Madman

At least as of a year or two ago the Westside YMCA had open showers (2 walls of open showers somewhat similar to poolboy48220's photo above).

While they're a tad pricey (though I suppose you are getting 2 for the price) I've had good experiences with them as a pair as well as Mike solo (he's the one with the long hair--he's cuter with it a bit shorter and he is the more experienced of the pair).
 
I suppose by advertising on Rent.men they are opening themselves to people who just want sex but massage is their focus and I've always felt they've been pretty clear about their boundaries (and I think they're pretty clearly outlined on rent.men). I guess what I'm saying is I wouldn't dismiss somebody completely based on one misstep.

I'll join the chorus of Jake fans. I've seen him a couple of times while traveling and he has always had a table and the sessions have always been good all around (massage, conversation, etc.). My main complaint is I do wish he'd lay off the razor and leave at least some hair below the neck!

Maybe I should find some new masseurs! The most undressed I've had a masseur be when they've met me at the door was wearing just a pair of sweats--though in fairness I think they were wearing nothing before I'd even gotten my shoes off.

I'll join the chorus of Jake fans. I've seen him a couple of times while traveling and he has always had a table and the sessions have always been good all around (massage, conversation, etc.). My main complaint is I do wish he'd lay off the razor and leave at least some hair below the neck!

Maybe I should find some new masseurs! The most undressed I've had a masseur be when they've met me at the door was wearing just a pair of sweats--though in fairness I think they were wearing nothing before I'd even gotten my shoes off.

Saw him a year or two ago--the experience falls into the category of I don't regret it but probably wouldn't repeat. He was very chatty about his person circumstances to the point where I felt like I should be charging him for listening (I'm not his counselor or psychiatrist! ). If you want details about the actual massage feel free to PM me.

Saw him a year or two ago--the experience falls into the category of I don't regret it but probably wouldn't repeat. He was very chatty about his person circumstances to the point where I felt like I should be charging him for listening (I'm not his counselor or psychiatrist! ). If you want details about the actual massage feel free to PM me.

Love how the one guy keeps his knee length socks on the entire time!

Haven't been to the Philadelphia Jacks party before but I've been to NY Jacks. When you're with a bunch of different guys of all body types and sizes and all of you are just wearing shoes the nerves dissipate pretty quickly. The first time I went I was nervous too--I started out pretty slow just checking out the rooms and keeping to myself but by the end of the afternoon I was jerking off two other guys while they both jacked me off. The fact that generally Jacks parties have the no lips below the hips and no anal contact rules keeps the stakes much lower (and thus the pressure) and you can get a little out of your comfort zone without really going too far.

Haven't been to the Philadelphia Jacks party before but I've been to NY Jacks. When you're with a bunch of different guys of all body types and sizes and all of you are just wearing shoes the nerves dissipate pretty quickly. The first time I went I was nervous too--I started out pretty slow just checking out the rooms and keeping to myself but by the end of the afternoon I was jerking off two other guys while they both jacked me off. The fact that generally Jacks parties have the no lips below the hips and no anal contact rules keeps the stakes much lower (and thus the pressure) and you can get a little out of your comfort zone without really going too far.

Haven't been to the Philadelphia Jacks party before but I've been to NY Jacks. When you're with a bunch of different guys of all body types and sizes and all of you are just wearing shoes the nerves dissipate pretty quickly. The first time I went I was nervous too--I started out pretty slow just checking out the rooms and keeping to myself but by the end of the afternoon I was jerking off two other guys while they both jacked me off. The fact that generally Jacks parties have the no lips below the hips and no anal contact rules keeps the stakes much lower (and thus the pressure) and you can get a little out of your comfort zone without really going too far.

You've never had the masseur brush his penis against you (often your arm or your head)? Or the much more obvious plop it in your open palm while their work your back move? Or stretch your arm and in the process place your hand on their groin? I'm definitely not particularly bold especially when I'm on a table (and especially when I'm on my stomach) so I often let the masseur make the first move and those are some of the more obvious signs they're open to mutual touch. I will say it seems a lot more natural (and more likely to start sooner) when the massage is on a bed. And if they're naked and they start touching you then a polite "may I touch you" usually elicits a yes.

You've never had the masseur brush his penis against you (often your arm or your head)? Or the much more obvious plop it in your open palm while their work your back move? Or stretch your arm and in the process place your hand on their groin? I'm definitely not particularly bold especially when I'm on a table (and especially when I'm on my stomach) so I often let the masseur make the first move and those are some of the more obvious signs they're open to mutual touch. I will say it seems a lot more natural (and more likely to start sooner) when the massage is on a bed. And if they're naked and they start touching you then a polite "may I touch you" usually elicits a yes.

You've never had the masseur brush his penis against you (often your arm or your head)? Or the much more obvious plop it in your open palm while their work your back move? Or stretch your arm and in the process place your hand on their groin? I'm definitely not particularly bold especially when I'm on a table (and especially when I'm on my stomach) so I often let the masseur make the first move and those are some of the more obvious signs they're open to mutual touch. I will say it seems a lot more natural (and more likely to start sooner) when the massage is on a bed. And if they're naked and they start touching you then a polite "may I touch you" usually elicits a yes.

You've never had the masseur brush his penis against you (often your arm or your head)? Or the much more obvious plop it in your open palm while their work your back move? Or stretch your arm and in the process place your hand on their groin? I'm definitely not particularly bold especially when I'm on a table (and especially when I'm on my stomach) so I often let the masseur make the first move and those are some of the more obvious signs they're open to mutual touch. I will say it seems a lot more natural (and more likely to start sooner) when the massage is on a bed. And if they're naked and they start touching you then a polite "may I touch you" usually elicits a yes.

You've never had the masseur brush his penis against you (often your arm or your head)? Or the much more obvious plop it in your open palm while their work your back move? Or stretch your arm and in the process place your hand on their groin? I'm definitely not particularly bold especially when I'm on a table (and especially when I'm on my stomach) so I often let the masseur make the first move and those are some of the more obvious signs they're open to mutual touch. I will say it seems a lot more natural (and more likely to start sooner) when the massage is on a bed. And if they're naked and they start touching you then a polite "may I touch you" usually elicits a yes.

Love how the one guy keeps his knee length socks on the entire time!

I have--was strictly therapeutic (and he kept his clothes on). It was a good massage (especially if you like pressure) but that was all it was.

I went about a year and a half ago to the Sunday afternoon one. While there were definitely guys of all ages there were a surprising number of pretty well hung, good looking guys in their 20s. There were like 50-60 guys at the peak often in groups of 3 or more. And I'd say most of the guys try to hold off on coming as long as possible but things definitely wound down after about 90 minutes. Not something I'd do on a regular basis but it was interesting.

I went about a year and a half ago to the Sunday afternoon one. While there were definitely guys of all ages there were a surprising number of pretty well hung, good looking guys in their 20s. There were like 50-60 guys at the peak often in groups of 3 or more. And I'd say most of the guys try to hold off on coming as long as possible but things definitely wound down after about 90 minutes. Not something I'd do on a regular basis but it was interesting.