Dmitri

https://www.masseurfinder.com/members/bigjr.shtml

 

Anyone here gotten his service?

That first photo looks like Mel Gibson's brother

There's no doubt Eli is one of the top massuers from a technique's perspective. For anything beyond that, my numerous experiences with him boil down to this - he's like a proud lion and you need to charm him. Though it sounds like a lot of work, yet if your personality naturally clicks with his and you're in sync with his sense of humor, he'd treat you like a king.

I used to go to Eli regularly and I would agree with all of this. He takes some time to warm up and we built a great rapport but then all of a sudden he said to stop contacting him. It was completely out of the blue and random. Take that how you will. He’s definitely hot and cold.

I respect the forum members who like Eli, but from the comments it sounds like you need to jump through hoops to get the "preferential treatment." Or even to get a little respect from this masseur, which should be a given with any masseur. Being treated in a warm, friendly manner....with respect and no drama is what all masseurs should provide, Eli included. And the comment about needing to charm him to get him to treat you like a King sounds crazy. We do not need to "earn" the right to be treated well. We all deserve to be treated well.....with respect....and like a King....since we are paying him. He sounds like a massage diva who knows he has us in the palm of his hand, which is not a good thing. I like masseurs who come baggage free...drama free.....and with no games or attitude. Masseurs who treat me well because they value each and every client. In my opinion, those are the best, most professional masseurs and the ones I choose to give my massage dollars to.

Is this guy on the up and up? I am confused. He comes across very sweet and nice in his ad copy......but when I called he was downright rude. (Read my post above.) He states in his ad he lives on an island in the Andaman Sea, and only (and I quote) " dedicate a few months a year to my practice." Not true, since I have seen his ad for the past 6 months and his travel schedule goes thru April. (And will probably go thru the next few years if I guess correctly) And he is not extending his stay in the USA since he is in demand. He always has his "Available Now" icon on, which shows lack of business. His ad gives the impression you better get him while you can, since he will be leaving shortly to go back to his island.....yet he never leaves. Smells like a marketing gimmick. Then to top it off, in his ad copy he states " Enjoy My All New Photos 2018" Yet they are not new......they have been around for over a year. Another not true statement. I want to try him when he is in Seattle since I will be there the same time....but all these "alternative facts" are a turn off and make me want to avoid him.

https://texashistory.unt.edu/ark:/67531/metapth615497/m1/63/

 

Check this out from March 2000 dallas voice newspaper .... 18 years ago. Some of these are still practicing haha see alexz who is now in San Diego .. wow how times have changed. I remember a few of these from my early years trying out Massage.

 

Any of you recognize any of them ??

 

Just a trip down memory lane..

March 2000 was 18 years ago??? OMG......seems like yesterday.

Observation: I have a very discerning eye when reading reviews. If you read thru his reviews it is more than obvious he wrote most of them. English being his second language, many are in broken English, or not in proper English. And he uses the word "pro" in a few.(not a common word clients write in a review.....and it is in a few of his reviews.) The red flag was when I read his text copy (broken English) ....it matched the tone and flavor of his reviews. Just saying.....

I will tip only if the massage and service was good or great. Obviously if the massage session was inferior I don't tip. Makes common sense. I also will only tip the masseurs who have rates up to the $120-$150/hr mark. The guys who have massage rates beyond that in the $170-$250/hr rate (yes...there are many....just for an hour!) I feel are making enough, and a tip is not warranted. If a masseur is pulling in $170-$250 for a one hour massage session, I feel a tip is excessive!

That is true, but the ability of masseurs to have clients' reviews deleted versus keeping them posted and allowing the masseur to respond is the main reason why reviews on massage websites are worthless.

That is painting with a very broad brush. I do agree that masseurs can delete bad reviews. But I post positive reviews of masseurs I enjoy all the time on the different massage sites. I also have read members of this forum state that they have posted positive reviews of masseurs on the different massage sites. So not all reviews on massage sites are "worthless". Many of the positive reviews are accurate. I know....I have posted many, as others in this forum have.

i don't understand how people get blocked? are they able to block anyone...or only registered users?

I think the bigger question is : Why in the hell would you block anyone???? Beau Taylor is in this business to make money. If someone looks at your profile one time......or one thousand times....why would a masseur/escort care? You would think they would would be happy....because that person could be a potential client. It should be flattering.....not annoying! From reading thru this thread, Beau is a sure fire person to avoid. Taking people's money and not providing services.....cancelling on people....negative posts in the escort forum. And blocking people from viewing his profile. To much drama. And not even that attractive in my opinion. To many other great masseurs to choose from with no drama, so why would anyone even consider him? Life is to short, with so many other great, drama free guys out there at this moment just waiting for our business.

That video he has is not very appealing.

Agree. His voice and personality actually could put you to sleep. (and not in a good, relaxing way. More in a boring way.) I actually starting dozing off during the video.

Coconut oil is one of the best ideas, it is also good FOR the skin and some escorts also use it for lube. It moisturizes the skin and then seals the moisture into the skin. You get the good effects even after the massage and you wipe the excess oil off.

 

As an aside - I once had an escort greet me at his door totally naked and covered with coconut oil. As we went slip-sliding away, the smell was intoxicating! Using as lube and some rimming was incredible so you can enjoy all uses of this product.

 

Much better than the Nutragena!

Just to clarify.....the above post mentions using Coconut oil not just for massage but also as a lube. Do NOT use Coconut oil with condoms as a lube since the oil can weaken and break condoms. (any oils.....coconut, massage oil, baby oil, etc.) If the massage (or any escort session) goes in that direction....shower off the Coconut oil first, then use a WATER BASED lube with the condom. Want to keep it safe

I know from (an unexpected) personal experience that not all of the masseurs on that site are straight nor are they all strictly therapeutic. This was a "YMMV" situation. I can't share any details.

I think we would all have to be very naive to assume that all the masseurs on that site are straight and don't go beyond massage. (even some of the female ads have a sexual, " I might do something extra" vibe) I say that because of the high price point on many of the male/female ads....the number of pics they post (if you are JUST doing massage you only need one photo, not more to show us how good looking you are)....but also because the site is sponsored my Masseurfinder. Many of the masseurs are crossovers from that site, which as we all know have masseurs that provide more than massage.

It's the same guy or he's gone through a lot of trouble to create multiple online profiles that overlap to create a believable online presence. The "bad boy" pic appears to be used on his dating profiles and the first pic is his professionally taken "work pic" used on his website. He seems legitimate, well trained, and a fit army vet. I would expect a good therapeutic massage from him.

He seems great from his description. But as many of us do, apart from massage skills, we choose masseurs we are attracted to. I just like when a masseur posts consistent photos, so we get an idea what they look like. Just curious who will answer the door....pic #1 or pic #2.

https://www.massagefinder.com/massage-therapists/musclestretchin/

 

Maybe I'll buy all the others being just professionals. Maybe I'll buy this guy tries. But that face on Wilton fucking Drive? I think he's next to Johnsons gay strip club too.

 

No way, no how not touched. I'll be there next week. Buying my ticket now. Figuring out how to help pay off that 50K education.

He has 2 pics. They look like 2 different people. Unless the first pic is his clean, wholesome pic. And his second pic is his "bad boy" pic. (or maybe his Backstreet Boys/NSync boy band pic)

Yeah, it's totally the downscaled version of "wow I was so drunk last night that I don't remember what happened...."

As fun as it sounds, it is kind of a version of #MeToo. I would be really hesitant with a masseur, no matter how good looking they are, taking the offer of some "weed they just got" or anything else that would make me possibly unaware of what I was doing. Literally in a passive position on their massage table in their hands. Especially with all the crazy people out there plus STD's.

Hey guys - I haven’t updated because I have nothing exciting. I have been to see him a few time more - and nothing more than before. Still playful but never anything more.

 

I think I have to accept the fact this will be all it will ever be. I am ok with it. I leave him so fucking horny and turned on I run home, beat off, and cum so fucking hard. So I get a good massage and still get off (even if it’s on my own)

Wow.....from what you wrote, you got it bad for him...and that ain't good. So horny and frustrated you run home and beat off, and cum so fucking hard? Sounds like you need a new massage therapist that will meet your needs. There are tons of them out there. He ain't the only game in town. Move on and get another masseur if you want to come so fucking hard WITH a masseur....not without him.

Create a second FB profile without photos or anything that links to you.

@Justme7 , that would be a great idea. I tried it....but Facebook does not work that way. They create many hoops to jump thru to create a Facebook account. They want your phone number (I know....use a burner phone #, but now it is getting even more complicated). Plus they want a credit card number, and LOTS more info to confirm your identity. Creating a bogus Facebook account that does not link to you is almost impossible. And all this just to submit a review to Masseurfinder? Thanks, but I'll pass.

The Facebook verification on Masseurfinder to submit reviews has stopped me from posting any reviews at all. I need to be discreet, and do not feel comfortable that Masseurfinder has my Facebook account......just to post a review! And for those with no Facebook account, you will need to create one to post a review. No thanks.....ridiculous! No need for them to do this.....just to post a review? Absurd! I have noticed alot less reviews being posted on MF because people feel like me and want discretion and don't want their Facebook info out there. With all these new rules ( G rated ad text for masseurs).....no provocative photos....and now this, the massage sites are destroying themselves!

I have been seeing a therapist for a few years now and we have always respected each other's boundaries. We've always been respectful of each other. During my last visit, our session went from our normal play to full on. Without going into details, it felt more like an escort session than a massage session. At the end of our session, we laid there for about 15 minutes holding each other.

 

I'm about to make another appointment and I am wondering should i talk to him about it or ignore it? I want to know if it's a one time thing or not? As much as I would love that sort of session on the regular, I want to make sure we don't change the dynamics of our working relationship. I rather have him for a great massage over anything else.

 

Any advice?

You said you have been going to him for a few years. By the time I have gone to ANY masseur for a few years we are on a comfortable, friendly basis. Which means that after going to the same guy for that long you should be able to discuss this freely with him. What you wrote in your post is a question you should be able to pose to him, after knowing him for that long. You asked in your post if you should talk to him. YES! You are not a mind reader. Ask him, and discuss this with him. He has the answers to your questions.....not the forum members.

Unless he lives in a bubble, it is REALLY hard to pinpoint if a particular person or masseur passed an STD to your friend. You literally would have to only have been with JUST that person or masseur during the incubation period, which is hard to pinpoint. I would NOT contact the masseur and in any way suggest it was passed on from them. There is no point in that, and will only result in the masseur becoming defensive. In the interest of public health I would just contact the masseur to alert them that you recently found out you have an STD and he might have been exposed and should be tested.

https://www.masseurfinder.com/members/achillesmasseur.shtml Is this true?

C'mon, don't be so naive. Masseurs can write anything they want in their ad copy on ANY of the massage sites."Best Reviewed" "Most Reviewed" "Best Masseur" "Most In Demand", etc. It is their ad and they can claim to be anything they want.

I saw him a couple weeks ago.

 

Requested mutual nude, he agreed. However when he arrived he demurred. Saying that he had a few bad experiences with "old guys" trying to finger him or attempt oral on him. Neither of which was my intention and for the record I'm not what people typically consider old, unless they're 23 or something. But I digress....

 

Massage was adequate, and filled with funny talk about his new hot girlfriend and fledgling personal training empire. He's easy to talk to and engaging. I did call him out on the underwear thing at the end and he said he'd be more comfortable maybe...NEXT time.

 

I've been to busy to confirm if that would be the case. That said, he's a nice guy but I saw he raised his price to $180.

 

I don't go that high unless I am assured of the exact massage I know I'm going to get.

Curious about the tolerance level of people in this forum on services promised. If someone like Big Red promised mutual nude during the massage (at $180/hr!!) as in the example above, but after the massage started did not get nude and you reminded him of his promise of that service, and he refused, would you leave or stay? Sounds like a classic bait and switch to me, no matter what his excuse is. Promising a service to get you there....but then not providing it once you arrive.....is what a bait and switch is, and what Big Red did. Question to Forum Members: Would you leave or stay if this happened to you?

Anyone else ever had a massage from Jacent besides Chris who joined and posted about him on his first day. I'm always skeptical about masseurs whose names change. Most of the reviews refer to Chris. Will be in Vegas so I'm curious and like his look but there appear to be some red flags here.

Agreed. The red flag is that the first post from @Chris4481 is not just feedback on a masseur in conversation. It is a Brand New Post with a glowing review and plug to try this guy in Las Vegas. He even provides the link, and seems to know alot about him....including his odd pricing structure. First time posters are not this bold and forward. First time posters tend to just join a conversation on a masseur being discussed. Not start a thread for their first post sounding like a promoter of a masseur.(unless they are that masseur)

This masseur says he is in Minneapolis and home base is Philly. He is very nice over text but he asks that you send $100 via Western Union!!! To his “agent” as a deposit and then you pay him the rest. Yikes!

 

https://rentmasseur.com/Budy

Of course it's a scam. From out of the country. No one in the USA has you pre-pay by Western Union....and no on here uses the term "agent". ( that is a term people use when English is their second language.) To protect others from him, contact Rentmasseur and tell them your experience, and that it is not even him in the pics. Request they remove his ad since he is bogus.

Every massage I've ever had, whether erotic or therapeutic, at a private home or in an office, involved hands on the bottom. That is, until today.

 

I less than a week ago got my ass waxed, so it was solid, smooth and fine. I wasn't expecting a HE since I was paying for a "soothing, gentle" experience, but for that area in 60 minutes time to be ignored was crazy.

 

I'm not going to expose "gluteus none-of-this" to the masses, but just want to know if I'm out of line. I was hoping for it to be a grand finale from the build-up, but simply got a repeat of neck and chest, which is where the massage started.

Yes....as everyone noted massaging your butt is always part of a massage. I always speak up during a massage session if something is not meeting my needs. I like deep massage. If the massage is to light, I ask the masseur during the session to apply deeper pressure. If the room is to cold, I will ask during the session if he can put turn the heat up. You are paying, and have a right during the session to ask for things that are not meeting your needs. As in " the massage is great, but I always have my glutes massaged since they are tight. Can you work on that area?" You need to speak up during the session if you are not getting what you want, instead of not saying anything and leaving angry.

Wondering what you all are doing today. Massage or super bowl? Is this a good businesss day for masseurs?

You are asking the wrong demographic. Not to stereotype.....but I think the Super Bowl is not at the the top of most gay men's list. Now an erotic massage is another story.....