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Perhaps my experiences were particularly boring, but my only two "tantric" outings were terrible. A lot of questionable "spirituality", with a mediocre massage. Maybe someone can direct me to a better tantric masseur though........

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Perhaps my experiences were particularly boring, but my only two "tantric" outings were terrible. A lot of questionable "spirituality", with a mediocre massage. Maybe someone can direct me to a better tantric masseur though........

I just had a session with a guy who advertises himself on RM as a tantric escort. I broke my own rule by failing to choose someone who has good reviews in this forum. So, maybe I deserved the stunningly boring, low-energy massage with a very unenthusiastic attempt at HE. Or perhaps I am not spiritual or introspective enough to appreciate the finer points of tantric "bliss"---or more accurately, non-bliss. What should I have expected from a guy who advertises on Rentmen and offers a "tantric" experience, and charges a standard escort rate?? I have never written a negative review of any of the 10 or 12 escorts I've spent time with. But this time I am sorely tempted, because the time with him went on forever and never got better.

I second Kody S's opinion above

Yes, I know that he's a "masseur" and not a "masseuse", but does anyone have any first-hand information about the guy??
 
https://rentmen.eu/Italianmasseuse

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Yes, I know that he's a "masseur" and not a "masseuse", but does anyone have any first-hand information about the guy??
 
https://rentmen.eu/Italianmasseuse

Agreed. They should SLOWLY build to the HE from the beginning.

Regarding the 50-55 minute massage, I agree you pay for an hour massage, you should receive that. Now in their defense, they may not know how easily one man may get off, so it’s understandable if they begin this part of a massage with 15 minutes to go. However when they get someone who releases quickly, they should at least offer a soothing finish by either head massage or something.
 
Discussed at length on here, negotiating or upselling once massage starts is a negative for everyone.
 
Only thing I’d add is when approaching a HE, don’t be so mechanical and fast. It has the opposite effect on me. If you tease or go slow, it drives me wild while fast and mechanical turns me off. Lastly, if you know how to tease and make it last, I’m way more likely to look you up for a repeat visit.

Since you obviously have no appreciation for history, architecture, world class museums, amazing dining, a renowned Orchestra, top universities, more outdoor art than any other US City, bike and car share programs, dedicated bike lanes and paths, magnificent parks and squares spread across the city,
a walkable city, with reasonable housing costs and property taxes, and top professional and collegiate sports, jazz cafes and casino gambling -- we won't miss you at all - BYE-BYE.
 
I nearly forgot to mention a nationally respected Prize-Winning LGBT Commmunity Newspaper and the nations 2nd affordable LGBT Friendly Senior Living Community - located in the Gayborhood, which currently provides housing for the original leaders of the LGBT communities who sacrificed careers, family and friends to COME OUT and fight for the rights we enjoy today.
 
Y'all head on back to Wal-Mart World!

I think that's delusional crap. It’s always nice to try and fool one ’s self, but at the age of 61, I have reached three conclusions.
 
1. The accuracy of the statement: “Remember that it is sex not youth that is wasted on the young.”
 
2. That applying the wisdom of advancing years can increase the overall sexual experience.
 
3. At some point, all the illusions and wisdom in the world don’t make up for the loss of the ability to have an erection several times a day, cum three times in a night, shoot your cum several feet and look at yourself in the mirror and be impressed with something other than the fact that you’re hanging in there pretty well considering your age.

I know this subject has been discussed before, with clients saying they are not really "that old", and escorts saying they love everybody (most likely to ensure business). But , as a matter of common sense, neither of these statements is always true. I have reached an age and "physical type" where a number of younger non-professional guys indicate they are interested in me---most of whom are sweet, but have few sexual skills. So, I am not asking which escorts really and truly would rather be playing with older guys, but which ones appear to be really happy with us, and leave us delighted with this particular older/younger experience.

As the Original Poster on this thread, I don't really disagree with Laffingbear or jjkirkwood. But I originally asked for folks to identify escorts who at least APPEARED to enjoy their time with older guys, and left these older guys delighted. I was (and am) fully aware that there seem to be many escorts who don't care who the client is. That's fine with me, but like other clients on this site, I am not particular thrilled by guys just "going through the motions" because they seem to be wishing for a younger playmate.

If you read their profiles, many say that they are into older men. I've never responded to an escort who says in his profile that he likes older men. It would be interesting to find out what it's like.

What does one charge as a daily rate on an extended trip anyway? Not sure that I would ever venture that far, but I am certainly curious. As Tarte said, all of the expenses for the trip are already being covered. The experience itself has to count for something I would think (and hanging out with me for 4 or 5 days is priceless LOL)

I would only take an escort to a trip, if many things were aligned:
1. The escort is already a regular and the sex is great.
2. We have been out on multiple dinners and enjoyed each other's conversation, and done at least 2 overnights.
3. The parameters of the relationship have always been very clear: there has been no misunderstanding, no ambiguity and no complaints from either side about how much, or what should have happened, etc.
4. The price is very reasonable. Since I am already paying for everything, I cannot afford on top of this the standard daily rate (or even the standard overnight rate) of most American escorts. (This is not that I am cheap, just that I genuinely do not have that sort of income).
 
I am sure others here will be able to ignore point 4 and are probably your target @Keltankan , but I am not sure how common this sort of wealthy clients are.

This guy is going to be in Las Vegas for the next couple days. I implore one of that city's free spirits to meet him, then report back your findings.......

topsfstud (Jake Walker) is not 18. He is a seasoned veteran escort who, I would guess, is in his early 40's. All that experience, though, has made him an excellent guy to spend time with----and well worth the cost of his companionship. Having been with him twice, I can assure you that he is a goodlooking man, with the well-trained body of a much younger guy.

topsfstud (Jake Walker) is not 18. He is a seasoned veteran escort who, I would guess, is in his early 40's. All that experience, though, has made him an excellent guy to spend time with----and well worth the cost of his companionship. Having been with him twice, I can assure you that he is a goodlooking man, with the well-trained body of a much younger guy.

Tristan Baldwin is great with older guys.

You answered the question well. You are a true professional. Being an older client, I have run into providers who do not take the professional approach that you demonstrate. Some escorts do not show or pretend to show their enthusiasm in a session with an older client. The session becomes mechanical and even uncomfortable because you can sense it. The OP is trying to identify those that do provide excellent service to the more mature because there are providers who do not even if they do not admit it. Self disclosure by the providers is one great vetting technique. I always look for it in their profile. Some providers do not mention it. I assume because they are so professional that probably do not think it is necessary. The op, myself and others are tired of wasting their money on an experience that is underrated when through the forum can identify providers like yourself who will always provide excellent service to the more mature crowd.