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    TantricMD got a reaction from marylander1940 in Ratio of creeps to nice guys   
    Hello escorts,
     
    I've always been curious about the percentage of creeps, impolite, or rude guys you encounter. It seems to be a hot topic among masseurs and escorts, so I have always been curious to what ratio of your clients are genuinely nice, or even average non-complicated clients, to those that are creepy, rude, or impolite and make you feel like you feel you wish you had never met them.
     
    I consider myself to be a normal client. I book ahead, don't cancel, and I'm very clear about my requests. I pay and tip. I'm not clingy and if I enjoy the experience I like to repeat because I enjoy familiar engagements that grow over brand new meetings, though I like to test the waters and switch out from time to time just to keep myself from relying on one or two. I have my favorites which have priority and I think I treat them well.
     
    I appreciate the feedback,
    TantricMD
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    TantricMD got a reaction from + easygoingpal in Ratio of creeps to nice guys   
    Hello escorts,
     
    I've always been curious about the percentage of creeps, impolite, or rude guys you encounter. It seems to be a hot topic among masseurs and escorts, so I have always been curious to what ratio of your clients are genuinely nice, or even average non-complicated clients, to those that are creepy, rude, or impolite and make you feel like you feel you wish you had never met them.
     
    I consider myself to be a normal client. I book ahead, don't cancel, and I'm very clear about my requests. I pay and tip. I'm not clingy and if I enjoy the experience I like to repeat because I enjoy familiar engagements that grow over brand new meetings, though I like to test the waters and switch out from time to time just to keep myself from relying on one or two. I have my favorites which have priority and I think I treat them well.
     
    I appreciate the feedback,
    TantricMD
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    TantricMD got a reaction from + bashful in Ratio of creeps to nice guys   
    Hello escorts,
     
    I've always been curious about the percentage of creeps, impolite, or rude guys you encounter. It seems to be a hot topic among masseurs and escorts, so I have always been curious to what ratio of your clients are genuinely nice, or even average non-complicated clients, to those that are creepy, rude, or impolite and make you feel like you feel you wish you had never met them.
     
    I consider myself to be a normal client. I book ahead, don't cancel, and I'm very clear about my requests. I pay and tip. I'm not clingy and if I enjoy the experience I like to repeat because I enjoy familiar engagements that grow over brand new meetings, though I like to test the waters and switch out from time to time just to keep myself from relying on one or two. I have my favorites which have priority and I think I treat them well.
     
    I appreciate the feedback,
    TantricMD
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    TantricMD reacted to + Keith30309 in Do you prefer escorting the single life? Or dating alongside?   
    Ok... I hope that you humor a somewhat personal question (and the same goes for @Mocha any other escort reading this). It’s one I’m always curious about with those companions I meet:
    does what you do in your personal time differ greatly from what you do with clients?
     
    I always try to figure out something my companion would enjoy doing and my queries usually elicit an “I enjoy everything.” While that may be true, not all things are equal and is there an itch you like to scratch every now and then that you would share with a willing, curious client? Or are there boundaries for your favorite activities?
    (I’m not interested in specifics as much as some inkling of how persistent a client can be with that “what do you like” question.)
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    TantricMD reacted to rickinoc in Bali Update   
    Made a recent trip to Bali and the escorts/masseurs there really made my trip memorable.
     
    Having traveled there after 10 years I noted that the area has really grown and is amazing..Food is cheap, accomodations a plenty and all in all a very welcoming place . I made reservations on Agoda after browsing the gay Asia forums
     
    Lots of gay spas in Seminyak and Kuta Beach. The two that I would highly recommend are 1) Banana Spa - Tel +62-813-3893-9220 ; and 2) Teman Spa - Tel +62-878-6185-6196. Had wonderful experiences in both places - I would especially recommend Nino from the Banana Club.
     
    Other areas like Sanur Beach or Ubud tend to be hit or miss - these are more faamily oriented and non-gay areas. In these areas most of the spas have male therapists - you get great body scrubs and Balinese massages - but nothing extra.
     
    The best way in Kuta or Seminyak (more gay friendly) is to call the spa - dont be surprised that a female answers - and she will message you whos available on Whatsapp. Hire a private taxi if you are not in Seminayak or Kuta - really inexpensive and reliable - for a RT trip from where you are staying.
     
    Bali is safe and you will not get ripped off!! Its really Paradise
     
    Rick
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    TantricMD reacted to hornytwells in Str8 Porn Stars?   
    Maybe because that is his preference and what turns him on?
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    TantricMD reacted to Chandler Midas in 411 KingmidasXXL   
    Thank you all for your reviews, including yours Scartee. After hanging out with Scartee for 1.5 hrs, I did decide that it was best that i leave. Mainly, because we agreed on an hour of my time, and my donation reflected that agreement. But partly, because I cannot make myself comfortable when someone keeps asking if “I’m okay”... I am generally always okay, but the substances you were using that kept you in the bathroom for an extended amount of time, made you paranoid, made us go over time(which I was nice enough to do, because I’m not a clock watcher) and it ultimately turned me off from your company..... Unfortunately, you can’t please everyone... and I’m okay with that.. I have patience for just about everything, but I can’t have patience for someone who is not respecting me... Ever...
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    TantricMD reacted to + azdr0710 in 411 KingmidasXXL   
    the first post of somebody who joined the forum today......traditionally, we're skeptical of "newbie" comments like these that lavishly extol the virtues of a provider or viciously excoriate one.....
     
    let's all see how this plays out.....
     
    http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lihhkxacPF1qi3n3go1_400.gif
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    TantricMD reacted to Capitano in Sergie in DC   
    He is hot and friendly, and these are the only pluses. Massages you on his bed, uses some kind of skin cream (not the best, you end up feeling sticky), and has basic massage skills, so the therapeutic part is amateurish.
     
    He is ready to be interactive for extra $ but his basic rate is on the high end already so it's just not worth it. What really killed it for me, though, was that even though I agreed to splurge on his highest rate for 90 minutes, he still tried to upsell to a 4-hand massage for 1 hour, saying he couldn't do 90 minutes because "it was late." Why the fuck agree to it via text just hours before then? And I didn't like the feeling of his partner being somewhere in the apartment. The upside ended up being that I said no and we switched to 60 minutes, which saved me money.
     
    Nice guy, but way too much focus on revenue maximization without enough delivered in return. The more I try different masseurs, the more I think that these traveling guys are best avoided, UNLESS you get a clear sense on this site that the experience is really worth it.
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    TantricMD reacted to Dmitri in Do you tip your masseur?   
    I will tip only if the massage and service was good or great. Obviously if the massage session was inferior I don't tip. Makes common sense. I also will only tip the masseurs who have rates up to the $120-$150/hr mark. The guys who have massage rates beyond that in the $170-$250/hr rate (yes...there are many....just for an hour!) I feel are making enough, and a tip is not warranted. If a masseur is pulling in $170-$250 for a one hour massage session, I feel a tip is excessive!
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    TantricMD reacted to + Italiano in Recommendations for Atlanta   
    +++ Tim! Excellent experience. He is not very tall, perhaps 5'8". But what a body and skilled, pleasant guy!
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    TantricMD reacted to + Italiano in Atlanta, GA suggestions....   
    Thank you so much for all yr suggestions!
     
    Drake (WOW, would be my first choice!) never replied to my email from December on rentmen even if he has read it, I will try his phone...
    Luke Harrington and Cody Ryan (couple) offered me a joint service, very tempting but out of my budget. I should throw a coin...
    Also Ryan Turner sounds very hot!
     
    So far I had a VERY hot massage by Tim, the "Dragon".
     
    And the winner is........TO BE CONTINUED
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    TantricMD reacted to + Keith30309 in Feedback on Atlanta options?   
    I'd not responded to this because I almost never hire masseurs. The ambiguity hinted-at above (the code words, the arbitrariness, the coy responses, etc.) makes me a little frustrated and if I want to meet a man then I hire an escort.
     
    I don't know if Atlanta has a relative shortage of masseurs or not but there are plenty of fine escorts.
     
    That said:
    1) Josh - never seen him
    2) Bryan Kelly - never met him but, as stated, has been advertising as an escort for a long time.
    3) Roman - advertises as an escort. We've met about 10 times and I recommend him as an escort.
    4) Charlie - never seen him except for long-standing masseur profile
    5) Carlos - AKA Santos - I did meet him and wouldn't recommend him to anyone for anything
    6) Josh Reyes - never seen him
     
    I tried contacting Michael to arrange something and got a lecture about not calling 24-hours in advance
    I've met Jake - nice guy... twink; good erotic massage session
    Tim - met him a several times and much has been said.
    Ronin - met him... very strange session. Used latex gloves. Wouldn't repeat.
     
    There are a couple of other guys on MF who also advertise as escorts, such as Carlo. Some others drift on and off.
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    TantricMD reacted to + Italiano in Feedback on Atlanta options?   
    Thanks @greenj1283 !
     
    It looks like after (or at the same level of) Tim, Ryan is the bomb masseur in Atlanta!
     
    Definitely this guy caught my attention too, even if a bit too young for my taste, but very hot. Anyone:
     
    https://rent.men/MrSenualHealing
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    TantricMD reacted to Capitano in Advice to Masseurs - if they want more regulars   
    True, they can run their business any way they see fit, but the topic here is how to get repeat customers. So, no hard feelings either way, but it's about what gets us to come back. And, of course, repeat customers are extra valuable because they make income more secure and less variable, plus there is much less hassle and waste of time explaining and negotiating. Finally, repeat customers are likely to spread the good word.
     
    Obviously, I like my massage to take approximately the time booked but I don't obsess over it if it turns out a little shorter. But I do get pissed off (quietly and to myself) if it's outrageously short. I usually go for 90-minute appointments, and have noticed that the guys I repeatedly go to are pretty good at timing. But my boy Jake rules wrt this. He is so nice, smart, so much fun, it's like hanging out with a close bud. He'll suggest jumping in the shower together, then usually asks me to sit on the edge of the bed while he gets behind and massages my neck. Priceless, a very nice wind down, a total opposite of that wham-bam-now-you-are-done-get-out approach. That is not just fair (I paid for 90 minutes, I should get 90 minutes) and respectful, it's smart on his part. Every time I hug him good bye I already look forward to the next time because the vibe is so good. I've had several other masseurs offer additional neck or other massage noticing that the time wasn't up. Always appreciated even if I usually turn it down and prefer a little chat as I put on my clothes.
     
    Masseurs who schedule hourly appointments back to back are idiots in my books. That's sacrificing long term for the short term. It's greedy and myopic, and hardly entices anyone to come back, and that's just stupid form the business standpoint. My worse experience was with that Luka in Manhattan, who basically rushes you out as he scrambles to prepare the room for the next customer, so he basically wants you in and out of his building, not just his apartment, in less than an hour. It's like you are being processed on an assembly line, or how to spend $160 an hour and feel like crap in the end. Thank God he doesn't do 90-minute appointments, at least that saved me some money. Another dude in Chicago was doing outcalls and once he came to my place for an hour appointment. He was in and out of the door in like 50 minutes. Needless to say, I refused to see him again (yes, he texted and offered, who wouldn't want to make $150 in 50 minutes?) and then his ad disappeared. Apparently, I wasn't the only one who didn't like the approach.
     
    This business is really good if you like doing it and are able to deal with people but it's NOT for everyone. If someone thinks it's quick and easy money requiring no skill or effort, it shows. And if it shows, you can't get a permanent customer base, so you are forced to travel and incur additional costs, hoping to find enough clients to put through your production line. Good luck with that!
     
    One more thing I would add, and this is something that I realized gradually over time. I really like it when my masseur gets naked right away, when that kind of goes without saying. If I am going to lie there naked, let's be on a level playing field. Plus, if they don't get naked they tend to be warm, especially given that they work, while I may get really cold because I am naked and inactive. Them being naked gives them a better sense of the temperature in the room. I don't have automatic expectations about anything sensual, I like to leave that to the chemistry, but it seems that many don't do this for fear of setting wrong expectations, which I find unfortunate. But then that makes me appreciate even more those who do it plus are good masseurs.
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    TantricMD got a reaction from + Eric Hassan in Are clients interested in older Escorts   
    I agree 100%. What can be wrong with adding variety to the pool of available men? I love experienced men as long as they act their age. My taste are broad on age, and a bit more methodical on maturity.
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    TantricMD reacted to Montyd in Are clients interested in older Escorts   
    Yes, definitely! I'm looking for 40+. Love to see a bit of grey hair and loads of experience.
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    TantricMD reacted to + José Soplanucas in 411 on him....visiting Wash DC   
    Thank you, friend! Did you hire him only for massage services? Are you planning to submit a full review?
    Sorry, I think I am asking too many questions.
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    TantricMD got a reaction from + José Soplanucas in 411 on him....visiting Wash DC   
    Yes I was happy. Exceeded expectations... good convo, great attitude, a bit rough around the edges (not a spa treatment) but I like that. I do like my pretty brown boys too (black, latino, middle east, asian) on occasion, but sometimes they can be overly self-absorbed, spoiled on their own looks forgetting the fact that my donation should require a "service", so I tend to like a grounded everyday looking hot guy who doesn't mind earning it. He's what you would expect from the profile he presents. A strong, rugged, and surprisingly cool dude. He did check his phone twice during session while I was on the table (table is optional), but it wasn't a complete turn off, once he got focused, he performed very well. Would rehire. B
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    TantricMD reacted to Rick329 in Pornstar escorts I have hired   
    I have to thank you for your review of riotalk2. there's not many reviews around for him (not sure why). I met him a few weeks ago and he was absolutely amazing. I loved every minute of the session. His tool is so much bigger than it looks in his videos. Great guy, Great fun.
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    TantricMD got a reaction from Nvr2Thick in 411 on him....visiting Wash DC   
    I finally took the plunge and contacted him. We met. Pics are real.
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    TantricMD got a reaction from m.yi in 411 on him....visiting Wash DC   
    I finally took the plunge and contacted him. We met. Pics are real.
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    TantricMD reacted to marylander1940 in 411 on him....visiting Wash DC   
    I never heard back from him, previous threads on him were mostly positive.
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    TantricMD reacted to + BigRic in Black NYC escorts   
    LOL. Stereotype much?
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    TantricMD got a reaction from TruthBTold in Anybody?   
    I met him today for massage only. He was great. First time meeting him and he was polite, sometimes funny, but overall very comfortable and relaxing. Massage skills are good with a few different techniques and he is interactive if you ask politely. He mentioned that he also escorts and I'm sure in that area he would not disappoint, (the pictures are accurate).
    PM me if you'd like more details. I PM'd 'bluedawg' prior to setting my appointment, and confirmed that he has never met Punnisher, just enjoys making jokes of his own. ;-)
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