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He doesn’t interest me. A lot tattoos on a guy turn me off

He's definitely very hot and love his southern accent...his newer pictures show a buffed up physique BUT there are plenty of guys just as hot if not hotter for 200, 250, 300, 350...etc.......

Fully off-topic here:
 
Watch the new Scorsese Netflix docuseries with Fran Lebowitz, Pretend It's A City, and then tell me with a straight face that NYC isn't (still) the center of the world. She makes one hell of a compelling- and entertaining- argument that it is.
 
Manhattan has always been expensive... But people still come.
 
They find a way to survive it and make it work. That's part of what makes it special.

The golden age wasn't because of a city or location.
 
It was because at that point the internet and social media hadn't yet ruined a generation's ability to communicate like normal people.
 
This was also back when escorts cared enough to give themselves full names and maintain actual personalities.

My two cents: Nothing wrong in hiring. It saves time on grindr by the too much back and forth messages. Also on RM we can meet same person again and again and say bye to one night stand! It is bad if exploitation is involved though!

As a country, I think we in the US need to stop telling each other what to do. Whatever happened to minding ones own business?

If you think about it, they kinda have to pay taxes, especially if this is the only source of income. You can't like not pay taxes for several years because you have no "income" and then buy a house or something. That looks very suspicious. So a lot of escorts have set-up sole-propieter businesses as "models" or "masseurs" or whatever and pay taxes based on that. Of course they are likely not paying taxes on all of their income but if they don't, I am sure they risk getting an audit.

Tipping has gotten out of hand in America. You never tip the owner of the business. An escort operating on his own is the owner of the business. Don't tip. Reward him by hiring again for a longer period, pay for upgraded advertising, write good reviews, tell your friends, but DON'T TIP. Period.
 
PS: if the escort is sent by an agency, tipping is appropriate.
 
PPS: there have been other threads on this.

When he first appeared on Sean Cody I was taken by his looks, his build and his sexual prowess. I was a fan of Marshall who was his first scene partner, too. I was glad he kept with porn after SC, too. But he is, for me, better seen and not heard (or read). A hot guy can make one overlook a lot but he's beyond that for me. I wish he were smart enough to realize how much of an ass he comes off as and just stop. I can't imagine wanting to be around him, let alone to pay for the "privilege". Hot guy, sure. But there's too much else to overlook for my tastes. He's young. Maybe he'll grow up, but he was in the military and if he didn't develop self-discipline by now there's no reason to expect he ever will.

I'd likely SAY fuck him, but I'd certainly not PAY to do it.

Reading this posting I would say that why @peterhung85 is darling for many. He commits whole heartedly to meetings that he has promised and it is indeed great pleasure to be with him in for outings. In one occasion when he was visiting NYC, he took me out to a restaurant for dinner.

While I can’t answer for @rustyrex, I can speak to having very similar arrangements. Years ago I came to LA for a date with a handsome muscleboy who was very much my type. He was very highly regarded (and well-reviewed) by others. I’m a top only and he was sexually versatile. His overnight rate was $1500. He’d apologized to me a month earlier when he “completely forgot” our overnight date in Santa Monica. He promised to make it up to me, and I figured everyone deserves a 2nd chance, so…
 
The new date, as agreed with him, was to meet in an hotel in West Hollywood and play before dinner; then go out to eat locally; play again before sleeping and stay overnight. Despite my phoning him and confirming as soon as I’d checked into the hotel, it didn’t work out. He had memory problems again (to put it politely). But having been a Boy Scout I’d prepared: I’d made a back-up list of other guys to call. I made 3 phone calls and scheduled 3 good looking, muscleboys that night. One was an eager bottom before dinner, one was a very fun bodybuilder after dinner and the third was a skilled cocksucker who came over for a protein breakfast.
 
The end result of having alternative plans was I saved about $600 and met 3 nice young men. Yes, the original muscleboy-flake did call me later and ask for a “second chance” - he couldn’t count either - and No, I wasn’t a fool.

Idk why u guys take them to dinner or w.e . Incall or pitfall simple, in and out . You might do the dinner if its a regular provider and have a friendly connection. I would never take them out . Never forget its a service

Reading this posting I would say that why @peterhung85 is darling for many. He commits whole heartedly to meetings that he has promised and it is indeed great pleasure to be with him in for outings. In one occasion when he was visiting NYC, he took me out to a restaurant for dinner.

I would say that if it was your first meeting with the provider then first have test drive in first gear. Once you know him then go to fourth gear!

@nycman Please don't encourage others to break the "No Reviews" rules.
 

No.
 
Prior to this, have you ever seen this provider?

Next!

No, I don't think his answers are inappropriate at all. You asked him about STDs, he showed you his results, and he asked you for yours. Not sure how that is inappropriate. When you ask someone about his STD status then he has every right to ask about yours. If the tone you used with him is the same as you use when posting here it is no wonder he asked you to calm down.

I'm always skeptical of anyone that has mostly scanned or older photos of themselves. Everyone has a nice camera in their pocket, why not use it for new photos?

Yes, you've posted this several times now it seems. Time to move on. Happy new year. :-)

We need another stimulus - $2000 checks that can only be spent on escorts. He-larious.

I would be concerned about Grindr being more difficult to identify police stings...

I found a guy on Grindr who turned out to be a local model from Milan. We've had a few meetings at his place over the years. Eventually, he turned out in rentmen and started charging the going rate (as opposed to 1/3 of that). It was fun while it lasted. I found the 'amateur' feeling of the initial meetings very exciting!

Grindr may be a mixed bag, but you can also hit the jackpot. Lots of young guys who are super hot and don't know what their market value is. These are generally not professional escorts so you need to adjust some of your expectations about the "perfect escort experience" or BFE. You get what you pay for, but you can occasionally hit the jackpot on Grindr.