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The reminder notification popped up on my phone on Wednesday, the day I was supposed to leave for PS. I was so bummed. Looking to next year for sure.

Thanks, I will check it out. Because, boy, NYC will be closed and quarantined for a while. This city is too crowded

3DXChat is another one with more of an 'adult' focus. HMU if you get online there.

That's a really interesting and perplexing question.
 
I think we need to be more Asian, and less stupid.
 
I buy the theory that if we were 50 % more Asian, and 25 % less ignorant, pretty much most dead people in America from COVID-19 would not be dead.
 
So, for example:
 
Largest cities in the world ranked by population density (1 to 125)
 
Seoul, population density rank # 6 16,700 people per sq/km COVID-19 deaths: 230 (all of South Korea)
 
Taipei, population density rank # 7 15,200 people per sq/km COVID-19 deaths: 6 (all of Taiwan)
 
Singapore, population density rank # 29 8,350 people per sq/km COVID-19 deaths: 10
 
Tokyo, population density rank # 50 4,750 people per sq/km COVID-19 deaths: 190 (all of Japan)
 
Los Angeles, population density rank # 90 2,750 people per sq/km COVID-19 deaths: 457 (LA County only)
 
San Francisco, population density rank #104 2,350 people per sq/km COVID-19 deaths: 17 (San Francisco County only)
 
New York City, population density rank # 114 2,050 people per sq/km COVID-19 deaths: 11,477 deaths (NYC only)
 
New Orleans, population density rank # 116 1,950 people per sq/km COVID-19 deaths: 302 deaths (New Orleans only)
 
 
There has been a raging debate about this among Asian scholars. Many have noted that, with the exception of San Francsico, lower density and less mass transit seems to lead to way more COVID-19 death. So Asian scholars have asked: does riding mass transit in cities like Seoul and Tokyo confer immunity to COVID-19? Do cars on LA and NYC freeways cause COVID-19?
 
My question here is are we going to have to reconsider our emphasis on carbon producing cars and low density housing in urban areas to prevent future major virus outbreaks? What might the alternative be?
 
Other Asian scholars have noted that correlation and causation are not the same. So just because Americans who die of COVID-19 are way more likely to drive cars or live in less dense housing, that may not be why they die. Asian scholars have looked to other behavioral patterns to determine causation. For example, gun deaths in the US exceed gun deaths in Japan by a huge order of magnitude: 3 deaths in Japan versus 40,000 deaths in the US in one year. Asian scholars theorize that this is caused by American behavior. Specifically, American ignorance: the idea that more gun ownership results in less gun death, even though - from a scholarly perspective - it clearly results in more gun death.
 
Armed with this insight, Asian scholars have examined American ignorance and stupidity on COVID-19, to see if this could impact death rates. For example, does it impact mortality if Americans think, "This is a bullshit thing, I ought to be able to do whatever the fuck I want, and nobody has a right to close my business or my bar down?" Asian scholars have named this the "dip shit American" theory. They have studied whether there is a correlation between being an American "dip shit", and COVID-19 mortality.
 
Asian scholars have compared Asian and American behavior around "test, trace, treat" practices such as: masks, social distancing, bans on social behaviors such as mass gatherings, avoidance of "church packing", and overall conformity with regulations meant to prevent death and keep the economy going. Asian scholars have generally found that Asian awareness of and adherence to public health guidelines seems to be a causal factor. It is believed to cause much lower Asian death rates, as well as much less economic destruction.
 
To confirm this theory, Asian scholars studied behavior and public health awareness in San Francisco, which has an unusually low COVID-19 death rate and an unusually high Asian population. Asian scholars found that San Francisco residents, including those who are not Asian, act much more like Asians when it comes to responding to public health crises. This appears to correlate with less death and economic destruction from COVID-19.
 
Meanwhile, Asian scholars found that 7 out of 10 American "dip shits" tested responded to the question, "Define test, trace, treat" with the answer: "What the fuck is that? Is that some fucked up Wuhan thing?"
 
So the hot new academic theory all over Asia now is that America has a massive lead in global COVID-19 deaths because of American ignorance and stupidity. Asian scholars theorize that if all Americans were 50 % more Asian, and 25 % less ignorant, most COVID-19 deaths would have been prevented.
 
My question here is are we going to have to reconsider our emphasis on ignorance and stupidity to prevent future major virus outbreaks? What might the alternative be? Any ideas and suggestions?
 
And the good news is this. I read the footnotes on all these Asian studies. It said that even if we have to act a bit more like Asians, we don't have to eat bats, snakes, or dogs. Sorry if I offend anyone, but personally that was a huge relief to me.

The great thing about online meeting is that you don‘t have to limit yourself to your geographic location The only problem is how interactive will the escort be? Will it suffice to satisfy one‘s urges?

An example of some of the hotties one can Zoom or Skype with.
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I think it's a great way to get to know a provider and know if they actually match their pictures while getting a little of their personality and how they relate to you as a client. I think it's a fantastic indicator of how they may or may not behave during an in person session. I think it's great! Reminds me of "Stella's" back in the day when I was 21/ 22. It was on it's last legs but it was still (for a noob like me) so interesting and exciting. This has some of the same qualities, except no alcohol and not a lot of other "dancers" around lol. Dislaimer: I have not personally done it myself but the notion makes me think it would work well in the ways I spoke of.

How much is the normal rate for a cam show? What have you been getting?

I had thought of joining Chaturbate but upon going through the models it is so token driven it's cheaper just to go on Rentmen and make an offer to an escort for a skype show. Which is what I've been doing and it's worked out great so far.

Go for it, I’ve had a few sessions and I’m sure others are up for the same sort of thing.

You may get your wish
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chaturbate and flirt4free guys should be killing it right now! go on there. buy some tokens, find a hot guy, get off and call it a day!

If you're ok with getting a new 'burner' number... There's an app called Burner in the Google Play store that allows you to have a second line on your smartphone that you can 'burn' if needed. If had it for a few years and supports MMS messages with images (but not video).

No. The dancers (most of them) circulate in the bar and patio all evening. They are the entertainment. They stop and talk with anyone who looks bored or interested. The custom is to pet them while they are with you. And they are also looking for tips. So you should have a pack of $1 bills with you. Slip a bill into their shorts every few minutes, and they will stay with you as long as you keep tipping. Some will ask you directly after a while, if you would like a lap dance, but lap dances are not particularly common because of the pricing. I saw only a small number of clients go in back with a dancer during the time I was there. It is very different from the old Johnny's or Taboo in Montreal. But no dancer will be upset if you decline, and I had no one pestering me for a lap dance at Le Boy.

UP-DATE Friday, January 31 Le Boy in Fort Lauderdale
 
Last night was another good night at Le Boy. There were 14 true twink dancers, no skinny guys and no older out-of-shape guys, and no big muscles. Just nice, real, smooth, most without any tattoos, clean cut, cute, obliging, nearly naked twinks. Very nice. Only one of the dancers had been there on Saturday two weeks ago, when I visited. Four were outstanding; they would be star attractions anyplace they performed.
 
The crowd was good, but comes and goes in flows. At 9:00, the bar and patio were filled; by 9:30 it had thinned out. Another wave of customers came at 10:00 and thinned out by 10:40. At 11:00 another wave came in. Chris the bartender was his usual charming, efficient, boyish self.
 
There were three Black dancers, and given time, I would have tried at least two of them. One arrived at 10:00, was a little short, but had a perfect and perfectly defined body. Smooth, chiseled, very attractive. In addition he was wearing only a sock pouch, which he filled to overflowing. Beautiful, smooth, rounded bubble butt, all of which was visible. Not enough time.
 
But my favorites were Austin, Gee, Leo, and Michael. They kept me happily entertained most of the evening, and they were all standouts. Austin was tall, swimmer's build, smooth all over, cute/handsome, boyish with a mane of brown hair and wearing only the smallest and simplest of G strings. His beautiful ass was fully on display. He was also well endowed. He was entertaining and very obliging at the bar.
 
Gee was the dancer I saw two weeks ago. He's the blond who danced a duo with a darker boy. He is from New York and Brazil, speaks perfect (non-New York) English and perfect Portuguese. He is cute, full of energy, a little kinky, charming to talk with, a good performer on stage. He was wearing a little G-string, and then for his performance added a see-through shirt with little lines of velvet. That left his blond bubble butt fully exposed and a nice contrast to the black pouch and strings. He is totally smooth, well endowed and enjoys being petted. Very highly recommended.
 
Michael was a very handsome, dark haired dancer from Peru. He had on a skimpy speedo and suspenders and white bow tie. I guess all the guys wear the ties. Utterly smooth, good English, pleasant to talk with, well endowed, delicious round ass, nice straight slightly muscled smooth legs. I enjoyed him very much.
 
Leo was a bundle of energy from Orlando. He is dancing in "Aladdin" up there and also teaching dance to teenagers. Articulate, charming, constantly in motion. Beautiful smooth body with muscles harder than anyone else I felt. His legs, while beautiful to look at, were as strong as steel, and his beautiful ass was also very tight and firm and round. He had a real dancer's body. Cute, no tattoos, friendly, obliging, everything you want in a twink.
 
There were some others I tried briefly, but I enjoyed the Big Four above so much, I kept one or the other in my lap most of the evening. Franco and Orin were fine, especially Orin. Lenny and Jay were a little older, perhaps mid 20s. There was one very cute boy I would like to have met, but after he danced he disappeared onto the patio and remained in the embrace of an older admirer for the rest of the evening. Another night.
 
I would strongly recommend Le Boy to anyone who enjoys seeing and playing with cute, charming, nearly-naked twinks. Every night is different and none can be guaranteed, but certainly Friday (last night) and Saturday (two weeks ago) were both winning nights.

This young provider shows his Instagram link as part of the photo array in his MB ad. For those who might be interested in his type, it lessens the need for further searching.
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Some info from a recent PV visit...
 
http://15minutesmore.com/blog/2019/04

Observatioms from my weekend Miami visit - Just my opinions, feel free to discuss!
 
1 - This is NOT the same as the old Doral FR. If you had visited that locale, you will find a completely different experience in North Miami. Talking with the staff on a Friday night, they explained that the Doral business plan was unsustainable, with the location and staffing issues. The new Rooster is meant to be more like a Twist for the North Miami neighborhood., set up with several smaller rooms. The building is a converted Seventies restaurant, low ceilings and all. The location at the west end of the 79th Causeway should work for the persons in North Beach- valet parking for $10, but I was able to parallel park on 79th Street within a block. Door fee was $10 and yes, you have to fill out a membership card. As long as the name on your ID matches the name you put on the form, that's all they need. The place has two bars, a billiards room, and the main stage area. Seating for about 30 in the main room- a low small stage in the center of that room--, with the low ceiling, it seemed to be an intimate room.
 
2 - The crew seems very determined to make the new Rooster a neighborhood venue- hours are 3PM to 3AM. Dancers started at 9PM Friday night, as the night went on, more guys showed up- by midnight there were about twelve guys, mainly muscly types. Just a couple of smaller guys (including one I have seen before at Johnson's), so if ya like "em big, this will work for you! Drinks seemed to priced at the average, not a ripoff. One bar just inside the front door to get your first drink ( they said it's a two-drink minimum, but I saw no enforcement mechanism.) Main bar is in a long room outside the main stage area, so the drinks line doesn't interfere with the show room - a great idea that more clubs should consider! Billiards room is off to the side of the main bar, again to avoid viewing interference. VIP rooms are in a hallway to the back side of the show room. As in the Doral FR, it's a mixed crowd, 80 pct male, 20 pct female. Not hard to figure out which dancers are straight, they flock to the females- kinda funny to watch!
 
3 - Yes, the main stage is not full-nude here, down to briefs and buns shots only. Just a little bit more revealing than Johnson's or Boardwalk, but not enough to be noticable. Typical three-song set for each guy. Because of the low ceiling and the low stage, the dancing is more restrained- Damn do I miss those high ceilings and two 18-foot poles in Doral- but you're much closer to the guys.
 
4 - The VIP rooms are FAR better than the old club! The rooms have full doors- no curtains or beads, but honest-to-God privacy, yay! VIP entrance fee $40, $100 per 15 minutes to the dancer. I took two guys back, both very accomodating- apparrenty, dancers rules seem to be anything goes. Both stripped completely once the door closed, none of my requests were refused- a sweaty funky time was had by all! Best VIP room experience I've had in years in Florida. This alone made the trip into Miami worth the trouble. So, if you give it a chance, you might have a great time if you have an open mind.

I went to FR on Saturday, the 21st, and it was my first time at the new location. Parking was relatively easy - I parked across the street. There is plenty of parking along the street but I wouldn’t recommend parking too far from the location. The neighborhood can be a bit sketchy. There was parking available at FR but for a cost (forgot exactly amount). I got there right before 10 so I didnt have to pay a cover but it was surprisingly still pretty empty. No more than 10 patrons and about 5ish dancers. Most were hispanic, athletic to muscle-y. No big muscle guys. I didn’t find any of the guys to be particularly noteworthy or memorable. I chatted with a few but none interested me enough for a private. I left about an hour later and it wasn’t too busy yet. Overall, i’d go back and stay a little later to see if it picks up and more dancers showed.

check out piranha nightclubs site for las vegas. hot hot uber friendly gogos there. on weekends about 20 dancers with 3 rooms to enjoy them in. many smokin hot guys!!! and smokin hot bartenders to boot!

Literotica.com is similar to nifty as well.

From my experience, a bunch of then are straight (but not necessarily narrow), some are gay, and some are willing to be g4p if circumstances are right. I once went to Adonis (few years ago) with two gorgeous escorts, both bottom vers, who I had hired for the night. At adonis, all three of us were enchanted by a spectacular 20-something, seancody/corbinfisher type jock. I had a couple of lapdances with him, like what I saw and felt, and figured he could be an incredible jocktop. My two buddies went up to him, showed him their abs, offered him their asses, and suggested he come back to my hotel with them to play. He did. It was amazing. Whether he was bi or just on the down low, his body was absolutely spectacular and he alternated fucking each of us for nearly two hours. Not sure he would have come with me alone ... although that did happen another time I went to Adonis. YMMV, of course.

I admit my favorite part about Seeking is psychologically shifting a boy's self-perception who is resistant to the idea of being an "escort" by making it very clear how valuable their tight tushies are to me and many gentlemen really the perfect job for attractive young men

Had a successful arrangement Sunday with a cute twink bottom in NYC who was adorably apprehensive at first but was great at what he did behind closed doors looking forward to the next session

Haha. No, afraid I’m a bit more respectful of the time and effort which is required of being an escort. Besides, the size of my balls notwithstanding, they aren’t nearly large enough that I’d walk in bragging about my idiotic schemes on how to “work” the system. I like my balls attached thank you ?