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I still consider myself a "novice" but I feel like asking a provider to charge his previous rate is a huge no no.

Even in the videos he's flacid.

Lol. I'll do that then, I just thought it was usually the reverse. You go into an encounter expecting the servicer to want it. Like I said its only been happening recently.

Not really considering the often silent circumstances lol.

Great to hear. Can’t wait to see him when I get out there.

Great to hear. Can’t wait to see him when I get out there.

Great to hear. Can’t wait to see him when I get out there.

So lately I've been stepping out cruising. I've noticed this has been happening a lot...when a guy is cumming, instead of giving it to me (facially or orally) he'll turn a little and just direct all that goodness to the ground, or urinal, or in their hands. It's been 3 years now I've been enjoying M4M play but only in the past few months have I experienced this, and multiple times.

Haven’t booked him yet but I’ve seen him a few times at the gym I go to. Photos are very accurate, just mesmerizing to see in person.

Not sure if he escorts, but I subscribe to Halif Faruk on OnlyFans. Incredibly hot. Maybe try reaching out to him and see what he says (he promotes his IG on OF so thats why I'm posting it). https://onlyfans.com/haliffaruk https://www.instagram.com/halif.faruk/

Not sure if he escorts, but I subscribe to Halif Faruk on OnlyFans. Incredibly hot. Maybe try reaching out to him and see what he says (he promotes his IG on OF so thats why I'm posting it). https://onlyfans.com/haliffaruk https://www.instagram.com/halif.faruk/

If you're hiring for a BFE then yeah there's something wrong with that IMO. If you're a servicer like myself and hiring for a short period of time, thats fine if it helps an escort get/stay hard and finish. I always have porn on my tv anyways when I'm hosting and I have hookups come by.

I usually book for outcalls (I host). I don't feel comfortable being in someone else's place. I've had no issues so far. When it comes to pleasure, I actually get bored sometimes playing inside my home. I love encounters in safe, odd locations. A former regular hire was into the same so that was great. I'm in the suburbs and pretty much a lot of the local escorts are in the downtown core and don't drive. I drive an suv truck and there's been times I've wanted to hire with my tinted car being the host location when I'm in the city. But, I don't want to make it difficult to an escort thats used to a certain format (hotel, indoors, bedroom etc) so I've never asked.

Here I've seen the personals shift to the Missed Connections section.

I tried Tinder but got banned. I believe because my profile blurb/description (though it was clean) was sexual and I guess they have no tolerance for that stuff.

Glad this thread exists. I've tried IG, usually with gym jocks or around the way guys that are friends of friends. No success yet on there, all my messages are read but usually no responses or laughs. It's also probably because my page is pretty much blank and very direct as to what I'm into. I find many local RM escorts here are also on Grindr. I find with a lot of them (in my little experience) that if you reach out on Grindr (not mentioning you've seen them on RM) that they'll quote you a much lower price. Tuesday night I actually "tapped" one of them on Grindr and a few mins later he messaged me. Within the hour he was at my place and I had a great time. Quote was pretty much 40% lower than his rates on RM. I've also tried it on Grindr when I spent my summer on the U.S. east coast. While I did get messages a lot of the guys were just lazy (especially in NYC). Even if I offered to pay for Uber etc. Annoying. I still need to try the IG route more. I'm guessing a lot of these gym jocks get hit up all the time from women or men so they don't need to go that route for pleasure or $. Another thing I want to do is create "business cards" but I have to spend the time to do research on that (what language can be used, discretion, graphics etc).

Nope. After being around my niece daily now and her crying at least 2x a day I’ll pass.

I have an Instagram and a Tinder account for this specifically. My Tinder account got banned, I'm guessing they're very strict about the description in your profile. Anything implying sex or rewarding appears to be a red flag and gets your account banned. Instagram I've come across just regular, straight hot guys but haven't had any success yet. I'm guessing fear of exposure is a big reason why.

I definitely get the outsiders a lot of A4A. But I think thats because when I travel, even after I do leave and return home that history is still in their database somehow...I THINK. *shrugs*

Also to add: The XXX content you're paying extra for via PM/Inbox. Thats on top of the regular monthly subscription.

Will be back in NYC in mid-late April and again for most of the summer. Hopefully he will be around.

So clearly he’s monitoring this thread.

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I actually met DL right before he officially got into escorting via RM. Super hot, incredibly passionate and a high extreme sexual appetite. I KNEW right away he would get into escorting if he wasn't already doing it on the side. Not shocked one bit from all those glowing reviews, he's definitely worth it. I haven't connected with him since he got on RM. He does multiple bookings a day, which throws me off and "finishing" is mandatory for me. In prior conversations he never mentioned a deposit. My guess is he's had a lot of flakes/no shows since joining the scene last spring, so a deposit is his way of weeding those people out.

^ Thanks so much for the tips, appreciate it. Trying to go for 10-14 days.