MassageDrew

They're probably looking for someone "generous" to take care of them. And the older ones on Grindr are usually looking for younger instead of someone in their age group. Sad but true.

Well, keep the texts. It's proof that it was consensual. If anything he could get arrested for prostitution. They're banking on the fact that you're scared and would possibly offer them money to keep quiet. Not the first one I've heard. There are these so-called straight for pay guys that only do this because they're hard for cash. In a way they are but they'd like to scare you and make money off of you. If that were me I'd say go ahead and try to ruin me. I can return the favor. Especially if you have the texts and his photos. If anything I say good luck to him. I think your friend got way too attached emotionally with his hire and provided too much personal info. I treat mine as a business transaction. Have your friend stop interacting with this lunatic couple. They'll eventually go away. The more he prolongs it the worse it gets.

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I've seen a similar video with a different guy. Poor dude. It's one thing to subject them to smell ass but a dirty one? Come on.

One guy performed a sniff test on me one time. We were making out and he started to finger me. Then when he thought I couldn't see him he sniffed the finger he used. The bitch in me almost came out to say "Bitch, that's clean." But I guessed he liked it cuz we continued to make out before he decided that he wanted to get in lol. I'm like, hello, I have an entire process in getting ready to be with someone. I felt almost offended. Almost. LOL

Ugh I can still imagine that smell in my mind. I should've burned my clothing afterwards.

Does it bother you when you smell b/o on a guy you're hooking up with? I had a recent hookup and as cute as the guy was I just couldn't get past his strong "scent". I know it's a fetish for some, just not mine. I nearly gagged when I got close to his pits.

I've always liked the Acqua di Parma line.

Milk it first then followed by a sheet of toilet labor so it's fully dry if I'm in the toilet. Otherwise it's just a shake if it's only the urinal I'm using.

Back when I was still starting my career I worked for a local museum here in Chicago. I worked there past time while I finished school. Anyway, you just never know who you'd run into at as museum.

Julia Roberts

Tommy Lee Jones

David Bowie

David schwimmer (not sure if I spelled his name correctly)

And even Belgian royalty

I'd walk away after the first non-response. Nobody is that busy to not reply especially when you're business depends on being contacted via text or email.

Has happened to me as well. Those are fake just trying to get your number. Then all the ads come in when they do.

I've never been asked to make a deposit, and I'd move on IMO. With that said, I got to an appointment once where the masseur actually asked me to leave the payment on the dresser before the service was even provided. Wtf is this? Dine and dash? I did do as he asked but left out whatever tip I would've given him and haven't booked with him since. It was just an ok experience.

I just ignore it

If he's talking to you about his trips and other personal stuff then he's likely treating you as a friend and nothing more. Taking it to another level would probably kill any chances and you'd end up driving him away especially if he doesn't feel the same way.

As for the faceless Grindr profile, you're one of those. If he's like me, I never respond go faceless profiles. You can write your stats all you want but I prefer a pic. Ugh, and some guys use a picture that's at least a decade old as if I can't tell how old it is. What's this, age of AOL?

I can fall asleep on anything. I just don't like it when it's too soft. Thread counts does matter though. I don't use anything less 800 thread count. I sometimes stay at my friend's house when I watch his dogs and all their bedding including the bed itself are similar to what they use at the Aria in Vegas. The sheets are nice but the bed is too soft. I can't sleep when I feel like I'm sinking. Too soft.

If you've seen his profile on Grindr then I'm sure he's seen yours. If nothing happened til now then, most likely, nothing will ever happen. I'd let it go. Keep it platonic and professional.

I wouldn't say anything at all. It's one of those things you should just keep to yourself. It's tempting but you cannot take it back if the other doesn't feel the same way. Then it's just awkward. It's one of those fine lines you really don't want to cross.

It has to start somewhere. Instead of paying his fees and travel expenses, why don't you travel to him first, get your first experience, and see if you find it worth it to actually want to spend an extended time with him.

I'd you like that kind of look, why not. I wouldn't put him in the jock category for sure. Still an ass though. Can't wait for him to lose.

Useless

I once had a friend who moved into a new apartment in NYC

and threw an “afternoon party” in his new space. When we

got there, there were 5 pizzas, 4 liters of soda, 10 gallons of paint,

6 paint brushes and two paint rollers. The “party” was an previously

unannounced “apartment painting party”.

 

I politely rolled up my sleeves.....and left.

That is some expectation to think you'd want to do any work. Let alone for someone else. That friend just became an acquaintance. One more stunt and he'll be ghosted entirely.

That's nice of them. It's gotten do commercialized that people focus more on having the material side of it. I'm still getting used to the idea that people register for their gifts. I remember going to a wedding where no gifts were necessary. They're happy to get what you give but they're just happy to share the happy event with you. As it should be.

Now, I have a friend who moved from one apartment to another and registered for housewarming gifts. WTF I might consider it if he owned the place but it was only an apartment. I declined the invitation. I gave no time for b/s.

She's trying to milk whatever fame she think she has. Unfortunately, some fall for it.

I say don't get married if you're too poor to have a wedding. What's next? Ask for funding to raise their kids?

Was just there last weekend. The Campus was surprisingly a dud though. Crowd was light. I liked Stock bar better. But my buddy and I bounced from those to too unity and other dance clubs. He had to work a bit so I told him I'm going to Oasis Sunda lol. Had fun there too.

Just spent last weekend bar hopping in Montreal. Enjoyed every minute of it. I love to dance so it was nice to be able to do that. I visited the strip clubs too but I enjoyed Club Unity very much.