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I completely agree. He should definitely advertise in the Heal side... Ever since they changed the name of this section of masseurfinder to "Relax" instead of "Sensual" (or whatever it used to be called) NONE of the masseurs really pay any attention to which section they are advertisting in... So it's hard to figure out who is going to give you a sensual massage without asking them lots of questions. And it's hard to figure out who's straight... I definitely prefer to be massaged by a gay guy.

Yes, interactive

i always text masseurs. if you are worried about your number being published somewhere, try using a Gmail account to set up a Google Voice phone number.. you can link this alternate Google Voice number to your normal cell phone number and use the Google Hangouts app to text masseurs from the Google Voice number. this way, the masseur will never see your normal cell phone number. if your Google Voice number is somehow "compromised", you can just select a new Google Voice number.. the only time i email a masseur is if I'm taking a chance on a massage ad on Craigslist.

I've never seen that site before... The layout is nice, almost like a magazine... I can't figure out how to use it though. Can you look up masseurs by city?

I can discuss that one with you in more detail if you PM me.

You are ABSOLUTELY HILARIOUS Smurof! I've gotten a massage from him before... I guess he's kind of big like a bear and yet smooth. I had a good experience with him. I wish I could remember who his ex was...

Did you go for the sensual option that SoCalBoySD mentioned? What kind of strokes??

Sounds like it went well for being in the new environment Next time, when his dick is brushing or resting against your arm or hand, move your arm/hand enough to create more pressure on his dick - subtle, but clear intent And then whenever you feel comfortable at the start of a massage, ask him if it would be OK to do it without the sheet... He might be fine with that... and it would create lots of opportunities

i can definitely see Dmitri's point about cutting to the chase.. but the build up can be fun too the little moments leading up to the big bang can be nice little memories later on.. AND the rest of us are catching our voyueristic (is that even a word?) jollies off this... so PLEASE keep it up!

Maybe you should make him an offer on Instragram You would be helping out a poor starving student!

I agree with PaulM... Maybe don't do anything different on this first massage in his home. Doing the massage in his home instead of in a formal office setting really does open up the possibilities a lot! In an office setting, seems like he could get into a lot more trouble doing something sexual... So he might initiate a little more in his home setting since there's little to no risk for him. Also, try leaving your hands conveniently near the edge of the tableside... so he can brush his crotch up against it "accidentally"... and if he does, make sure you keep your hand firmly in place and if he keeps rubbing against it, you could try moving your hand a little to rub his crotch too... It's a form of non-verbal communication

I've contacted him a couple of times, but I didn't want to host so I haven't been able to make an appointment. I would love to make an appointment, though. Also, I'm prety sure he lives here and is not visiting... which is great, because I like having hot local masseurs

I was a regular of his when he used to live in San Diego. He always gave a great massage. I would see him again if he were back in town.

I got a massage from him about 2 years ago... it wasn't a good experience for me either.

It's really easy for a masseur to straddle you on the table and ride your dick... He could just get up on top of you and start massaging your chest and abs... and then it's any easy transition from there

i just wish i were in SF.. I'd go see him and report right back to you! He's hotttt

Letting them know which section is a great idea... I used to ask about HE, nude, etc... But sometimes they get really indignant about being asked. So I've kind of shied away from that the last couple years.

Seems like a lot or most of the masseurs advertise in both the Relax and Heal sections, at least in the San Diego section. How do you know what you're going to get?

I know that someone else was using that exact same shower pic in an ad/profile about edging. But I think that guy was Asian. Maybe they are friends? When I saw that those pics had been reused elsewhere, I just decided to ignore his profile.

I've gone to private masseur who advertise as Legit or Therapeutic and asked for no draping. Most of them seem OK with that. And without the draping, most have still been Legit or non-sensual. But sometimes... things happen

I've seen him several times before, but it was several years ago. His technique was pretty good, but he might be better now.

I see what you mean LAdud424... In my browser it shows up in the tab-bar title. My browser cuts them short, so I have to hover over it to see the whole title. Thanks for pointing that out. Are you a web developer btw?

Hey Newbie... first off, I like your example Kevin, he's hottt! I did some experimenting with masseurfinder -- was looking at the same masseurs advertising on both sides (Heal and Relax). I cannot find anything on the masseur's webpage that indicates whether it is on the Heal side or the Relax side. I did notice that the masseurs that advertised on both sides had two different account names, one for each side. Like this guy: RELAX -- https://www.masseurfinder.com/members/soccerplayer.shtml HEAL -- https://www.masseurfinder.com/members/kmassage.shtml But even though I don't see anything on each page indicating Heal or Relax, fm0322's comments about shirtless pics makes sense. All the pictures in the HEAL ad (kmassage) show him covered up. Half the pictures in his RELAX ad (soccerplayer) show him shirtless. Your hottie Kevin is probably.. Relax.. the picture with his shirt hanging open has no context. The beach pic shows a lot -- but could pass for Heal because of the "context". It's pretty tough to tell though. AND a lot of the guys in the Relax section don't get sensual. Still miss the old days!

Actually, ever since they changed the name of that section to "Relaxing", it seems like a lot of the masseurs don't even know that the "Relaxing" section used to be called "Sensual" (or something like that). Back then, it was pretty damn clear that the Sensual side was a lot more then a simple therapeutic massage. I really miss the old days...

Yeah I just noticed that his RM profile says "I don't do anal"... very sad. I loved watching him pound Brayden in one of the Corbin videos. So hotttt