Daniel84

Today I had a two hour meeting that has been confirmed for about a week with constant communication not even show up. I am now changing my business if you want to book a EC type of service I require a deposit. I am sorry for the inconvenience this will cause some but I am done having people waste my time. I get it; in the heat of the moment and constant urge for instance gratification clients book and have intentions to show up. Then the idea of hiring someone disappears and decide not to be man enough to cancel. My escort service Business will probably take a hit in income as I require a deposit for all new clients but this was just one of the fires in the kitchen. I would rather make less money and have people who are serious then have clients waste my time. rant over lol

Lol I have been advertising since 2010

The terms of service link is broken and my friend is trying to signup and it’s not allowing you to make an account.

When they try to rebook I inform them that I require a deposit.

Besides some negativity on this thread overall I appreciate the open dialog and points of views of many of the members. Thank you

I always give clients a second chance unless they ghost or flake. If a client is a no show and they try to book again they have to prepay. Some of them do but most don’t. Just like a eye doctor or doctors office if you no show or cancel without proper notice they charge a fee. When it comes to EC clients I will only see 2-4 clients a week. If I am not in the headspace I won’t book any clients as my Massage business keeps me very busy as well as managing a photo studio.

How do I post a pic lol? I am also a photographer that mostly shoots B&W

lol Dear Oaktown you are still bringing this up after 5 years?? I amended for my ways and errors years ago and apologized that I was not on time and made you wait outside of my apt for 5-10 mins as I wasn’t ready. I apologized to your numerous time and even sent you messages (You actually blocked me ) to clear the air for your grievances. Can we just let it go and move on. It’s been half a decade and I am tired of apologizing for making you wait 10 mins.

Always a pleasure chatting with you :-)

He was never at my apartment. He emailed me later asking for a free hour to " Make up for his time"

Thank you :-) Going forward I will not book any clients from the message service on rent.men. If you want info and more pictures you can text me. I am also removing my private photos as people use rent.men to replace what was tumblr.

Here is the funny part; The client states he dialed the code ( He did not). Now he's asking for " Complimentary hour for free" because I didn't buzz him up... I have a feeling this client's MO is to flake on a provider and then ask for a free hour.

Here is a mini-rant, I have been a massage therapist for about 8 years or so. I relocated from LA/SF to DC to help take care of my mom who is suffering from lupus. I started Escorting on and off for a few months. I just don't understand people; I was scheduled with a client and confirmed today. Fifteen mins ago he said I was flake because I won't give out my apt number to clients off of Rent.men. I have had issues where clients would be high or just creepy. As a business owner, I can dictate my hours and how I operate for my own safety. When I confirm with a client they have my address and the code to buzz in. I always meet the client in the lobby for the safety of both of us. I am starting to question if I should even bother advertising on Rent.men. I never get this many no show or flakes practicing massage. I am pleading with clients if you have second thoughts, or you decided that you don't want to hire someone. Just send an email and cancel with notice. In my case, I am using this money to take care of my family and would rather book clients who actually respect me and my time. Thank you You're Friendly neighborhood Spiderman..... ( Massage Therapist)

I hired him for a massage. It was a good massage.

It was my pleasure working on you. I loved our conversation and looking forward towards the next time see you :-)

I would love to visit Atlanta but I heard of many stings arresting out of state massage therapist.

That is so sweet of you to say ;-)

Thank you

Thank you for the input. I will keep my chatting to a minimum now. Rule of thumb I always ask my clients if they like to talk and if I didn't I am sorry. I also apologize I did not pick up on your cues. Hopefully one day I can work on you again and allow you to enjoy my massage. Have a wonderful Valentine's and a great weekend.

Thank you so much ;-)

I am sorry about the apt being cluttered as I just moved cross country 4 weeks ago. My apt is very clean and organized after taking some time buying furniture and breaking up boxes. Hope to see you again. Most of my clients like to chat, If you prefer we don't talk during the massage of course I can be quiet. Thank you

I don’t know if it’s just the climate or the city where I live in. I rarely get a noshow when it comes to massage services but dear god 6 out of 10 clients for escorting don’t show up or even respond after a booking. I never cancel on a client, and I try hard to be punctual. I also hire guys at times for massages but I would never think “ To flake or not show up” . At the end of the day Massures and Escorts depend on there profession choice to have a roof over there head. We are not tools or pieces of meat that can be discarded and treated like trash. I always give the same level of respect that I am giving and would be nice of the escort / massure and client community to respect each other alot more. If you can’t make a booking or get cold feet just say so. We would rather know then to wait around twiddling our thumbs. Thank you reading my frustrations. Happy holidays

I am interested , When is gay ski week? Please PM me for more details. Thank you

It was my pleasure seeing you for a massage ;-) Thank you ;-)

Thank you