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This was very long time ago for me but definitely one of my worst experiences ever. I've been extra cautios with outcalls ever since. Hygiene issues, scatterbrain & manic, I ended it early. And carefully, it was that bad.

Do we have updates on experiences with Alex? It looks like our paths will cross. The $200 rate suggests high end experience but then some reviewers think that he is uncomfortable being naked and touched. The more smoking hot someone is, the higher the uncertainty about the experience ?

Manhattan, Dec 22 - Dec 22 Los Angeles, Dec 20 - Dec 20 Columbus, Dec 19 - Dec 19 San Francisco, Dec 17 - Dec 17 Seattle, Dec 15 - Dec 15 Indianapolis, Dec 11 - Dec 12 The price of jet fuel is low these days but if you travel so much on your private plane, of course your rate will have to be higher, $230 an hour, yikes! Too much for a massage, too little for an escort service. These dudes don't even realize how ridiculous this looks.

Some very hot guys are just way too much into themselves. They expect you to admire and worship them and think that their presence is such a blessing that they can get away with shorting you on time. I guess enough clients are sufficiently smitten by their looks but this ultimately isn't sustainable. Negative reviews accumulate and they have to change name, and even the most smitten client eventually realizes that they don't want to be treated like shit no matter how hot the looks. Oh well... PS If I ever decided to try, I'd work off the rentmasseur ad and try erotic massage with clear expectations set ahead of time, setting a cool tone without fawning. And if $180 does not cover nude with mutual touching, I'd walk away.

Height:5'10" -176 cm Weight:165lbs - 67 kg Nope, no way. My guess is he is much shorter.

His pricing is very reasonable for a quality therapeutic massage, and nothing else is suggested in the ad. I am totally fine with that. I have issues when they charge over $100 an hour and hint at things that are neve delivered.

There is no way that both of these could be right given what I see in the pics. Height: 6'1" - 182 cm Weight: 210lbs - 95 kg Plus the pictures seem too good to be true anyway, sorry.

I have no massage skills and don't really intend to acquire them. Yet, I like to give a gentle sensual rubdown to masseurs that I find hot and have good chemistry with. I think it's totally ok to ask politely once you know someone, I don't recall anyone turning me down, probably because they felt comfortable with me too. I typically suggest paying for 2 hours and getting a 90-minute massage plus me massaging them for 30, and I don't insist on using each of these minutes as a matter of courtesy and goodwill. I've done this with a total of 11 masseurs that I can recall. I have lost touch with some of them, with some I got this off my bucket list and out of my system, but with 6-or-so it's become a repeat ritual whenever I get to see them.

Actually, some of my favorites in NYC charge just under that: https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/34864/ https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/13627/ Which is really smart, they get fans like myself who book any chance they get and always leave a nice tip.

Thank you, guys! Coming to Chi and I was tempted. Why does he check the erotic box if he has too many limits, shouldn't that imply nudity, MT, and being open to offering a HE if the mood is right?

Saw him a couple of years ago, the pic was outdated back then and he was out of shape. Lame massage with even lamer sensual parts, he positioned himself for minimal touching and I wasn't into it anyway. He massages on the side and has another job, which he bragged about. Waste of time and money.

Is he on the Cannonball Run or something? Nov. 15 - 16: Indianapolis, IN Nov. 16 - 18: Des Moines, IA Nov. 18 - 19: Omaha, NE Nov. 19 - 20: Cheyenne, WY Nov. 20 - 22: Salt Lake City, UT Nov. 22 - 23: Reno, NV

Hot & friendly guy, erotic massage is a little extra and done in the nude, with touching allowed, and is very sensual. It did seem like he is pretty competent, so I'd try again especially if it turns out that he has a table in his place, I forgot to ask. Chicago so needs good masseurs after several of my favorites left. You may want to try this one and give us a second opinion. Or a third, fourth, etc.

It's such a turnoff when people cannot accept & embrace their age. Or when they use deception to lure clients, nothing good can come out of misleading them about your age. He lists 31 on rentmasseur, so this could be off by 20 years, wtf?! I could be weird but I actually LIKE more mature masseurs.

Has anyone had any encounters with Mateo? He seems hot and has had his ad up on rentmasseur since May (6 months), but no review. This could actually be a good sign, at least he didn't come up with some fake crap like so many others. PM me if you prefer, thanks!

I think he just put up a more recent pic. I might try but I like to see all 3 boxes checked on rentmasseur. I like my masseur to be comfortable getting naked with me an being touched. Not that I will necessary do it, I just like that option to be open. PM me if you prefer and have seen him.

I agree with most of this. However, rentmasseur lists 3 types of massage and if the masseur checks more than the therapeutic box and charges over $120, some expectations become legitimate. And legitimately discussed here. Services are subject to much higher variability than manufacturing, and one can have a disappointing meal at a very expensive and usually excellent restaurant. Massage is even riskier as so much depends on the chemistry between two individuals. Yet, it's totally legit to share info about what usually comes with the service. I don't necessarily expect or even want a HE. What's the point if the vibe is not there? But I go for masseurs who check all 3 boxes and are willing to be naked with me and lightly touched. I also want to find reassurance here that they will not tell me to "finish myself off" or some such bullshit in the end, a total turnoff and mood killer. In other words, if they have a taboo against touching my private parts, which is also usually correlated with their unwillingness to do my glutes, I want to know so that I can avoid wasting time and money.

His pricing is already above my psychological limit of $160 per hour. I am fine with this price IF the masseur is competent, hot, and OK with being naked and touched. He does purely therapeutic for $170/hour and $250/90 minutes, but you get a clear sense of that only if you ask. He seems to hide the fact that he charges extra for anything more, and he is very wishy-washy about how much for what. Nah, moveon.org. PS The pricing is made additionally lame by the fact that you'll likely have $20 bills, so $180/$260 for a frustrating strictly therapeutic massage by a hot guy who you thought would be happy to provide more, especially given how much he charges. This is a scam in my book.

So beyond high competence & good massage, how sensual does it get, is he nude during the massage, does he allow touching, and does he expect you to "finish yourself? ;-) I suspect pretty limited sensuality, especially given his $140 rate. When they charge $160 or more, it's a tossup, they either deliver or are simply grifters. At $140 and the guy is this hot, I have to curb my enthusiasm. These guys are not idiots, nor are they in this business for altruistic reasons. If they can plausibly charge $160 for what they deliver, they will. Especially traveling masseurs, they are all about maximizing.

Straight Russian swindler who delivers half-decent therapeutic massage on a bed, at a price of erotic. He'll promise all kinds of things and deliver nothing, pretending it was a misunderstanding. Stay away. Frequent name changes are telling, he is trying to run away from his bad reviews, thank God for this site!

I'll tolerate up to 10-15 minutes IF they are checking on me, apologetic, and with a very good reason. Shit happens, I understand. But if they are dishonest, uncommunicative, or manipulative, I am out. Massage is a luxury. It's about being relaxed and enjoying. If you are going to start it annoyed and frustrated, fuck it, nothing good can come out of it. PS It's naïve to expect extra nice treatment to make up for being late. That whole attitude suggests that they have another client lined up and they'll have to cut corners to catch up with their $-maximizing schedule. More likely than not, they see you as a cash machine. Run!

One of my rules: Never hire a guy who thinks of himself as a model. Especially when his rate is insane. It is likely a signal of narcissism instead of high quality experience.

He is either shorter or heavier than what he lists. The text of the ad is very familiar too, proceed with caution, and remember to use your big head to make decisions. ;-)

Don't be fooled by the pix, he is an out of shape straight diva, you don't want to see him naked And once you get him naked, major attitude plus no touching, the dude thinks he is God's gift to humanity. Not to mention upcharges for pretty much anything, as described in that other thread.

That was my experience. I saw him when he was beginning and saw the potential, figuring that he'd be awesome if he would just relax a little. The second appointment several months later revealed that he went in the opposite direction, and the experience was actually worse. Even more time spent face down and careful positioning to minimize touching and interaction after I turned around. Maybe his English is better by now but I doubt that the massage is any more sensual than before. PS My guess is that blowing or anything sexual is not an option at all.