muscleboyinsd

He was only advertising for massage back then

he was only charging $140 when i saw him ?

that's always possible.. probable.. ????

His profile writing sounds like he's more or less looking to find an arrangement - as opposed to being more like an escort.. and his ass is BEAUTIFUL!!! ??

i don't recommend.. he's straight and really does not get into any kind of play. he might Jack you off for a tip but he definitely doesn't get into it

Hans at Acujin is AMAZING for strong massage.. knots, tight neck & shoulders, etc. You can book appt online too. The set up is nice and clean. Hans is gay, but it would be a professional therapeutic massage for the most part. And you would be draped. here's the link http://achth.com/

My chats with the boys on Seeking varied a lot... Whenever they were specifically asking about what would be involved in an agreement, I always mentioned that I wanted to hang out and take them out to dinner and that I wanted a sexual element. And if they asked, I would agree that there would be a financial arrangement and we could meet a few times a month. I've never been barred from the site for that, and we were pretty clear there was sex and there was cash. Other times we just agreed to meet up for dinner and go from there. And most of the time, we switched to text fairly soon... as long as we both felt comfortable with each other. Which wasn't very often. Most of the time I would just let the conversation lapse because it didn't seem like there would be anything worth pursuing. But I've had at least 3 or 4 good and fairly long lasting experiences on Seeking. In fact, I just bumped into one of the guys I'd gone out with... dinners, movies, fun in bed at home. He'd lost my number, but I'd assumed he just lost interest. He tried to message me on the site, but I had already let my premium membership lapse so I couldn't read it, and I figured that he just didn't recognize my profile so I didn't bother to renew my Premium Membership to read his message. But I texted him after I saw him in public this past Sunday, and he said he'd lost my number and started texting again, and I'm taking him out to dinner tomorrow night So overall, while that site is a mixed bag... you can be somewhat open about what you're looking for without getting busted by the Secret Police. But best to switch to text as soon as you both are comfortable with it. And there are definitely boys worth meeting on the site who can hold a conversation and be fun to wine and dine and fun to roll around with in bed

WAAAYYY too subtle ?

I'm not gray yet :-)

So... Does "date" mean sex? Or did he take you out to dinner ?

consensual sex is an arrangement too ;-)

I'm pretty sure SA knows what's going on.. but they're just trying to stay on the safe side of the gray fuzzy area :-)

good luck with reinstatement ? wow.. that's a little scary about the revenge aspect. i haven't encountered that on the site yet.. but I'm not super active on it. and i let my premium membership lapse recently - so can't read messages ?

Wow.. that's harsh What terminology do you think triggered it?

super hottt.. not much info in his profile though. hope he's real!

i agree.. might be able to say he's got muscles..

if you like lean muscle, i would go with Cortland or Nate in San Diego. Nate is really lean and ripped and does a good massage. Cortland is lean but with more muscle and does a really good massage - he seems to have a lot more training. I think they're both handsome. Nate looks better than the pics he has posted on masseurfinder. Cortland is cute/handsome and has a really good energy.

Wow.. he's hott

He doesn't have much info in his ad... nothing about him or the massage

I'm usually jealous of LA cuz you guys have SOOOOO MANY masseurs!

what's wrong with 5'5"

Yeah there are definitely zealots out there who work really hard to eliminate all the "gen" profiles and posts. I never understood why they were so religious about it.. They made Craigslist a lot less fun ??

You mean you got banned from Seeking? ... or Grindr?

Interesting... none of the sugar babies I've been messaging have tried to sell me pictures and such. But they've all been local to San Diego. Then again, if their profile seems suspect, I haven't bothered replying. I have plans to meet up with one tomorrow for happy hour & dinner... I wish it were tomorrow already!

I just got back on that site a couple months ago... I've been chatting with 3 different guys recently. We switched to text messages pretty early on... Also, two of the sugar babies here in San Diego mentioned that there's really NO SUGAR DADDIES in San Diego... Well, maybe there are a couple, but that's all. In fact, the 3rd sugar baby just told me that he only gave me his phone number because I'm located in San Diego! Was wondering if anyone else out there has gotten similar feedback from the sugar babies? (Apologies, if this topic has already been covered somewhere in this thread... it's a LONG and POPULAR thread!)