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For 100% therapeutic, Austin.
https://www.yelp.com/biz/holding-company-san-francisco-4
https://www.schedulista.com/schedule/holdingcompany/choose_time?provider_id=1073745306&service_id=1073807742
 
For therapeutic with optional fun, Mark.
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/36558/
 
For therapeutic with even more optional fun, Chad.
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/9897/

I recently arrived back home from Japan. I was there a little over 2 weeks, and during that time I had 3 escorts. I couldn't help myself because the prices were so low! Most of the guys there operate out of what essentially are brothels. The companies that own these brothels also own some of the porn companies in Japan. So basically Japanese gay porn is often a way to advertise the guys' services.
 
I met the first guy, Ryoji, in Tokyo: http://en.hi-na.com/cast/profile.php?cast=1107
 
I enjoyed his videos, so I wanted to meet: https://acceed.jp/search.php?model=on&c=10396
 
This guy is straight. We met at a nearby train station and then he took me to the brothel. In the brothels, you see nobody else but your guy. Not other guys, other staff members, other customers, nobody. We went to the room. He gave me some snacks and a soda. We then took a shower together, with him washing me. We then then a throat gargle and a mouthwash gargle. I'm normally not a fan of blowjobs, but Japan made me a fan of them. My time with Ryoji was great. After we finished, we again showered and gargled. At the end of the session, he gave me a special photobook of the company's boys that the company produced for their recent 14th anniversary, which he autographed. I spent 90 minutes with him, for 17,000 yen, or $151.
 
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A few days later, I met Kaiki in Osaka: http://www.dgdgdg.com/boy/detail.php?shop_id=4&boy_id=5052
 
He's bi and we had an overnight in my hotel room. Again, there was the showering and gargling before and after. We had some similar interests, so he was great to talk to. Again, great at oral. We then cuddled nude and slept in each others' arms for the rest of the night. I paid for 8 hours, but he ended up staying for 10 because he overslept. For this I was not charged extra. He then rushed off to one of his college classes. So for the 8 hour overnight I paid 25,000 yen, or $222.
 
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I met my last guy when I went back to Tokyo, Kyouhei: http://gym-k.com/sp/prof_kyouhei.html
 
He's gay, and older and more muscular than the other two. My appointment with him began by meeting a staff member around the corner from the building. He then took me to the brothel. It was the same set up as the other place: very, very private. The staff member then brought my guy to me. He wasn't as facially attractive as the other two (he wasn't ugly, just a bit older and more rugged than I'm used to), but his body more than made up for it, as did his dick and ass. Again, there was the showering and gargling before and after. He was much more energetic than the other two guys, a bit too much for me at times. I really got the sense that he was really gay and really into sex. Then gave me a full body massage as well. I spent 90 minutes with him, for 19,000 yen, or $169.
 
All of my interactions were very safe, with condoms being used at all times during anal, even for fingering in some cases.
 
If you don't speak or read Japanese, these services do have English sites and English-speaking staff, since they do get a lot of tourists, mainly from other parts of Asia. And there's always Google Translate.
 
If you're ever in Japan, or in Asia and want to go a stopover, check out some of the local escort services. They're great and really well priced. In the end, I spent $542 for 3 guys, totaling 11 hours (13 in reality). That's like the price of 2 hours with one guy in New York.

Like others above, getting together with Tyler was a struggle, with several cancellations and rebooking around his schedule. Then the session was kind of *meh*. Something seemed off. Nice enough person and I wish him well. But I won't rebook.

Like others above, getting together with Tyler was a struggle, with several cancellations and rebooking around his schedule. Then the session was kind of *meh*. Something seemed off. Nice enough person and I wish him well. But I won't rebook.

Extremely hard to book, and extremely unreliable! Over the course of the last two years I’ve gone through the interminable texting with him three times. He finally booked all three, and only showed up once.
 
The other two times - including last night - he sets a time. As the time approaches texts start to flow in from him about his being late...ultimately it becomes projected arrival over one hour later and one of says “cancel”.
 
Frustrating....especially since he set the arrival time for last night to HIS preference! I’m done with him, his numbers deleted/blocked.

Unfortunately, I will not have any other experiences in Amsterdam, at least of interest to this forum. I am here for work, and when not in meetings, am on email and phone calls thanks to the time difference back Stateside. I have secretly drooled over stunningly handsome and pretty young Dutch men, tall, of fair complexion, toned bodies and nice asses who I have seen walking around. Also, thanks to the Dutch colonial period, invasions, and what have you, there are very nice looking men of mixed-race background, as well as immigrants who have grown up here. A whole spectrum of shades of skin colors of attractive men. And they seem to age relatively well too, at least remaining handsome of face even if gravity works on the body. I suspect that there would be some of the younger ilk at the sauna at the right times on weekends and that they would be ready to play. The city is lovely as well!
 
I opted to not do a hire off any of the rent* sites because of past poor experiences in Europe and the UK. I'd rather spend my Euros on a good meal and/or a legit massage.
 
If you are arriving by air and staying anywhere near Centraal, take the direct train from Schipol to Centraal Station. I am glad to have paid the extra 3-4 Euros to sit in the small first class compartment of the train at the head. From what I could see, it was a cramped, standing room only situation in all the cars of the rest of the train, something I was glad to avoid after a long-haul flight from the US and then a connecting flight to AMS.

I just had my second excellent session with JeremyLee while he was visiting San Francisco. Jeremy is an Asian-Canadian muscle boy based in Toronto. Very clean, playful and good at what he advertises. Pictures are very accurate.
 
https://rentmen.eu/jeremylee

Yes. He is.

He wasn't only therapeutic. Then he was only therapeutic. Now he is again not only therapeutic. As always, YMMV for the +$50.

Agree. He’s amazingly sexy

Yep.
I added a tip also.

Saw him recently. His therapeutic skills were excellent, but the massage was far from strictly therapeutic.

He appears to be working out of his home now, so his offerings may have expanded.

I can vouch for Taiyospa in Osaka. The first time I had very muscular Korean masseur. The second time I had a very toned Japanese young man as the masseur. Both were good sessions. I think Seoul offers many more options for muscular Asian guys than Japan does. Taller ones too.

And, yes, his pictures are accurate. Great pecs too!

He's the real deal. Amazing body and super sweet. I highly recommend.

My experience with a "Tantric" massage was a regular body Swedish style with stretching and sensual elements through out, mostly directed to the genitalia. Towards the second half , edging over and over but never cumming so you "send the Tantric energy back into the body". This was the benefit of Tantra. I enjoyed the massage and masseur, he was naked but no mutual touching as it was a session only for me to give into the experience.
I did go home though and finish the job.

@rainyday, I'm sorry this situation happened. I hope you have someone you can speak with about it or some way to express your thoughts and feelings about it. Don't bottle it up and don't be too hard on yourself. You trusted this guy and he went way too far.
 
To all of you who complain rainy should've just "said no" or "stopped it," please stop. It sounds and feels like victim blaming and shaming.
 
Rainy just had an incredible massage from someone he thought he could trust. He was fully relaxed and had "massage brain." It's completely likely he was mentally "slowed" enough to not be fully engaged and he was also in a very vulnerable position with someone who was "in control" and possibly bigger and stronger. The masseur raped him. Period. Unless there was prior conversation about being topped and Rainy expressed consent, then the masseur raped him. There's no gray area here. The masseur failed in the most fundamental professional way: he assumed he knew what the client wanted and didn't confirm with the client before proceeding. There are many ways to easily & sexily gain consent. The masseur failed to communicate and also engaged in activity that was unsafe and dangerous. That's a clear violation of the power dynamic of the interaction.
 
Rainy, I hope you continue to be completely clean of all STDs and STIs. Given your prior comments, I'm sure you know the testing schedules and when "all clear signs" will happen for the potential infectious agents.
 
Lastly, as some of you may recall, I was drugged and essentially raped during my very first escort hiring experience. I had expressly said no to all drugs and insisted on condoms for safety while also clearly communicating that I was nervous and needed a slow and careful experience. The escort slipped a drug into my beer that resulted in my blacking out for 7 hours, during which time he fucked me at least once. I have no memories from the blacked out time and only know I was fucked because there was blood and pain when I regained consciousness. I bring all of this up, only to say, @rainyday, if you want someone to talk to that may have a similar cluster of thoughts and feelings, then please know you're welcome to privately message me.

There isn’t a lot of “muscle” in Japan. It’s just not an aesthetic that
many of them strive to achieve. There are however casts of thousands
of beautiful slim well toned men. What little muscle there is is mostly
“top only”.
 
As someone who prefers muscle bottoms....it was frustrating to say the least.
 
A funny quirk of Japanese law....they outlaw exchanging “sex” for money,
but sex is very narrowly defined as penis/vagina intercourse. So literally
everything else....is legal.
 
There are brothels in Tokyo and Osaka. You can also preview what’s
available online. They usually have books on site as well that you can
peruse in person. That seems to be their major way of marketing.
 
In Tokyo....
https://kids-jp.com/en/tk/s/
http://www.kocnet.jp/
 
In Osaka there is a nice massage venue.....http://taiyospa.com/
That I found to be very welcoming to an English speaking westerner.

At the risk of repeating what the previous three posters wrote... After a long day of meetings and presentations requiring me to be authoritative, argumentative and on point, that evening I chose tantricshaman from the many available options for a massage. Our session was exactly what I needed. It was different from my first time with him but I left with the same feeling of a kind of high and release, both sensual and mental. The session was powerful and intense, and took me out of my head. The comments on this thread are spot on. I would not recommend for those seeking a traditional sensual or erotic massage experience. For those seeking to go outside the run of the mill and to accept the risk that you and he might not connect (and by that I don't mean to imply "connect" based on physical attraction), I highly recommend. The usual caveat: YMMV.

I have met the gentleman in question, and he is special, but may not be to everyone's liking. And he is aware of that and will tell you upfront if he thinks that hiring him will not be a good thing for you (or for him).
 
He takes he works as a "healer" very seriously and his table-work in not a traditional massage but if you read his profile carefully you might find that he is appropriate for you.
 
As for my experience, after some initial misgivings I found him to be quite worth my time. (And the HE definitely was part of my experience but in a way that, in retrospect, made more "sense" than most.)
 
But definitely not for everyone.

I just had my second excellent session with JeremyLee while he was visiting San Francisco. Jeremy is an Asian-Canadian muscle boy based in Toronto. Very clean, playful and good at what he advertises. Pictures are very accurate.
 
https://rentmen.eu/jeremylee

Hey, we're talking about Pats & Pans here...

First time that I have seen someone post "high school" diploma as a credential on masseurfinder. It is kind of endearing. You can discuss the symbolism in "Catcher in the Rye" with him while getting your massage.

For those looking for just a great massage with no extras in Amsterdam, I can vouch for Richard at sauna nieuwezijds. He gave one of the best deep tissue massages I have had. Very reasonably priced for the quality too. I looked at other Amsterdam masseurs at sites like rentmasseur but suspected they would give the old rub & tug. Richard is legit and excellent. He relieved knots deep in my shoulders and back.
 
As far as the sauna goes, I was there late on a Tuesday afternoon and, while it was surprisingly busy, it wasn't my cup of tea (plus I wasn't really in the mood). There was lots of action going on in the darkest part of the steam room and in the some of the darker parts of the mazes. I left before the evening crowd came in. The sauna was very clean, with a big steam room, a nice dry sauna and a smallish hot tub. Also a nice looking bar and food for order. And a very easy 5 minute walk from Centraal Station.