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    November 2021- Is the demand down?

    in The Deli

    Posted

    This is an interesting thread and still early enough that I can agree with everything that has been posted.

    For myself, COVID and all the changes it wrought seemed to have wrecked my libido and desire to hire. I was lucky and was able to be fully vaccinated by end of February because of my work. Even vaccinated I haven't had much desire to hire. I was struggling to come out when HIV first emerged and my own caution kept me from acting on my desires for 7 years. Now, it seems like meeting up with some rando-guy who has met with who knows how many other guys in the last 5-7 days (who may or may not be vaccinated0 and who could be asymptomatically infected isn't worth the risk, just as all the unknowns about HIV were for me in the 1980s.

    Also, Zoom meetings have replaced all the work travel that I used to do. I used to love surveying and choosing who was available in the cities on my itinerary. The other compounding matter, which has been topics of other threads and off-topic for this one, is that the current fashion of "look" of so many masseurs and escorts is off-putting instead of attractive for me. So, now I am very occasionally having massages with masseurs who I have been seeing for years. One masseur, who I've known for a long time, and I are having energetic sex when we get together - he says that he is so horny because he doesn't want to hook up with some random person. So I am taking selective risks. But I wouldn't sample the wares on the city-by-city itineraries that I did pre-2020.

    I keep on thinking about what our new world looks like. The virus is endemic now. New variants are going to emerge because of various factors. So how we conduct our personal lives post-vaccination is a matter of choice. (But get the damn vaccine!. Moderna or Pfizer). As gymowner experienced and public_assistance commented, the vaccine offers very significant risk-reduction from severe COVID but does not protect from infection. The older you and other factors (compromised immune system) reduces the efficacy of protection.  Some of my friends have lost 80- and 90-year old relatives who were fully vaccinated but still died from long-COVID. My late 20-something cousin and his wife both vaccinated, both have COVID now - they work in an office in a red state, seeing customers and nobody was wearing a mask.

    I think, maybe fatalistically, that for everybody who is going to live some semblance of life as it was pre-2020, we all have a date with this virus. I'm just not rushing to hook up with it.

    asianmensmassage

    in Spas & Masseurs

    Posted

    On 9/22/2021 at 6:23 PM, toocoolforschool said:

    I don't know what to think either.  It seems like there are 3 of them and the one named "Jay" is coming to the US.  But no one has ever met any of them?

    It is confusing. "Jay" says he is from Germany in the rentmasseur ad. But on their "AsianMenMassage" website the link to which EVDude helpfully provided, David from Taiwan is the only one who says he is from Germany. David from Taiwan has tattoos in the same position as the paint-splashes in pic #5 in the rentmasseur ad. Jay doesn't speak German but David does.

    Then NYJimmy's 11/4/21 review on rentmasseur:

    "Overall, had a good (not great) experience with Jay during our time. The massage was enjoyable and what I had asked for so no major complaints there. But the photos on this site are either outdated or not the same, very muscular/built guy seen here (I wasn't entirely sure though Jay was cute and his body is nice, just nothing like the body seen here) so I'd suggest posting current photos so there are no surprises. Like I said, the massage was what I asked for so in the end Jay delivered but in the end, I can't recommend whole heartedly."

    So, at those prices and with a question about who is going to show up, it's a hard-no for me. And probably won't be Ryan from Korea. I hear he's on some island playing Red Light, Green Light.

    411 on Hunter

    in Spas & Masseurs

    Posted

    On 11/25/2017 at 7:57 AM, 7829V said:

    He's visiting San Diego... but his face looks lost/confused.. he looks weird.

    And it seems that he's not aware that if you google his phone number, everything about him comes up... his resume, his address, where he works, etc.

    Reviving this old thread, because I kind of feel sorry for him. Still using photos that make him look like a deer in the headlights. And, geez... having your LinkedIn profile come up when his phone number on RM is Googled.

    Escort offering you a drink at the start of a session

    in The Deli

    Posted

    I don't think it is paranoid at all. Rather, it is completely prudent, even  more for one's first meeting. I refuse an offer from a provider, escort or masseur, unless either it is in a sealed bottle that I open or I get my own water out of the tap. Same when I am hosting in a hotel room. I will offer a sealed bottle of water. I will drink water from a glass offered by some of the (mostly therapeutic) masseurs that I have seen regularly over the years.

    August 16 - August 25 - San Francisco

    in The Deli

    Posted

    I hope they all brought their masks and proof of vaccination cards.

    Nothing special going on here that I know of but I'd probably be the last to know. It seems pretty quiet as we're all delta-phobic.

    The weather is typical summer. The sky is only slightly orange from wildfire smoke. It is cool and windy and perfect weather to cuddle indoors in the evening.

    Maybe business is good because we're horny after the last ~18 months and still not getting out.

     

    Gay brothels?

    in Questions About Hiring

    Posted

    On 7/7/2021 at 4:22 AM, westernsyd said:

    Asia has many male brothels that operate as a massage business, once you have chosen your masseur, either from a photo or a line up, you go have your massage, most times it will be a HE - and normally you negotiate the tip during the massage.  you normally pay the masseur for the extras and the business for the massage.

    I have experienced these in Bali, Singapore, KL, Hanoi and HCMC , Phenom Penh and Siem Reap, Bangkok.  Some have a line up of a few boys others have 30 to choose from.  

     

    Several of these in Seoul, where the boys are usually muscular young man. In Tokyo, they are mostly - but not all - very twinky.  They have websites in which you can pre-order your guy, then go to the site, usually in an apartment complex, to meet. You can definitely get more than a HE, depending upon the guy. Usually the websites will specify whether the guy will do anal or not. The online gay guides for Asia list them city-by-city under "massage", some with reviews posted.

    Cody Miller

    in The Deli

    Posted

    On 11/22/2018 at 8:07 PM, smooth899 said:

    Yes, I realize I'm reviving a thread that's 10 years old. But I wanted to report that I spotted Cody in Las Vegas last weekend. He looked incredible...his ass is out of this world! He was wearing a tshirt with the name of an LA gym on it. I did a little research and it appears that he is an owner/trainer there. Wonder if he still sees some old regulars?

    Yes, I realize that I am reviving a thread that is now 13 years old. Is the "Cody Miller" subject of this thread the muscle boy in a lot of solo JO videos from the '00s? Who also went by Tory Mycles? If so, it seems he was available on rentboy back in the day. For me he was perfection.

    It didn't take much online research ("Troy Mycles + bodybuilder") to find his current personal training business. He may be hotter today in his late 30s than in his youthful days. I may have to go to Pasadena to get some personal training at his gym.

    Did Deron move (from PS) to Wyoming?!

    in Spas & Masseurs

    Posted · Edited by musclvr

    Interesting. Makes sense. Thanks.

    Tony actually seems appealing, and previous comments are promising: https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/16047/

    Any comments to add?

    I'll recommend a different Tony. This Tony gives a great massage with extras and is a nice guy. Fully vaccinated too.

     

    https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/17975/

    Your Most Muscular Meet-Up?

    in The Deli

    Posted

    I engaged Big Max (Sam) when he was living in NYC. He was always a delight. As massively muscled as he was, he could be remarkably gentle and soothing. I had no idea that nipples could be erogenous zones until he went to work on mine.

    o_O?

     

    My only other big muscle encounters were Tony Carroll (nice guy) and an Asian mountain of muscle that was visually a wet dream to behold, but leanings too far into S&M for me to continue engaging him.

    Do you remember the name of the Asian mountain of muscle?

    Estebansipriani in LA, I'll say he's fake

    in The Deli

    Posted

    [MEDIA=imgur]ylQO23E[/MEDIA]

    Sure, this guy is Spanish. Years ago I had a boyfriend, born, raised in an upper-middle class family, and educated in a Central American country, who had immigrated to the US. Despite his physically looking Central American, my BF told everyone he was Spanish or, more precisely, Catalonian, because he could trace his ancestry back to there. Like I can claim to be French because I supposedly have an ancestor that was an invader in the Norman Conquest.

    San Diego Recommendations

    in Spas & Masseurs

    Posted

    Alex was my go-to too when he was still in SD and I'm glad you've found his profile cuz I lost his number. I'm intrigued and a little surprised he had a RMen ad before the pandemic. Anyhow I will try reach out to him to see when he visits SD.

     

    I second (and third) these comments regarding Alex. Otherwise, SD is a vast wasteland.

    DanErotic LA

    in Spas & Masseurs

    Posted

    Agree with the above. Not a memorable massage. I guess because his massage ad was on rentmen I thought it would be more interactive. Very robotic. I wouldn’t repeat. Overpromised and underdelivered.

    Thank you for and @tchm for your posts. I've viewed his profile when he was in NYC as Fit_Daniel and thought he was lovely but never hired him because of previous underwhelming posts about him. I guess he's one of those people who doesn't change and gets by on his looks.

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