Masseurfinder used to be most popular but has quickly faded. If the said person maybe showed too much skin or ad made inkling of anything more than a massage he could have gotten the boot. I haven't used that site in 2-3 years
Do you all have a preference of lights on or off during massage. I don't mean bright but personally I prefer lighted to where I can see everything (if you know what I mean). A few masseurs wanted to basically dim the lights but I asked they be kept on or only slightly dim.
Take a photo/video will be taps a few seconds apart. Texting will be continuous. And well, there is nothing about me that would make a masseur want any memory of me in the nude.
Noises out of masseur control like street noise don't bother me. One turn off was constant sniffling of nose. It made me wonder is wiping his nose with hand then continuing massage.
Though I think he is good and was actually my first experience, defintely worth a try. I have seen him 3 times I can pretty much guess his routine as he doesn't seem to sway from it. The third time I asked him to change it up a bit he said something to the effect that he is used to doing it a certain way and didn't really vary his routine. But I would recommend him for a try as he does do a unique combination of therapeutic and sensual.
Erotic i think you will be sure provider is nude and may up for more than HJ. Sensual leaves the door open for it but not guaranteed. One person i know said he does not advertise as erotic because client expects sex or farther than the provider wants to go with every client
I did have someone say to me he had to save himself for the rest of the appointments for the day. One time I booked around a 7pm and he said he had been wanting to jerk himself but then I happened to schedule a last minute appointment so he waited for me. So probably just good timing on my part
I do think he is the MMV type. He had good technique when I saw him and it was a good therapeutic with a bit extra. I plan to see him soon when I feel a little more comfortable.
Only once was someone nude at the door and he said he just showered so didn't bother dressing. I usually request them disrobe. There a few who wait until later and say it is because he wants to focus on the massage first and not let myself get distracted with the other things, that was a valid point.
One time I did ask as requested and he replied back with $200 via text. I declined and he then responded about me being a cheapskate and he doesn't want to deal with cheapskates anyways.
And if you try to communicate this with someone from a masseur site chances are you will be turned away if you didn't check if they actually perform extras.
When I get tempted to get a massage I need to come read posts like this to remind me to resist the urge. Last one was in October 2019 so yah, it's been a while.