PaulM

Thanks...OMG, I just left his place and I couldn't agree more.   I've had hundreds if not a thousand + massages and his was top 3, if not the best.  I don't know how he was hotter then his pictures, but he was.  He really dug into areas where I was all knotted up and remedied my issues all the while giving sensual touches along the way.  One of the best endings ever too.....it was my first but will not be the last with this beautiful man...

I met Beny.
He gets the horny old man seal of approval. 😜

Saw Massage Prince a few months ago, meh....limited massage and it was a finish yourselfer....complete waste of time and money.  He at least got naked and has a nice body, but not worth the money.  

TikTok, OnlyFans, LukeYoungNY.com,  he is a busy boy outside of the laboratory.
 
 
 
 

well, after all these years on the forum, nothing really offends me anymore 😉
 

I never discuss hiring guys with others outside of this site. It is one the reasons that I became a member of "The Company of Men." 🤗

Who I have sex Sith and how I have sex is my business (any whoever my playmate might be at the time).
I do discuss this on line in this forum, and occasionally on recon, if I have a face to face convo about this - it is normally with a gentleman I have hired - as we talk about the industry.  
 
someone who I used to see reguarly in my previous location - would always start out with a hot massage - and during that massage he would ask me about what adventures I had had between appointments and he would discuss what he had been having adventures - either with clients or in his personal life - names were never mentioned but it was always an interesting and horny conversation 
 

All
the 
time! 
 
I really enjoy sharing tales of my sexual exploits with paid providers with at least a dozen of my real life friends. I regularly host house parties, ski trips, great adventure outings etc with a mix of personal friends and escorts. It keeps the mood lively and provides access for my regular friends to my favorite escorts. 
 
One of my favorite memories was a ski trip with 11 guys. 6 were escorts and 5 were my best gay friends. Two escorts literally dragged a mattress out of the bedroom onto the kitchen floor. They started going at it. A regular friend brought this to my attention and said “do you think I can join them?”  I said my suspicion is that if they wanted privacy, they’d have left the mattress in the bedroom. I’d ask, but I’m sure all are welcome. I was right, 3 quickly became 7. That weekend included rounds of strip poker, shirtless skiing, blow jobs in the loft where my orally talented friend just stayed up there and guys would periodically ascend the stairs and come down smiling. 
 
My friends have never expressed a stigma and hiring is such a substantial part of my life, and escorts are always around that it would be impossible not to discuss and call it what it is. 
 
Since my divorce, escorts are usually my plus one at dinner parties. My neighbors are a gay couple in their 50’s. They asked me point blank how I land such hot guys in their 20’s. I said it’s very easy. My checks always clear. Needless to say, they’ve never had a party I wasn’t invited to and my guests and I are usually the last to leave after the hot tub cover comes off. 
 
My motto is sharing is caring. 
 
 

No. There are some things I consider private. My hobby of hiring, my net worth/annual earnings and the Justin Bieber blow up doll I have in the back of the closet in the hallway are a few examples of things I do not share with anyone. 🤫

I have a cautionary tale on this topic.
I started hiring in my late twenties/early 30s. Almost 20 yrs ago. I had several close gay friends - a few were especially close and remained close until a year or so ago. I was always honest with them and told them about my lifestyle which I summarized as my gay friends were my family and my romantic needs were outsourced to external vendors i.e escorts.
A couple of these friends also knew descriptions of some of the guys I met and about my good and bad experiences. 
My general thinking was as I was honest and upfront about my choices, it should be ok. One friend expressed minor concerns and others being very progressive were non-judgemental. This lifestyle choice never seemed to come between our friendships. These friendships were my primary support structure.
Fast forward twenty years later, as the pandemic and related stresses rolled in, and as the political polarization grew, one of the progressive friends who could not hold a job down and over the years grew somewhat jealous of my modest success (basic ability to have a good paying job for all these years) had a fall out with me after getting drunk. The words that came out of his mouth were eye-opening. He said you might be successful, but you pay for s*x. "You are a pedophile that you go after young guys" ( I have never been with anyone under 23 - but I do admit my preference is for escorts between 25-35 ). He called me all sorts of names. The alcohol and built in jealousy brought out how he really felt about what I thought was an honest and upfront lifestyle that I personally have no qualms about as long as there is mutual consent and no exploitation. Another close friend, who departed a year before this one due to political differences (he was tea-party supporter and later a Trumpster and I am somewhat left of the center) which he grew especially sensitive about in the polarized pandemic years, also mentioned about me 'hiring hookers' as one of my bad traits in our final argument.
So 20-21 years ..after being very close friends - almost equivalent of a family - I realized that friends, no matter how progressive, harbored negative feelings toward my ability to hire the best looking guys to have some fun. Those came out eventually despite them telling me it was cool with them through the years.
So, my advice is do not overshare. Gay friendships fall apart, friends are not family. They will use this against you when they no longer want to be your friends. 
With this experience, I now have become very introvert. 
 
 

I've only told one very liberal bisexual female friend of mine (when it seemed appropriate to mention it) ......she was mildly surprised/amused at first, but then told me to "be careful"......I asked, "do you mean be careful about getting beat up, robbed, or killed?", but she meant the health aspects of it!.....
otherwise, other than forum friends, my regular "real world" friends are so mainstream that they would just be too freaked out by the utter concept of it......plus I'm barely out to anybody, anyway......

Only really one friend. It kind of came up in terms of him jokingly thinking he about hiring a female sex worker after he was experiencing a significant drought in his love life. I suggested he try it and that I had hired a male sex worker once and enjoyed it. He was surprised but I actually think its good to normalize sex work. I think more people hire than we realize. 

I've had a similar odd experience with him.  I think you're right about the language....he was more interested in making sure his peach was in my face than a massage....Massage was meh....wouldn't repeat.  

Same experience here....

I've had a similar odd experience with him.  I think you're right about the language....he was more interested in making sure his peach was in my face than a massage....Massage was meh....wouldn't repeat.  

As suggested, I think many find kissing to be too emotional, intimate, lovey-dovey, or too 'serious'. I met with a very bi ex-Marine a few times several years ago who had a strict no-kissing policy (I'm not into it, too), but would practically beg to give me head or get fucked. Just two dudes messing around. Kissing would be too gay!    (sarcasm!)
Check out the 1996 classic "Why Marines Don't Kiss"

If you are debating whether or not to spend 10 bucks a month for premium status on Rentmen, then you obviously can’t afford to hire any of the guys on there either. Unless you are just there to look at pictures. 

I've seen him for both therapeutic (when he worked in a studio) and sensual/erotic massage (my place).  I would recommend both depending on your mood.  He is a skilled, trained masseur if you are looking for that and an excellent sensual masseur if you're looking for more.  He has a very big "personality" and is genuinely a nice guy.  Repeat client.  

Unique ad....intriguing if he's bark is as big as his bite?

I've seen him for both therapeutic (when he worked in a studio) and sensual/erotic massage (my place).  I would recommend both depending on your mood.  He is a skilled, trained masseur if you are looking for that and an excellent sensual masseur if you're looking for more.  He has a very big "personality" and is genuinely a nice guy.  Repeat client.  

I keep everything locked in a safe and never invite anyone to my home except someone i have been with more than a few times . I typically host at hotels and then again everything is locked in my car trunk except the exact dollar Amt prior agreed to 

Yeah, I'd be careful with this one, but the pics sure are hot!

My winner is:
https://rentmasseur.com/EasyTiger

My winner is:
https://rentmasseur.com/EasyTiger

https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/41456/
Caleb in LA
and Dylan:
https://rentmasseur.com/NERDwBigHands