I had some personal business to take care of in NY, furniture shopping etc. I thought I would do a weekend with this hot Sean Cody guy who was 26. I will be 70 next month. I like to think I'm still in shape and attractive but I am sure not 25. He was and is adorable, sex was great, but....he is everything else a 26yo is. We absolutely had nothing in common. Same thing with another guy in the spring. Now I make a date for say 5PM, great sex, then some dinner in a great restaurant, and usually I say goodbye. I am back in my hotel at 9:30-10, a little tv, sleep like a baby. I pay pretty close to an overnight but....everyone is happier. (I live with my 28yo autistic son, who although very high functioning, not independent, so I hire when I trave) As Cher says, "Sooner or later we all sleep alone"