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Exercising consistently is important. Set up 3 to 4 weight workouts that you can complete in 45 minutes. Start with 15 minutes of cardio to get your metabolism and heart rate up. Then hit the weights for 45 -- 4-5 exercises, with 4-5 sets of 12 for each exercise. The 12 rep-count is on the high side, but it will teach your muscles endurance and strength. Certain exercises will lend themselves to doing "arms separately" -- Ex. Curls. Doing the arms separately lets you stretch out the set and get your heart rate up higher. Stick with the same workout for a good amount of time (i.e. at least 4 weeks). Don't "change it up" all the time. Doing the same workout will help you have a feel for where you are at. Whereas if you keep changing it, you will have no idea what progress you are making. Consistency in meals is also important (though possibly boring). If you are eating consistently and working out consistently, then you can watch what happens to your body (shape, weight, fat levels, etc.) and make small changes to experiment and see what happens. Also, if you can stomach it, try doing fasted workouts first thing in the morning. It takes some getting used to, but it will get your metabolism up first thing in the morning -- which will allow you to burn fat passively following the workout throughout the day. And working out before you eat will teach your body to start burning fat for energy. If you really want to get into it, buy a heart rate monitor -- I like the Polar H10 chest strap. But if that's inconvenient, you can try something like a Polar Verity Sense -- which is an armband. The heart rate monitor will let you see how many minutes you spend in different heart rate zones. If you can push yourself to stay in Orange zone (and eventually Red), you will really be burning a lot of calories! And the heart rate recordings of your workouts motivate you to try to work harder when you look back at them. [Sorry for the long-winded reply. I love working out and have been doing it for over 20 years now.]

I like the pic. He says he's been a license PT for over 10 years... so he got licensed when he was 14 yo?

Does that mean he doesn't look like his Feb 2018 pic anymore ?

Does the "+ package" mean you paid extra, but you didn't get an extras? Just wondering.

I did post positive comments about him.. sorry for the false hope! When I used to see him years ago, his massage was professional, massage area was nice and clean.. and good sensual elements without going overboard too fast. It was like something broke when I saw him again recently

I tried him again when he was visiting San Diego later in 2018. And it was absolutely horrible... It was just an entirely different experience from when I saw him in years past. I really don't understand what changed.

I agree. The guys I've met off of Seeking aren't professional escorts, so it feels a lot different. It feels more like you're both exploring, and it's less transactional.

what's "just fans"?

I prefer symmetrical as well... but you know, any work on your HOLE or your DICK is automatically symmetric

I got really paranoid the first few times a newbie PM'd me about a masseur I've commented on... But then I started reviewing their prior posts to get a feel for whether they were legitimate inquiries, or if they were just fishing / trolling for something else.

My name is ____________ and I'm a massage addict I probably get a massage twice a month... But there have been times where I've gotten 4 or 5 in a month. I try to keep it to 2 a month so I don't overspend. Gay masseurs and escorts were my introduction to the gay world. I came out at 18 and didn't know anyone who was gay. So I ended up calling massage ads and escort ads. I had some really good experiences, and they were all really cool with me not knowing anything about being gay. One of them even got me to escort for a short time. Nowadays I'm only interested in masseurs... which sometimes leads to sex after we get comfortable with each other. Sex isn't necessary. I just like being touched and getting off. And if the masseur is really into my body type, the sensual / sexual energy is amazing. Sometimes I think getting regular massage prevents me or stops me from actually trying to find someone to date. Not sure if that's good or bad... But I don't feel the need to be on-the-prowl all the time. @Capitano - You're not the only one limited by the selection of masseurs. I've had several regular masseurs I really liked seeing over the years... They have all since moved away. And I've had a lot of trouble finding local masseurs that I want to keep going back to lately. (I tend to avoid traveling masseurs). I'm not sure what's different now. I tend to like good amateur / semi-professional masseurs. Maybe it's that the amateurs nowadays are more like escorts than masseurs? I have all kinds of theories, but no answers Anyways... getting a good sensual massage regularly keeps me happy and satisfied Otherwise, I might be out looking for trouble

I've only been to a couple of spas here in San Diego. One was Unicorn Spa in Hillcrest. It feels a little dirty. There was a masseur there who seemed straight but would make the massage really sensual. First visit was sensual -- touch my groin area and my ass, but nothing more. Each visit after that with the same guy got a little more sensual each time. He moved to another iMassage spa out in the Sports Arena area of San Diego. I can give you more details if you PM me. Other than that, I've been to a couple of other spas, but the HE was very mechanical and not sensual at all. Overall, I'm thinking there aren't a lot of good spa options for sensual massage in San Diego.

Found him Guess he changed his name.. https://rentmasseur.com/MassageByTed

It's Pride Weekend in San Diego, and I've noticed a lot of new ads on RentMasseur -- all visitors. And some of them seem more like escort ads - or maybe super erotic massages. And their rates just say, "Ask". I almost always just skip over the ad if it says "Ask" instead of stating a rate. I'm not sure why... I guess I just assume it's really an escort ad. Was wondering if anyone else feels the same way? Or maybe I should give the "Ask" crowd a try?

I've been able to contact him via text.. twice so far.. but i haven't made an appt because he's too far from downtown San Diego. I would try texting him again

oops.. i replied to the wrong guy earlier ? can you send me the details please?

can you give me the details please ?

i was wondering if you gave him a cash tip at the end of each session, or how that part worked out..

His Rent Men says he's available for escotting, erotic massage and bodywork among other things

what are the warning signs?

this thread sounds be renamed "Dale's Monster Cock"

Thanks All.. that was definitely work the entertainment value! i remember there being an escort agency in Honolulu back in the 80s or 90s.. and i can't remember what it was called.. but that website reminded me of them. they used to advertise in the Honolulu "fag rag" back when there was no internet! ? they're tag line was "Hawaii's Most Trusted"... I know this is the wrong forum to discuss escorts, but if anyone can tell me the name of that escort agency, i'll be able to stop thinking about it

I've never actually started a thread on this site before... but here goes nothing! I was on Facebook this morning and I happened to come across the Facebook page for a website called ToyBoysHawaii.com ... and then I went to the website and I was trying to figure out if it was a modeling agency... But it looks like an escort agency and erotic massage type site. The website is really poorly done... But some of the "models" are really hotttt! (if you like hot island boys). I was looking at the page for booking a massage and it sounds like they want your credit card info prior to doing the massage, which is a NO-NO, right??!!?? Was wondering if anyone has ever heard of this site before -- http://www.toyboyshawaii.com ? And if so, it is real? Or just a scam?

I saw him recently. Very good experience overall. The massage was on a bed, which I normally won't do. But it was good. He was even able to do a firm deep tissue on my back and shoulder even though it was on a bed. Good sensual elements. I would repeat. You can PM me if you want more details.

I always thought I had to pay to be able to read and/or send messages... I didn't know I could read them. I'll have to try logging on again and having a look around. Thanks!