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I too think a lot of people take it this way, but I don’t think they necessarily should. YMMV can very well be about how the masseur is feeling at the particular day: (1) more or less sexual active at the time; (2) multiple clients in the same day; (3) current relationship status and current agreement with partner. Sure, personal chemistry and attraction is part of this but there are often variables completely unrelated to the client.
 
What I have found is that if you are respectful to the masseur and treat him well (let him lead with extras and mutual touch— please no groping), your mileage will generally go a very long way.

I too think a lot of people take it this way, but I don’t think they necessarily should. YMMV can very well be about how the masseur is feeling at the particular day: (1) more or less sexual active at the time; (2) multiple clients in the same day; (3) current relationship status and current agreement with partner. Sure, personal chemistry and attraction is part of this but there are often variables completely unrelated to the client.
 
What I have found is that if you are respectful to the masseur and treat him well (let him lead with extras and mutual touch— please no groping), your mileage will generally go a very long way.

I too think a lot of people take it this way, but I don’t think they necessarily should. YMMV can very well be about how the masseur is feeling at the particular day: (1) more or less sexual active at the time; (2) multiple clients in the same day; (3) current relationship status and current agreement with partner. Sure, personal chemistry and attraction is part of this but there are often variables completely unrelated to the client.
 
What I have found is that if you are respectful to the masseur and treat him well (let him lead with extras and mutual touch— please no groping), your mileage will generally go a very long way.

I too think a lot of people take it this way, but I don’t think they necessarily should. YMMV can very well be about how the masseur is feeling at the particular day: (1) more or less sexual active at the time; (2) multiple clients in the same day; (3) current relationship status and current agreement with partner. Sure, personal chemistry and attraction is part of this but there are often variables completely unrelated to the client.
 
What I have found is that if you are respectful to the masseur and treat him well (let him lead with extras and mutual touch— please no groping), your mileage will generally go a very long way.

I too think a lot of people take it this way, but I don’t think they necessarily should. YMMV can very well be about how the masseur is feeling at the particular day: (1) more or less sexual active at the time; (2) multiple clients in the same day; (3) current relationship status and current agreement with partner. Sure, personal chemistry and attraction is part of this but there are often variables completely unrelated to the client.
 
What I have found is that if you are respectful to the masseur and treat him well (let him lead with extras and mutual touch— please no groping), your mileage will generally go a very long way.

I agree with Redwine that it would have been better if there was a work-up to this; at least massaging the front.

Thank you for this thread. I posted a favoble comment about a masseur last week and then received a flood of questions about him in PMs. It was my first time for this happening, and all of a sudden I realized I wasn't comfortable with the kinds of questions I was getting: "Is he hung?" "Is he a top or bottom?", etc. I was a little torn because I understand PMing for more intimate information is an element of "citizenship" in this community, but the considerations in the comments above will be really useful going forward.

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I thought it was getting renovated to reopen soon? Can anyone confirm?

Yes, I have been messaged by David numerous times as recently as a couple of weeks ago. I have enjoyed the thorough message including outstanding rare attention to the feet, hands, along with nice conversation, relaxing atmosphere and all at a reasonable price. Try him and I don't believe that you will be disappointed. Let us know after you do.

There is a grit to our fair city, but we New Orleans' natives may disagree a bit on characterizing our city as a dump. Get out of the Quarter - no one from NOLA really ever goes to the Vieux Carre except for the odd special occasion - sort of like visiting a zoo to see drunk tourist. Visit the Faubourg Marigny, along some of the side streets to Frenchman Street you will find some of the best jazz clubs in the world. Some of the best restaurants in the US are in the Lower Garden district and two or three have opened in the Warehouse District have appeared in a couple of national food magazines. Take the street car to Audubon Park and then take a stroll through Tulane on a nice sunny day and take in all the gorgeous boys..... NOLA has a lot to offer. Escorts, not so much. Grindr, however......

Odd isn't it? I haven't been into bars for, oh 25 years. Seattle has no strip clubs either--nothing like that. Not the best collection of local escorts either (some exceptions.) We do get drop-ins. In NOLA, I think I can make do. I get the impression that people love the city or hate it--either they get it or they don't. Thanks for your input.

I visited him several months ago. The massage was therapeutic and I thought very good. Not at all sensual as others had mentioned. All things considered, he was not worth a repeat.