OK Tasso, stop being such a downer. In all my years of hiring and RENTBOY, RENTMEN , more ads are truthful than not, more nice guys than jerks. The only place I have seen a lack of truthfulness is sexual orientation. Not nearly so many bisexuals as just gay guys that haven't completely come to terms with it. As for gay for pay, well....they want to get paid but it's not really a huge stretch for most of them. Most are nice guys that either enjoy the work, or need the funds. So Tasso, try to be a little more positive. No need to sound like a bitter old queen, life is too short.