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There are many threads with posts about him. https://m4m-forum.org/threads/my-favorite-masseurs-in-manhattan.153508/#post-1815361 Don't believe it's Ethan/SouthernJock on Grindr, as that appears to be a scam. https://m4m-forum.org/threads/rentmasseur-info-masseur-verification-site-real-or-phishing-scam.152927/ https://m4m-forum.org/threads/recs-for-muscled-20-year-old-with-massage-skills-in-manhattan.150404/post-1749810 https://m4m-forum.org/threads/recs-for-muscled-20-year-old-with-massage-skills-in-manhattan.150404/#post-1750909 https://m4m-forum.org/threads/interactive-affectionate-masseurs-in-nyc.149880/#post-1740371 https://m4m-forum.org/threads/best-in-nyc-thats-sensual-throughout.149252/page-2#post-1729179 https://m4m-forum.org/threads/411-on-ethan-in-nyc.115474/page-2#post-1727731 https://m4m-forum.org/threads/411-on-southernjock-rentmasseur.153743/

I don't remember getting that one. It's been a hectic year though, so maybe I missed it.

I met a guy on SA who does this as a hobby. He's a model in grad school. His girl has needs, which works well for me because he has the largest thickest dick I've ever seen. We see each other a few times a year when he's in town with a free weekend. A couple years ago I was scheduled with a guy from the agent I think @DMICS and @7829V are talking about. He cancelled on me a couple days before a schedule session because his guy had another bigger opportunity. He said he'd reschedule and never followed up. I get an email occasionally but haven't seen a guy I'd be into come to LA in a long time.

A "temporal thermometer," which is what @fm0322 suggested, uses a senor to measure temp via minimal contact with someone's forehead.

How many wash their hands before touching their penis? What about a good thorough genital cleaning before shoving your penis in someone's mouth? SARS-CoV-2 is a respiratory infectious agent that isn't very robust outside a body and it is communicable via respiratory droplets coming into contact with susceptible mucous membranes. If you pick it up on your hands and then transfer it to your penis, that is a great way to deliver it to the bottom's membranes.

You're welcome. Out of curiosity, why doesn't she know of your bi interest? Are you worried she'll feel threatened? Is he particularly conservative? Have you cheated on her before? Discussing these kinds of issues can be tricky depending on the degree and extent of communication you've had so far. Personally and professionally, I encourage pretty open communication because it's really not possible to have solid trust without some foundational communication. Everyone is different though, so it's important to understand what will work for you, her, and your relationship. Some people prefer not to know, so long as they've given consent for you to "get your needs met" and they understand you will prioritize them and the relationship you've built together.

Have you had a conversation with your wife about this? I suggest starting there because she needs to be involved before anything happens. She might have zero desire to be with a third or she may want to be with a third without you. Given how often women are touched without consent or openly harassed in our society, it's important for her to feel heard, safe, and in control. My wife and I have had conversations over the years, which is how we arrived at our current agreement and understanding around a decade ago. We do not play together. We are transparent to the level desired and we are clear with whoever we spend time with. Our marriage always comes first and we mutually agree to keep it that way. That's part of why I tend toward straight males to spend time with now. I had complicated situations with a woman once and a gay guy another time. It's been fun exploring this side of my sexuality.

Uptime trackers show it was down. Site update? Was it hacked? Is it now a man-in-the-middle? Who knows what happened?

Thank you.

Yes, this is how my family has felt as well. Whether it was Army, Marines, Navy, or one of the many of us in mental health, medicine, or social work. We all have at some point asked our self, "If not me, who?" The tricky part is not letting ego-centrism cause us to lose sight of the fundamental reality that we are not superheroes. We cannot save everyone or everything. But, we can do our best and so long as we take care of ourselves too, we can do amazing things. All of us are part of the human family and must remember to say something if we see something because even the best of us can be overwhelmed and lost to the challenges of life.

I had a younger relative kill himself by alcoholism recently. I've learned a great deal from talking to many people. He's likely used alcohol to medicate himself for many years of struggle in a brutally difficult job in a part of the country forgotten by the prosperous urban communities. He's survived by his kids and his ex. I have spent weeks talking to people, piecing things together. Our nation is more precarious than ever for everyone who isn't a "winner" in the top 10% or higher. Things will get worse until we get real about inequality and mental/physical healthcare. The thing about mental issues like depression, alcoholism, or any other chronic mental issues is how they affect people's perception. Perception is reality and these kinds of challenges twist perceived reality. We can never know what someone in such a situation was feeling, percieving, and thinking. All we can know is that they made what they thought was the right decision in the moment. We have to live with it and move forward. We cannot help the dead, but we can help the living.

The hypocrisy is blatant but completely understandable. They have no choice but to do this when they become aware of money-for-sex transactions on their platform. If they fail to act so aggressively, they become exposed legally to the same fate as Backpage. It's the result of the USA's continued unwillingness to legalize and regulate sex-work.

I believe there are two or maybe three being discussed. Dillon/YoungmuscleLA, who was mentioned by the OP and is recommended by many. The other is two different links that use the same pics: BraxtonG and Jackthemassuer. BraxtonG is recommended above but Jackthemassuer is said to be flaky above. I believe that's who @builder boy is discussing. I don't know if both links are the same guy, just that the pics are the same. Perhaps Jackthemassuer is someone flaky who's using BraxtonG's pics?

I had to mute the dialogue. It's so bad in that context that the cognitive dissonance was painful. Hot imagery though. I'd enjoy giving him a physical.

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I remember Jordan. He was in San Diego for awhile after he left the military. He was always responsive in communication but sometimes wasn't always on time. He had a lot going on when I saw him a few years ago. His massage was amateur but his stretches were interesting and because of his size required a lot of contact to move my much larger frame. I remember him being nice and fun in person. If he were in the area, I'd probably see him again.

Yes, though the president's gavel is all natural wood that may require polishing which seems like a fitting position for cabinet members. Though, I imagine those same members may need attention too. Such a conundrum.

Definitely, which is why I was surprised I shared it. Have you read or listened to any of his interviews? He's fascinating and the kind of man many of us have have hoped for as we've fought for feminist ideas and against toxic masculinity.

I can't believe I'm admitting this, cuddling my wife on the sofa while she gets her Younger fix and I have dirty thoughts about "Josh."

I'm not just a club member. I'm a chapter president.

Ahh, you know me, I love having things shoved in my face sometimes.

https://www.gq.com/story/best-condoms https://nymag.com/strategist/article/9-best-condoms-reviewed-by-size-and-need-2018.html https://www.ripnroll.com/blogs/sexual-education/best-place-to-buy-condoms-online You've received some great advice. Asian brands are great choices, especially some of the Japanese brands, if you want a snug feel. There are plenty of online sites that can help you with finding a good fitting condom for you. I would never buy condoms on Amazon though given the constant problem of counterfeits, knock-offs, and expired products. I wanted to touch on the subtext around "not very well endowed" because I do not want you or anyone to pathologize your penis. That can lead to all kinds of problems that no one deserves to experience. Penis size varies widely based on genetics and a host of environmental / nutritional factors during development. Decades of research continue to support the "average length of an erect human penis" as 5.17 inches long with an average circumference of 4.59 inches. Yes, we see many penises larger than that because porn seeks them out to shove in our faces. My penis is over 6 inches. Statistically speaking I'm well endowed. But much of the gay community with its size obsession frequently dismisses anyone who isn't at least 7+. Such men are few and far between. Clearly, clustering occurs. Hung guys seek out size queens since they know how to handle them. Whatever your size, I hope you love your penis. It's part of you and whatever your size, make the most of it. Enjoy giving and receiving many years of pleasure with your beautiful penis. Source: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_penis_size

Yes, that's Ginger Muscle. He was in LA last year and was very hot and fun. https://m4m-forum.org/threads/ginger-muscle-nyc.154572/ https://m4m-forum.org/threads/gngrmuscle-nyc.154445/ His massage link: https://rentmasseur.com/GingerMuscle

It's a machismo thing. Many straight men from Latin America can and do fuck other men. If you want kissing in one of these interactions, make sure to treat him like The Man. Every man is different so boundaries vary, but respect for the person and their culture go a long way.

https://www.fda.gov/news-events/press-announcements/fda-modernizes-nutrition-facts-label-packaged-foods It was finalized and announced in 2016 and manufacturers had until July 2018 to comply.