combo of Elbow Grease and J-Lube. Reapply often
 
-If you're a fisting bottom just starting out, please do yourself a favor and find someone with small hands. The smaller the better. I did the opposite and worked with a giant set of paws when I first started out, but I was living in Maine at the time and he was the only one in town who was into it. Also he was really hot
 
-Shit happens: learn how to clean out deeeeep. This can also help you relax.
 
-Blood happens: usually, this isn't as alarming as it looks. Anal tears feel like a knife going into your bowels any time you try to push out with those muscles, so unless you feel something like that when going to the bathroom, you're likely to be just fine. One surefire way to reduce bleeding on sight is to put ice cubes up your butt, or very cold water.
 
-TOPS - TRIM AND FILE YOUR GODDAMN FINGERNAILS! Even if you're using gloves, DO IT, I'm fucking serious, I am WEARY of getting to someone's place who claims to be some kind of FF pro, and finding dragon claws at their fingertips. Having long, sharp fingernails is the easiest way to injure a bottom. If you're topping, your nails should be nubs. You shouldn't be able to scratch yourself.
 
-Take it slow: too many people think of fisting as extreme, or an act of domination, which I guess it can be. To me, it's much more intimate. Sure, I enjoy getting punch fucked here and there, but I'm much more a fan of slow, sensual movements, as well as depth training. Stay away from movements that feel too forceful, especially if you're new.
 
-And finally, make sure you and your FF buddy trust one another. This act requires much more connection and communication than anything else, so do it with someone you can be close with, or at least someone who has a lot of experience.
 
Hope that answers some questions! Feel free to DM me if you'd like to chat further.

I've been fisting/taking fists for nearly five years now. Recently, I was chatting with a potential client about helping him open up and take it for the first time - he also mentioned PNP as a means to "relax." I think I can say pretty confidently that being high/drunk/whatever generally does not help one relax, if one is relatively new to the mechanics and sensations of fisting. Meth, for example, increases the heart rate, can cause muscle spasms/tensity, and makes it incredibly difficult to focus on the slow, steady breathing that is required in order to relax certain involuntary muscles of the sphincter, as well as the smooth muscle tissue deeper in the colon. So, unless you can keep yourself calm and relaxed while on powerful, mind-altering substances, I wouldn't recommend getting super high while exploring the mechanics of fisting - and remember, it certainly can be done without drugs. People do it all the time, no big deal. If you can handle yourself while on drugs and understand how to relax your body, then go for it. I'm not here to do any moralizing about substance use.
 
That being said, my tips for fisting in general are:
 
-Slow, steady breathing: I count to 4 (slowly!) with each inhale/exhale
 
-Get used to pain: another reason why people turn to drugs. It might hurt the first time, but get into it. It gets better!
 
-Use toys/go at your own pace: dildos and plugs can help you understand and become comfortable with the sensation of something very large entering your body. The measurements of toys can also be useful - I think a small sized fist is about 8" or 9" around (circumference).
 
-TONS OF LUBE: find what you like. I enjoy a combo of Elbow Grease and J-Lube. Reapply often
 
-If you're a fisting bottom just starting out, please do yourself a favor and find someone with small hands. The smaller the better. I did the opposite and worked with a giant set of paws when I first started out, but I was living in Maine at the time and he was the only one in town who was into it. Also he was really hot
 
-Shit happens: learn how to clean out deeeeep. This can also help you relax.
 
-Blood happens: usually, this isn't as alarming as it looks. Anal tears feel like a knife going into your bowels any time you try to push out with those muscles, so unless you feel something like that when going to the bathroom, you're likely to be just fine. One surefire way to reduce bleeding on sight is to put ice cubes up your butt, or very cold water.
 
-TOPS - TRIM AND FILE YOUR GODDAMN FINGERNAILS! Even if you're using gloves, DO IT, I'm fucking serious, I am WEARY of getting to someone's place who claims to be some kind of FF pro, and finding dragon claws at their fingertips. Having long, sharp fingernails is the easiest way to injure a bottom. If you're topping, your nails should be nubs. You shouldn't be able to scratch yourself.
 
-Take it slow: too many people think of fisting as extreme, or an act of domination, which I guess it can be. To me, it's much more intimate. Sure, I enjoy getting punch fucked here and there, but I'm much more a fan of slow, sensual movements, as well as depth training. Stay away from movements that feel too forceful, especially if you're new.
 
-And finally, make sure you and your FF buddy trust one another. This act requires much more connection and communication than anything else, so do it with someone you can be close with, or at least someone who has a lot of experience.
 
Hope that answers some questions! Feel free to DM me if you'd like to chat further.

Aw thanks guys! A client recently let me know he found me because of this thread. Let it be known, I do love opening a hole as much as I love getting stretched out myself.

I've been with Rocco Steele on and off camera and he fits OP's bill. As for his age and stats, his tens of thousands of pics are accurate. What you see is what you get.
 
I won't reveal too many details about our wonderful time together, or the sacred bond that was created between us when he repeatedly thrust in and out of my love chute, or the number of postcoital painkillers I had to ingest, but suffice to say Rocco has the Mike Gaite seal of approval.

No rimming? No kissing?? Snooze. There aren't enough muscles to make someone who doesn't rim or kiss exciting.

No rimming? No kissing?? Snooze. There aren't enough muscles to make someone who doesn't rim or kiss exciting.