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StLouisOct

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  1. We give the escorts a blank space to write what they want, where they can choose to give their height and weight or whatever other information they think is relevant. It’s great to hear everyone’s feedback, and we’ll consider adding additional fields for height and weight in the future.

     

    Greg pointed out that MintBoys has a lot of rules. This is because we work differently from the other sites. It’s a necessary part of our vision of creating a safe, legal space for male escorts and clients. There are many potential escorts and clients out there that stay away from the industry because they don't want to risk legal trouble. MintBoys allows these people to get back into the business, and it allows people that are currently involved to stop putting themselves at risk. But admittedly it is a departure from the practices that are common on the other sites, and something that will require adaptation.

     

    I’d be happy to hear any other feedback on the website or our business model.

     

    Best,

    Scott

    Founder of https://www.mintboys.com

    Gotta say that I don't understand your marketing model at all. I get to see uninspiring photos of guys who tell me almost nothing about themselves, who provide nothing to inspire me that time with them would be well spent, and I am provided with a disclaimer that says that I shouldn't count on much of anything -- best of luck (wink/wink). What is there to inspire me to ever look at the site a second time?

  2. There’s a 411 discussion in the Deli section about an escort who doesn’t kiss, at least on the first date. It evolved into a discussion about herpes and includes the comment that many escorts “have reservations about kissing.” I’ve been with only 13 guys through RM - all BFE sessions - and I’ve never experienced any reservations. Is my experience unusual? Have many of you teamed up with escorts, especially those providing a BFE experience, who are hesitant about kissing or refuse to engage in it? Maybe I should emphasize a kissing requirement when I arrange times.

  3. In our digital world, it can be tough to rely strictly on cash. Sometimes it gets tricky, but it is possible to only use cash. Here's a few methods I use:

     

    1. Buy airline gift cards

    2. Buy Uber/Lyft gift cards

    3. Use cash for the Metro/Subway

    4. Pay cash upon checkout at Hotel (Rates can be higher this way as it's a flexible and not prepaid rate)

    5. Paying cell phone bill and other bills inside physical location

    Victor - I’d be interested to hear why you prefer cash over credit cards. Do you have any cards?

  4. As noted by Kurtis Wolfe above, prosecutors have not been inclined to take action against high end escorts. They’re more concerned about sex trafficking of minors and other scenarios that take advantage of people in weak positions, as opposed to adults who are in the business of providing client services. That’s good. One might ask, what about the prosecution of Rentboy’s owner? I’ve always felt that Rentboy flaunted itself too much, with Hookie award celebrations and the like, and perhaps a district attorney thought they went too far. That’s not the case with Rentmen and similar sites.

     

    Addressing the disclaimer issue, imagine yourself arguing before a judge or a jury that your client has neither solicited sex nor engaged in prosecution. You are left with the following position: “Your honor (or members of the jury) it’s true that my client publishes pictures of himself naked and erect with his ass exposed at tantalizing angles; that he describes himself as a versatile bottom who loves men of all shapes and sizes, and advertises that he’s into cum, anal, oral and spanking, and that he charges $250 an hour for his time. Rest assured that he was not talking about providing sex to others. He solicited a valuable interpersonal relationship and experience and didn’t seek payment for anything having to do with sex. That latter point is obvious because the money was put on the table after he advertised himself as a sex god, but before he engaged in sex. ” --- Good luck with that.

     

    Saminseattle provides helpful thoughts. Overall, the good thing is that legal authorities do not appear to be concerned about the Rentman scenarios. Escorts should feel free to use the disclaimer on the off chance that it may be useful and if it makes them feel better. But legaleze isn’t going to change the obvious facts.

  5. I have only been into escorting about 6 months. I am still getting a feel for the dynamic. I am trying always to get a perspective on the financial aspects. I am pretty much into cute twenty somethings. There is one provider in my area close to home that I may spend $750-$1000 a month on though I do higher others but the sex with this provider is cum dropping and ball busting. I just keep going back. I spend 3-4 hours a month most times in one day sometimes two if I am busy. I pretty much plan to spend it each month on him for a while anyways or until my dick falls off. My question! Since I am a guaranteed regular customer should I ask for a "bulk rate" If someone is charging $250hr. What would be fair bulk rate?? I ask this because I see poeple like @VictorPowers who is fucking hotter that a red sun going nova offer discounts for multiple hours though his rate is a bit more per hour and is probably much busy than this provider. I have seen others who charge hourly then heavily discount after second hour. I am just interested in getting the best "bang for my buck" I like negoiating but I want to be fair and reasonable. For those of you in the $250-300/hr price range what are your thoughts? If I like the company of this person, if I had an 6,8,10 or 12 hr day not in bed all day either. How do I determine what is a fair price? Any input is appreciated!

    If you have a good relationship with the guy, it could be that he recognizes the value of an on-going business deal which will result in assured revenue, but gives you a discount on his usual rates. He may be receptive to your proposal for a discount — maybe not. But if your relationship is a good one, it may turn out well. Discuss it with him and explain your financial issues verses your understanding that he needs to make a living. You’ve been hanging out together long enough to be able to have an open discussion.

  6. Do you believe that most escorts believe that the often seen escort disclaimer (e.g. “I do not accept money for sexual acts. I am compensated via contributions for my time only. Anything that happens during that time is a decision made between two consenting adults”) really provides legal protection, or is it something included because they’re not sure or because so many other include it? I’ve practiced law for a long time (although not criminal law) and I’ve never felt that a prosecutor who’s intent on pursing male escorts would be dissuaded by such a disclaimer - and I wouldn’t bet on jurors buying it either. One escort I know insisted that it was effective. I thought it best not to ruin the evening with a negative debate and we moved on to more enjoyable pursuits.

  7. Tats don't do a thing for me and I usually move on once I see them in a Rentmen photo. BUT, one of my favorite escorts has several and photos of him smiling inspired me to look past the body décor and contact him. I've always been pleased with myself for getting past my initial reaction. Time with him is well spent.

  8. I have included the escort's rates in my five reviews. I note that all of the reviews published this month include the escort's price. I'm not prepared to do perform an extensive analysis, but my recollection is that many, if not most, reviewers include the price. I wonder if many who don't provide it fail to carefully review what's asked of them in the review form.

  9. While I have not had the situation of running into someone I know while I am with an escort whose name I do not know, if I did I would make up an easy to remember name, likely Bob or Mike rather than introduce him as Monstercock9.5

    It would be cool though to be in a position of no risks at all and have the pleasure of looking someone in the eye and saying, "Have you met my friend Monstercock?" :-)

  10. I've never asked an escort for his name and we remain anonymous in most cases. My two favorites, who are regulars, told me their names after the first few sessions. The one issue I wrestle with is what to call them in the rare situation where we're together in public and run into someone I know. I'd be inclined to introduce them using their real name, rather than use their escort name and risk having someone look up the name of the young guy with me (the older gentlemen). I haven't discussed this with the two escorts. I should.

  11. odd that he lists 11.5 inches but the tape measure which starts at 2” and ends at 10”. wouldn’t that be 8 inches then..?

    Ah, the arithmetic is inescapable. :-)

  12. Understood, but judging a book by its cover isn't the right thing to do. A good recommendation would be to find out how your experience is with me and then share it with others online. But you indeed have no right to judge me based on what others have said to you. have a nice day buddy.

    Gosh. I can see you're frustrated, but the Forum is full of potential clients and good marketing is a better course. It might have been more productive to answer the questions and concerns and paint a good picture of yourself for all to see, rather than starting with "ask me yourself." Now you have some folks who may not contact you because of it. That's unfortunate because there's a good chance you're a nice guy.

  13. I'm a little hesitant these days. My favorite escort was laid up for three weeks with a bacterial infection from rimming. He went to the hospital thinking he had appendicitis. He spent his recovery period drinking a lot of broth and lost a lot of weight. Considering the amount of sex he has, maybe his time had come and the risk for me isn't great, but a scary time for him!

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