rustyrex

The price is way too high....but if I had between $5000-$7000 to throw around.....then again.....I’m sure there is someone I could think of spending that kind of money on 😉

I understand the frustration, but in reverse....I was with one provider that insisted on protection, so I suited up and couldn’t cum. I warned him....this can go on non stop for at least 40 minutes. After I didn’t cum, he said when he tops with a condom he doesn’t cum either...for the whole condom sensation reason. I asked....how does your hire feel if you don’t cum, especially a bottom or sub guy? He didn’t answer....but he did get his money. I haven’t seen him since. Nice guy but if I have to suit up then there better something else that can make me climax...dirty talk, piggy play, WS or boyfriend experience. Some guys do more than make up for the condom thing...others do not....it’s trial and error.

A couple of weeks ago I went on my "make up for 2020" trip and met a provider that I had been wanting to meet for years. After we took care of business we ended up talking for a while. He let me peek behind the curtain of what his life is like and I had no idea just how much work it is to be a provider. He started with showing me his, what we call at the gym "gear" and then told me how much it costs. Although I'm not a faithful to the gym as I used to be I never used anything to give me an edge to make me bigger. I've never been approached by a dealer either but when he told me the price I was stunned. Then he told me about gym memberships, the diet, the clothes, and the plastic surgery and other medical expenses. I was surprised just how much went into him being the persona of this person online. On top of rent and a car payment he said he did well but he had his moments that things got financially strapped. He then told me about the other ways he brings in money, like videos, worn apparel, pics, appearances and collaborations. He told me that while it pays, it's not nearly as lucrative as one may assume. He had a roommate, that wasn't in the biz and that was never home. I was surprised by that as well, I assumed he lived alone till I saw the bathroom and feminine products laying around. He told me Vegas was starting to get as expensive as California and that his apartment was considered a decent place but not fancy. He was a very nice guy, and drop dead gorgeous with an amazing body. I thanked him for giving me a new perspective. He told me most clients don't ask and really don't care about what goes into the art of making the fantasy a reality. I told him not many guys are talkative after our time is up. He gave me a good bear hug and sent me on my way. To all the providers that make the fantasy a reality....Thank You!!!!

I just realized I was talking about someone totally different....Parker Matson....not Parker Logan...sigh....too many Parkers

I would give it time...things will get back to the way they used to be. Physical touch will never be replaced by OF....you can only record so many videos so many ways. Plus I just discussed this with a guy I spent time a couple weeks ago. He said that once they see your ass they move on to next guy and the pay isn’t as lucrative as one would think. While there are exceptions, they are rare.... Give it time. I’ve already seen a couple guys come back to the biz that I thought were gone forever....

Nice catch...I was referring to the muscular, bald, daddy with the banging body. Never seen more than one guy use a same name.

Met him....PM if you want details.

May as well wear only undies...just make sure they are clean...no one wants to see skids...

Just watched on TMZ...it was cute. He was all grabbing his crotch like "oops" and kept on going. As for the rest of the performance....I surprised he wasn't given much flack for it. It was very suggestive and the opening part looked like they were dancing in the inside of an anus, I mean clouds.....I mean anus...that turned different colors. Maybe it's the unofficial kick off to Pride 2021?

I know this has been discussed multiple times ad nauseam and a lot of old school guys love cash but I’ve been in situations where I’m glad I’m not carrying it. See my post from a couple of days ago. Trust is a two way street, if I hire I can be trusted to hold up my end of the deal no matter the method of payment, however, I have issues with meeting a guy and dealing with issues of drug abuse, unusual behavior that borders psychological issues, and last minute interruptions that compromise my personal safety. If I had cash and he wanted it bad enough, he could have fought me for it with the help of someone else and there would have been nothing that I can do except tell the police. Be careful!!! Once cash is gone.....it’s gone... your safety is worth more than what ever cash is in your wallet. This hobby is not for the timid!!! There are no secrets and there will always be a trail that a skilled investigator can find. Your phones, email address, IP addresses, and such are all recorded. If you want true anonymity use crypto but even that’s not all that easy to use and hardly anyone takes it. Guys fear what they don’t understand, learn to use the payment apps so you get comfortable but if the provider insists on cash and you really want to spend your time with them go ahead, but keep your safety in mind.

Hey Guys, I just got back from my "lost year to make up for" trip. Decided to head out to LA this time, had a great time but I wanted to post a part of my story to the group. So I scheduled my time with this guy whom I'd seen in videos online. Just my type, all roided out with a bubble ass, but it was one of the strangest encounters I've had. So right off the bat I got lost, navigation isn't perfect and I ended up in a semi seedy neighborhood and looked all crazy trying to find an address that wasn't there. I contacted the provider and he gave me the address again. I put the address back into the phone and it came up with a different place. I eventually made it to his apartment and he came out to the street to get me. He looked exactly like his pictures and matched his described height. I try to not be too judgy about peoples homes but if your running a business you'd think to put your best foot forward. His apartment was pretty small but I immediately noticed the smell of of either marijuana or something else....maybe meth...and incense being burned to try to cover up the smell. The apartment was very hazy. The apartment was also messy and cluttered but I over looked that and went to use his bathroom which could've used a cleaning as well. He offered me water, which I accepted but he ended up of giving me a dirty wine glass with tap water in it. I accepted and we proceeded to get to business. While in the throws of passion he was easily distracted and we would stop for him to check his phone and that's when things got worse. He started checking his front door and even answered it more than once. That's when I got very nervous because not only was I in a compromised position but he's talking to someone outside for some unknown reason. I wasn't sure if this was a boyfriend or roommate or drug dealer or what... I asked what was going on and he told me his next appointment was waiting outside. So I rushed and finished.. He had some odd physical ticks as well, like noticable grinding of the teeth, easy distraction, and at times was unable to communicate clearly with what he was trying to tell me. Am I crazy? I kinda felt bad for the guy but then again I've never had an interaction like this. I'm in a unfamiliar city, in a strangers house and the guy is acting very strange. All in all, while the guy looked the part I won't be meeting him again. I could've cut the session short, maybe I should have....

Both!!!! Sometimes that lube dries up during the act and spit is just way more convenient to slick everything up again!

I'm not sure that I totally regret my decisions based on someone's advice. The mistakes have shaped the person I am today, dwelling on the past isn't always a good thing. Thinking what could have been or should have been has no bearing on what is happening today. I've had a friend recommend a job and she quit about a month after I started working there. I was a little pissed about it but my experience at that job helped me to become a better person and I made a couple of cool friends while I was there. I eventually left that position because they weren't giving me a salary I thought was worthy of my skill, even after I got a license that justified much more pay. I ran into my friend a few years later at the gym and she was telling me that the job she left for was a huge mistake and that the place closed down and left her in a situation that way more stressful than she could've imagined. So I recommended the place I work at...a federal position with amazing bennys and a pension but she never did take me up on my offer. I told her I would even guide her through the application process and suggest her for an interview with people that I know. I guess the old saying is true "You can lead a horse to water......"

I'm okay with straight as long as he full fills the fantasy and for the hour he is mine to do with as I please. He also has to convince me he's enjoying our time together, no matter how hard I'm banging him.

Thanks for doing this Rob, the new layout looks okay to me, will take some adjustment but change is always inevitable.

I know I said in a separate post that I would stay away from this guy “but that booty tho” and I noticed he was in PHX the same time I was passing thru.... I reached out to him, and we did the song and dance of deposit prior to meeting. His deposit is expensive so I told him I’d think about it. I got to PHX and noted his ad was gone.....turns out he drove to Vegas while I was driving to PHX. I can’t believe I almost considered giving a deposit to someone that knew they weren’t sticking around. Buyer beware....if it feels like a scam or if it doesn’t feel like he’s being honest, listen to that little voice and don’t do it.

I had no idea emojis had so many meanings but I got a massage a couple weeks ago and on the Venmo app left a popsicle emoji and the provider got a little weird about it. I was surprised, he then said what are trying to say? I was like, nothing...I picked it just to pick it. I should’ve said because you give a great blowjob.

I can totally understand why some providers are averse to credit or apps, however, cash is not perfect either.... Not all cash is real. I’ve seen a couple people literally get pulled to the side and have the cops called on them once the pen gets run across the bills. They literally have to call the cops and detain you. You are arrested and taken in for forgery. If you are found to have fraudulent money you answer to the federal government and your name goes into a national database. The other risk.....I’ve heard one guy get beaten with a chair and have the cash stolen. Once it’s gone....it’s gone...with a few broken bones. I’ve heard of a guy who had a gun pulled on him right after the appointment, all of his cash was taken. Some guys will tell me, “you’ll see a charge from my business on your card, for a soap shop.” I was foolish enough to ask what kind of soap he made. He grinned and said anything you want. Told me all sales are final, then gave me a wink and slapped my ass on my way out the door.

Well I’ve reached out to a few guys in the LA area. As the others have told you, it totally depends on what your looking for. As for me, I love my over muscular, rioded out bodies but if I’m about to drop some dough, I want the full fantasy. They gotta have more than a nice body, I want fo feel that sexy body inside and out. I‘ve narrowed my search to 4 guys, all of them have been good with communicating and assured me they are fully interactive. If your interested pm me....

I was thinking the same thing.....funeral home or body guard for the mafia......

I’ve been reaching out to various guys recently (I’m planning a SoCal trip) and eliminated San Diego. After the luke warm response to my inquiries, I was like, I’m not wasting my time or money going down there. It’s weird but I got a better response from the guys in the LA area so I’m spending the majority of my time there. I was going to substitute Vegas or Palm Springs for San Diego....or just spend an extra night in LA...can’t decide. My point is that communication with the providers has changed...I either get a great response or nothing or 3 days later a cryptic text when my interest has moved on. I’m only using RM....maybe I should start using Grindr but I doubt that’s any better. Am I wasting my time? I don’t think so, I’m setting up a situation in which I’m going to have some fun. If a guy can’t get back to me in decent time or doesn’t respond at all, I move on....there are too many other guys that will respond.

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I reached out to him a couple days ago....I'm planning a trip to LA. Wrote back stating he is only taking extended time for clients. I decided to pass, I can't spend the entire stimulus check to only be stimulated by one person....

This is my go to guy when I’m in Denver. https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/30316/ He has a studio that he works out of. Very good massage for a decent price.

Saw someone review this on YouTube and it looks like it may be really good. I plan on watching.