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I continue to use it with pretty good success. I filter the profiles for distance and age. I look for profiles that are interesting and say hello. I ask them upfront if they expect sex to be a part of the arrangement. If they say no, I tell them I do and wish them luck. I have met three so far and slept with all three. Remember these aren't pros, well usually not, (Avi Dar is on the site) so performance is not scripted. All three were nice guys, one looking for a boyfriend (I'm not) the other needed a little work at the gym and the third is a real sweetheart. I am going to do another meeting with him. There is a fourth that I have scheduled for next month. Financial needs and expectations vary. There is usually some travel expense involved and at least an overnight stay, unless you are in New York. If you filter over 25 you get a lot of right out of school trying to get by on starting salary types and not so many twinks and students who don't know really what they want. It's a different market place so it takes a different mindset but definitely worth your while. Also, somewhere back in this thread it talks about the % of straight marriages in this country that have some financial facet. That is so true in both the gay and straight world. Anyway, take a different approach to this site, realize that there are no free rides anywhere and see where it takes you.

I the offense in these matters. We agree on an "eposodic" amount, usually $1,000. Then once we have a date and a location, I ask immediately if they have a PayPal account, and transfer $250. That will give you an email address. THen I send them all the reservations, plane (mine or theirs) hotel etc. This makes them realize that you are ligit and they relax a bit. (There are as many flakes on the Daddy side as on the their side) We play it out, have a great evening/night/morning and I transfer the rest at some point on my phone. Most of these guys are just regular guys that have hit a rough spot, not the con guys you sometimes (not always and not the majority) find on Rent Men.

I am not a regular poster like most of you guys, more a vouyer of this forum. Rent men, like Rentboy is fairly cut and dried, to the point. SA is more subtle, I have talked with several guys who didn't expect sex to be part of the arrangement. It takes a lot of work and there really aren't any free rides. All in all there are a lot of nice guys on there. I live in the Southeast so there is not a lot of talent here, but NY is a quick flight away. I move the age slider up to about 26 to eliminate the guys who are too young. Yes there are some you wonder why they think someone would compensate them for anything. All in all I have met 3 great guys. We arranged for an "eposodic" amount for the first meeting. Dinner a great hotel and 500-1000 in comp and everyone walks away happy. Another weekend of the same, I think all would say yes. PayPal eliminates the envelope. All in all a great site but it takes work. I had so much on my plate I had to take a break. I think the secret to any arrangement, or hire or whatever or how every long you want to call it is a sense of mutual respect. If you respect these guys as equals and treat them with kindness and some courtesy it is amazing what happens. If you're a nice guy (not stupid or naive) there are a lot of nice guys out there. I am 60 years old. I'm having more fun with more hot guys than I ever did in my 20's and 30's and was cruising around.

https://rent.men/JohnnyRyder Johnny Ryder is the best and a really nice guy.