Jump to content

harey

+ Supporters
  • Posts

    1,107
  • Joined

  • Last visited

Reputation Activity

  1. Like
    + harey got a reaction from + quoththeraven in Daniel Nox, "Payment due upon arrival"   
    I wonder how many hits his website gets from this post, and how many sets of rolling eyes.
  2. Like
    + harey reacted to biggerbilly in Human evolution?   
    How gays see height


  3. Like
    + harey reacted to rvwnsd in Support this site?   
    The sites have been completely separate for several years. That said, those of us who support the Message Forum have "thumbs up" badges underneath our avatars (or the default avatar, if we have not selected our own). I've supported the site for three years and will continue to do so.
  4. Like
    + harey reacted to + goosh69 in Just got screened by another escort - WTF?   
    Agree with you two. If we are paying, they should not care. Some other poster here says he sends a pic of $100 bill and says “this is the picture you’re looking for” or similar.
  5. Like
    + harey reacted to + BenjaminNicholas in Hire-at-low-rate-only 2018 proposal letter   
    If you have to take on a second job to afford this hobby, you probably shouldn't be hiring in the first place
     
    The OP is smirk-inducing. Well done
  6. Like
    + harey reacted to + Tarte Gogo in Hire-at-low-rate-only 2018 proposal letter   
    This letter is ALSO being shared by thousands of clients across the country. Many clients have already stopped hiring expensive escorts. Why not us as well? I hope you all decide to stand up for what you deserve and make this change with us. OUR MONEY. OUR CHOICE. Please feel free to copy and share to every client you know as well.
     
     
    Dear Fellow Client,
     
     
    This letter is in regards to the Rate Reduce Movement of 2018 #ReduceTheRate2018. You may be aware of the effects FOSTA/SESTA has had on your hobby and peace of mind. I am requesting on the behalf of the entire adult industry client base in the country to hire only escort that have reasonable, unraised rates, starting now (please don’t cancel what you have already agreed, though, that is a dick move).
     
    This one act when done in unison by all clients across the country will push out of business the most expensive escorts, leaving only reasonable ones, making your hobby more worthy of your time. This is only possible if everyone does it. We must stand together in unison as clients. If you can respond to this letter with a simple ‘yes’ you are committing to bettering the quality of your life and future.
     
    Several years ago, $150 was considered to be high end for a providers hourly rate. The cost of living has gone up for us clients and the quality of providers has not increased in the recent years, with flakes, fakes and scams all over the place. This has increased the risk for us and it is NOT sustainable to continue paying that much for an hour of work. It will ultimately leave the industry in ruins. Now, with the limitations of FOSTA, finding safe escorts will be increasingly difficult. A universal rate reduction is this only way to ensure survival of the business at this point. The time to take action is NOW.
     
     
    Here are some tips to help justify your higher-price refusal:
     
    ● Say you can’t afford that much.
     
    ● Say you are not even sure that the escort is not a police sting.
     
    ● Ask the price for a 30 minutes quickie.
     
    ● Talk to other clients and exchange tips on who provides a good service for a reasonable price.
     
    ● Work on self-care to boost your confidence level. Not only is it good for your mental and physical health, but your escort will find your new found glow more attractive.
     
    ● Read the forums and free independent reviews and chose wisely.
     
     
    Know that we are as frustrated as you are with how difficult things have become for clients. Even the richest clients have been affected in someway by FOSTA/SESTA. It’s time to take a stand and change the industry for the better. Please respond to this letter and forward it to your client friends and post on social media to make a real change.
     
    Please consider this letter as my promise to refuse to hire at higher rate starting now. Will you join us?
     
    Sincerely,
     
    Tarte gogo
     
    Your local client and ally
     
     
     
    Preemptive answers to questions:
    1. Yes this is a silly response to https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/raise-the-rate-2018-proposal-letter.135539/
    2. No I am not being serious, just trying to show that it can work both ways. Although I will genuinely hire those that have reasonable prices only, because I am not getting a second job as suggested by @FTM Zachary Prince
    3. Please don’t actually PM me your response, I can’t handle the volume already!
  7. Like
    + harey reacted to KeepItReal in Calling ahead to confirm appointment   
    I usually send a text a half hour before I head over. Also ask in that same text that the service provider let me know if he is running late. I don't usually call, texting works for me. If it is an appointment arranged a few days before, I will usually text earlier in the day, say around 11am to check in as well.
  8. Like
    + harey reacted to Kerryslate in NEVER pay up front...EVER!   
    Terrible situation sorry for the rough experiences- not everyone out there is genuine and comes through like they say they will ..... imagine that. Always safer to meet with the guy of your choosing and have a session or two before coming to an absurd amount of 2,000 for an over night. Just my opinion though.
  9. Like
    + harey reacted to HoseMaster in NEVER pay up front...EVER!   
    Yeah, it ranked up with one of worst experiences yet. The other being chased down Hollywood Blvd by an escort who used false pictures of himself, but still wanted to be paid. I wrote about it here a couple years ago.
     
    Only the minds in this forum think my moniker means "Fist Fucker Dave", when in reality it meant "FireFighter Dave". I guess I should change it to "captdave"'since I've promoted a few times since I first made that moniker. Lol
  10. Like
    + harey reacted to hornytwells in Str8 Porn Stars?   
    Maybe because that is his preference and what turns him on?
  11. Like
    + harey reacted to + Keith30309 in I think Rentmen has false privacy settings   
    Beyond the prior suggestion that the profile owner was methodically sending messages to non-viewing, registered users (which has happened to me a few times), I would think that the only ways this could occur are 1) RM is intentionally looking for contact info in cookies for users who are not logged in and notifying the profile owner of a "view" (this seems highly unlikely; there's no meaningful reason to do this), or, 2) the OP may have appeared to have been logged out but his session was still active and associated with his username (I'm not sure of the technical reasons this might occur... perhaps if RM is open on more than one browser session?).
  12. Like
    + harey reacted to + Gar1eth in New guy in LA   
    I guess it’s a good thing I’m not hiring anymore. I’d hate for him to fall in love with my full-figured hairy physique.
     
    Gman
  13. Like
    + harey reacted to marylander1940 in Agencies for higher end guys   
    I'm sure you'll find a guy that you like on rentmen.
     
    one more thing, you don't write as a "higher end" guy.
  14. Like
    + harey got a reaction from + kov78 in Wow, wow, wow -- Brandon Taylor in Houston, new guy, any 411?   
    Too good looking. There has to be something wrong with him.
  15. Like
    + harey reacted to + Hung_Cody in 411 on MuscleVIP---RM in NYC   
    My review is up on Daddy's today.
    5 stars +
    Woof woof
  16. Like
    + harey got a reaction from Bertster in how do I contact the forum administrator?   
    Post a review. That will get his attention.
  17. Like
    + harey got a reaction from Bearofdistinction in how do I contact the forum administrator?   
    Post a review. That will get his attention.
  18. Like
    + harey got a reaction from + nycman in how do I contact the forum administrator?   
    Post a review. That will get his attention.
  19. Like
    + harey got a reaction from + freecahill1965 in Threesomes with 2 escorts   
    I would probably pass on Mr. $500 due to the upcharge. If one escort is taking care of two clients at once, that might justify an increase. In your case, however, he's out of line. Judging from their RM ad text, one of them is not 100% fluent in English. Could this be a misunderstanding about what you're asking? Maybe a frank conversation as someone else suggested would clear things up and open the double doors of Nirvana? Interesting situation; please keep us posted.
  20. Like
    + harey reacted to Strafe13 in Threesomes with 2 escorts   
    I agree with @big-n-tall that some escorts may legitimately feel that threesomes require more work. I think that depends on the type of session, and the roles each person is expected to play. If one escort is being hired as a bottom to be brutally dominated by you and a big-dicked top escort, I could sympathize with the poor guy's feeling that he needs additional compensation. On the other hand, if you're a total bottom who's hiring two top escorts to just totally go to town on you, then it doesn't strike me as either one performing significantly more work so as to warrant an additional fee. There are any other number of additional scenarios that could warrant different outcomes. You should have a frank discussion with each potential hire to lay out what they're expected to do. Only then can you decide whether one guy's upcharge is reasonable or ridiculous.
     
    And any difference in hourly fees should not be your issue. If escort A charges $250/hour and escort B charges $300/hour, you pay each in accordance with his respective rate. If escort A wants to make B's rate, then he should charge it. He doesn't get to piggyback his way to a higher rate just because he fortuitously happens to get hired to work with B.
  21. Like
  22. Like
    + harey reacted to rvwnsd in GradStudent in San Diego   
    I hired him Saturday and had a great time. Review is forthcoming.
  23. Like
    + harey got a reaction from + Tarte Gogo in Cum for EXTRA   
    If they aren’t cum machines, then you’re not hiring the right escorts.
  24. Like
    + harey got a reaction from Chelo in Cum for EXTRA   
    If they aren’t cum machines, then you’re not hiring the right escorts.
  25. Like
    + harey got a reaction from KarlGrant in New guy in LA   
    @KarlGrant welcome to the forum. Nice RM profile.
×
×
  • Create New...