Daniel84

I jumped once.. I had a client scream and I was like omg my neighbors. Now when I see him he puts his hand over his mouth. He is such a sweetheart that we started laughing after my “Jazz ? “ came out.

It pains me to bring this up but I need to let providers know that live in the DC area be careful with a certain client in Burk VA. I know of 6 providers including me who lost 30k in donations from a client who is committing bank fraud, bad checks and credit card fraud.
 
This client has paid providers with fake checks, in my case he disputed charges 2 months later. Miraculously his mom died and then came back to life, and tons of ridiculous lies and threats.
 
He also has videotaped every provider without consent. I had to move as I didnt feel comfortable with this guy knowing where I live.
 
I cant report him or go to the police so now I am out thousands and now have a sociopath stalking me.
 
I won’t put his name or his address in this thread, because I don’t want there to be any types of harassment towards him and to protect me legally.

I have enough evidence from him committing Credit Card Fraud and writing two bad checks. If i report him then I would be putting myself at risk for prosecution.
 
This is a endless cycle of abuse and because the law protects him from being charged.
 
I hope this thread protects providers from losing money and time like the 20+ people that have affected by him.

Karma ALWAYS wins :mad:

Not to give a sob story but I am escorting to help my sick mother. I cant really ask my mother for $4200 back from her treatments. Now I am stuck paying Square $800 a month for 6 months so I wont go to collections.
 
i’m not a religious man But I do believe in karma and I hope karma fucking pays him back.

Not to give a sob story but I am escorting to help my sick mother. I cant really ask my mother for $4200 back from her treatments. Now I am stuck paying Square $800 a month for 6 months so I wont go to collections.
 
i’m not a religious man But I do believe in karma and I hope karma fucking pays him back.

I jumped once.. I had a client scream and I was like omg my neighbors. Now when I see him he puts his hand over his mouth. He is such a sweetheart that we started laughing after my “Jazz ? “ came out.

I jumped once.. I had a client scream and I was like omg my neighbors. Now when I see him he puts his hand over his mouth. He is such a sweetheart that we started laughing after my “Jazz ? “ came out.

Not to give a sob story but I am escorting to help my sick mother. I cant really ask my mother for $4200 back from her treatments. Now I am stuck paying Square $800 a month for 6 months so I wont go to collections.
 
i’m not a religious man But I do believe in karma and I hope karma fucking pays him back.

Not to give a sob story but I am escorting to help my sick mother. I cant really ask my mother for $4200 back from her treatments. Now I am stuck paying Square $800 a month for 6 months so I wont go to collections.
 
i’m not a religious man But I do believe in karma and I hope karma fucking pays him back.

Not to give a sob story but I am escorting to help my sick mother. I cant really ask my mother for $4200 back from her treatments. Now I am stuck paying Square $800 a month for 6 months so I wont go to collections.
 
i’m not a religious man But I do believe in karma and I hope karma fucking pays him back.

It pains me to bring this up but I need to let providers know that live in the DC area be careful with a certain client in Burk VA. I know of 6 providers including me who lost 30k in donations from a client who is committing bank fraud, bad checks and credit card fraud.
 
This client has paid providers with fake checks, in my case he disputed charges 2 months later. Miraculously his mom died and then came back to life, and tons of ridiculous lies and threats.
 
He also has videotaped every provider without consent. I had to move as I didnt feel comfortable with this guy knowing where I live.
 
I cant report him or go to the police so now I am out thousands and now have a sociopath stalking me.
 
I won’t put his name or his address in this thread, because I don’t want there to be any types of harassment towards him and to protect me legally.

One is therapeutic and the other is Sensual..

I second Danny.

Lol I have been advertising since 2010

Actually there’s tons of guys requiring a deposit. It has nothing to do about texting ; My gripe is a appointment is confirmed then a client doesn’t show up or even communicate they have to cancel. Thank you for your advice on getting a job at Starbucks I heard they have a great discount ?
 
I don’t require a deposit for my massage services but for escort services I do as escort clients tend to be more flaky and have a track record of not showing up for me and every other escort that I know.
 
not sure if you’re a client or not but if you didn’t wanna pay a deposit then I’m not the right guy for you it’s simple as that.

Lol I have been advertising since 2010

Lol I have been advertising since 2010

Besides some negativity on this thread overall I appreciate the open dialog and points of views of many of the members.
 
Thank you

Besides some negativity on this thread overall I appreciate the open dialog and points of views of many of the members.
 
Thank you

I’ve been thinking of a possible solution this problem of flakey clients. What if the provider made some kind of a waiting list, especially for first time clients. Say he books Client Number 1 for 7pm. Then if Client Number 2 also wants to book that time, he will be told that he is on a waiting list and he will be notified if his booking goes through. Several clients can be on the waiting list so the provider can have a safety net against flakes.

I always meet someone in a public area. I don't see how that could make anyone awkward. Whether in a lobby, restaurant, whatever there's nothing awkward about two people introducing themselves or saying hello along with a handshake. And if you're meeting someone at their home its completely normal for them to have an additional step to safeguard their privacy/home.
 
As for flakes, there are some on both sides. This is a great site to be informed about flakes, learn when to doubt a providers legitimacy and stay out of trouble.

I'm sorry that @ Daniel84 & Dominiking & other fine masseurs & escorts have such a lot of flakiness to deal with.
I can understand clients feeling nervous when meeting a new provider & I must admit I've nearly flaked in the past. However I always remind myself that the guy has reserved the time for me & this is his living so have always turned up & usually glad I did.
Sure I've had disappointments but I booked his time so I've always paid him as agreed & simply not rebooked.
Usually I've met great guys, been treated with kindness & respect & had an amazing time. The last guy I was seeing was stella & with him I had the best sex of my life even though he was significantly younger than me-that didn't seem to matter to him. Unfortunately he seems to have moved on & is no longer advertising so I sent him a good luck text & wished him well.
Now I'm having to look for a new guy & go through the nervous butterflies again when I do, but there's no way that will cause me to flake!
Good luck to you & hope clients treat you with the respect & courtesy you so richly deserve

Build a bridge. Get over it. @Daniel84 made amends.
 
It says more about you that you're still using this against him a decade later.

lol Dear Oaktown you are still bringing this up after 5 years??
 
I amended for my ways and errors years ago and apologized that I was not on time and made you wait outside of my apt for 5-10 mins as I wasn’t ready. I apologized to your numerous time and even sent you messages (You actually blocked me ) to clear the air for your grievances.
 
Can we just let it go and move on. It’s been half a decade and I am tired of apologizing for making you wait 10 mins.