P Gren

What happened when you talked to about it afterwards and explained this?

Prince Charles or the Pope?

He could take a cue from the current Pope. Serve for a period of time and then resign, rather than die on the job.

You're saying that a guy that is at the more extreme edge of stats .... say 6'3" 120 lbs or 5'6" 350 ... would rather have an in your face reaction (if there is going to be one), than have a reaction from the safety of their home on the other end of a completely anonymous text message?

How exactly did you come across this?

I was looking for clarification about "this" line of questioning. It was not/is not obvious what exactly he was objecting to.

A person can provide basic stats if asked, and remain completely discrete/anonymous.

If it was obvious to me I wouldn't have asked. We obviously have different ideas about what is obvious. Basic information seems a reasonable and 'obvious' request. A carpenter is going to want a scope of work before taking a job or not - part of professionalism is taking on jobs you can handle and do a good job at.

You totally rock the wig - you may want to reconsider it as a fashion choice

Sorry, I'm not sure what it was you found off putting?

Guys into thick dicks will like this one

Does anyone?

Homophobia is based on misogyny, we aren't "real" men. "Gold diggers" are vilified whether man or woman.

The original post - that had the names - was deleted almost immediately after posting

Sounds like you are working through it. What happened when you talked to him about it afterwards?

My last message just pointed out something that both the client and the escort could have taken responsibility for, not bending over backwards. And, others may disagree, but the initial posting came across as a bit 'victim' in tone (for lack of a better word) - everything was the escort's fault in a different situation than previous hires, without before hand communication.

It just sounds like disappointment and lack of communication. The client brought dinner up at the start of the session, which the escort was immediately reluctant about. The client could have brought up a 'date' before the session, and the escort could have ended the session if he wasn't comfortable on a 'date' with friends before they got to the restaurant.

That's half of the story. I'm sure we can agree there is probably more to it from the other person's perspective that we'll never know. Best thing for the client would be to talk to the escort and find out what happened. I'm sensing a lot of disappointment, which is hard for any of us to deal with.

Good point. It doesn't sound like this happened.

We might have to agree to disagree. In my opinion he hired a person not a robot. One perspective only, I don't expect everyone to agree with it.

I agree with you people of different ages are often seen together out in public. And the situations you point out would have a very different vibe than the situation that started this thread.

There's unanticipated - the taxi was late - and there is unanticipated - spending hours with a group of the client's friends as 'what exactly?' What are the options? Honesty: "I'm here because he's paid for my time for a BFE. What do you do for a living?" Faking a story: what story? what has the client already said? "We met in the laundry room and he helped fold my underwear." Leaving discretely with no charge and a learning experience may have been the best option.

Its easy and obvious telling the difference from two guys hanging out (let's say, one of them is a guy you would hire with another one that you wouldn't) both in town for a conference/convention and two guys that are 'together' on a BFE. Young mindset? No young guys ever say that ... only old guys say that

Not denying your reality, and your comment made me sad

I expect there's some level of 'self-loathing' with both partners.