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So i think this is coming down to different ways people use this forum. It seems you use this forum as your main method of browsing providers. If that's what you're doing then i see how you are coming to this conclusion because you aren't seeing the providers profile first. You are seeing the CoM Deli most recents page, you're using the CoM Deli page kind of like the Online Now and in your city search (which is not it's function, but whatever, that's how people seem to be using it). So I can see a bit more why you are wanting what you want because you're using this as your main place to browse in addition to see reviews. 
However, it's at odds with how another portion of us are using this forum, which is we come here after browsing on RM or other site and then we search a specific provider of interests handle here, because to us, why would we want to sift through a bunch of posts for providers we aren't interested in when we can use the much more robust profile search function on RM or other site first? So we come here already knowing what city they are in at that present moment because that's how we're seeing them come up on RM in the first place. Searching the handle here brings up any new and old posts that often say cities that Provider is likely no longer located in. So that's why we largely see it as useless or redundant info to include in the post title. We are seeing the providers location from the start because we are starting from their listing and not here first.
It's not rocket science, but it is a matter of different use cases and perspectives. To both of us, our way is "easier" cause it's what we're used to doing.

Well I never use this forum as the primary source of browsing page. Instead would go to RM to search for providers in my area, identify providers i am interested in and only then run those providers' RM's handle names using the 'search' feature in this forum simply to check if any thread on those providers posted here for references. 
Seems to me that would be much more efficient than going through this forum to identify providers in my area.

Yet this discounts everyone else’s point here which is that many providers do not stay in one spot, so you’re more likely to have 5 threads about 1 provider for each different city. If you’re looking up a provider and wanting feedback you’d ideally already know they are in or are coming to your city. If you’re just browsing here and you don’t have a person in mind, respectfully, it doesn’t seem like it’s other’s responsibility to follow your patterns. Also not brain surgery 🧠👨‍⚕️, but to each their own.

YES, totally agree. Listing city is meaningless, unless people also expect to create international laws forbidding providers to travel.

Listing city is meaningless for the huge chunk of providers who are sometimes/always traveling. Even ones who don't travel super often sometimes move. It's outdated info within a matter of days or weeks for traveling providers and sometimes even out of date after X time for fairly static providers if they move or visit somewhere for vacation and take clients where they are visiting.
I don't think there's really any real logical solution for this. The only possible solution is if the developers of the forum added a feature that somehow real time tracks the listed location of a provider in RM and auto updates posts with their name to change location. And i think that'd be very infeasible.
I don't know. This has never really crossed my mind as being an issue personally. Most providers I've hired in the past are traveling providers, and when i came here to look providers up i already had a name to search from browsing RM first. I'm generally not browsing the Deli and looking for my city in the titles because i already had it in my head from the start that many providers move around a lot. So i could be the odd one out in that way and this wouldn't ping as an annoyance for me.

So … this is valid advice for those posting a new 411 request, and specifically in the case of a provider who rarely travels. But please bear in mind that the title/subject line of a post about a provider VISITING NYC is only going to be useful while that provider is in NYC. Six weeks later, when that provider visits DC, and somebody posts the fact in that thread, the original subject line “411 on So-and-So in NYC” is just going to mislead. And correct me if I’m wrong, but I don’t think that anybody but the OP can edit that subject line. Furthermore, if somebody posts a NEW thread with the title “411 on So-and-So in DC”, won’t the admins simply merge that with the old thread? Bottom line: I find it more useful to let the RM profiles of providers keep me up to date on their sometimes complicated travel schedules.

I'll ask the obvious (at least to me) question:  How does one get to the point of being engaged without knowing something as basic as what each other does for a living, or even as a side-hustle?

I hired him in Boston for two hours. Communication wasn't great. He was not on time and no communication. When I messaged, he asked me to send an Uber for him. He is very cute and friendly, but maybe 5'7 tall. The massage was nothing great. The second hour ended up with just talking. Disappointing, expensive experience for me. 

Does anyone know if Carter Woods does private bookings or anything else?

Since no one responded, I took a chance and met with him anyway based on Rentmen reviews. I had an awesome time with him. 

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Thank you Peter! Glad it paid off. He's now on my list.

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profile is off sometimes and WhatsApp is not responsive. Has recent reviews. Anyone met him?

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hahaha idk where to begin. Seriously dont waste your time on this guy. Im able to laugh about my experience now because it was a while back and i look so much better now.. (even way better than him.. thanks Korean doctors😉). anywho this guy wanted to get paid for a massage instead he body shamed me!!! LOL ong how the tables have turned and he cant even pay me to spend a second with him. This happened early this year. He has a really nasty dongbei attitude. Idk if hes from dongbei but he is really rude and honestly quite ugly in person with a thick hawk tuah uncle accent. anyway hire him if you want disappointment. Ppls kinks are crazy nowadays.
btw he goes by Freshsportsboy on rm now

I had bad experience with him. I had him 2 yrs ago. we agreed on price and stuff to be done.  Once we met, he kept saying no no no.  he took the money, and right there  ( the money left within 15 seconds I saw I was blocked)  he blocked me so I could not post bad reviews.

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Honestly, TGTBT.

I finally met him a few weeks ago and it was not a good experience. He kept checking his phone for the time and tried to end session early. Clock watcher! Beware….

I met him and found the experience disappointing.   Good looking, friendly but not particularly interesting, able to receive but not stay hard and perform

Same. I’ve seen him a few times and enjoy him. He’s become a regular whenever he’s in town. 

I have met with Eros twice.  He's a genuinely nice guy.  His stats are accurate, and he is even more handsome in person than in his photos.
From the DR, English is Eros's second language.

The Deli option is very attractive too.
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I always ask the provider their rate. If it is above my budget, I tell them that and thank them for replying. I am always prepared to move on. I don't try to negotiate, but often I find that the provider will ask my budget (which is always reasonable) and they reset to accommodate. Treating people with respect and being flexible goes a long way in my experience.