rustyrex

I had a FB that was in his 60’s. He was an ex Mormon and had a whole bunch of grown children. The sex was amazing, I was surprised at his stamina and how nasty he liked to get. I enjoyed our time together immensely. How old is too old? Depends on what you mean….but sexually….all that experience definitely has it’s perks. I still get aroused just thinking about him.

I hate the new site, I don’t need to see large ads of everyone. Just show me the grid so I can do a quick look at who I’m interested in. Give me an easy to use filter and contact info, is that too much to ask?

Last week on my way into work I was turning onto the street my job is on and saw a guy in a pick up passenger side come out of the window with a rifle pointed at a motorcyclist. I didn’t believe what I was seeing and it didn’t register until the truck turned and pulled away. The guys with the rifle looked scary..gang members..the truck was old and beat up. Even more shockingly the motorcyclist waved them off like they weren’t serious. I was telling my boss about it and she told me about how she flipped someone off and they shot her back window out when she had her kid in the back seat. It’s a crazy world out there. Stay safe and be careful.

I’ve been in some odd situations where I thought that a provider would over muscle me and rob me. That’s why I don’t carry cash. I know a lot guys are insistent with cash and payment up front but to me that’s the first red flag. If you walk into his place and smell drugs or see that is a mess that another warning. If his behavior is so odd and you notice teeth grinding or ticks…get out of there fast. It’s a shame but as things have gotten financially worse the possibility of having something happen to you is definitely increased. If something feels off, protect yourself and get out of the situation.

Been there , done that…not a big deal…next.

Thanks for advice guys, I'm glad the forum has guys like you to share experiences with.

I’m having the worst luck with playmates. Maybe it’s my expectations or the experience is starting to mess with my mind. I met up with a guy this past weekend and the first time we met….OMG…it was good….although a rocky start to the experience. That should’ve kept me away but I had went through so much trouble just to meet up. The sex was amazing, so much so he came 3 times and even hit the high notes as I wore him out. I enjoyed our time together. A couple days later he reached to see if we could meet up again. I said sure and it was still good but after he came the second time…he rested gathered his composure and threw me out. I didn’t even have a chance to climax like I wanted and ended up finishing up as he was cleaning up in the bathroom. I felt mortified and he really didn’t care. I guess I’m putting too much thought into him….there was a time that I would do my thing, climax and leave…but I wanted a little more this time. We even communicated this prior to the second meeting. He demanded the payment up front, despite meeting me before. I don’t know the warning signs were there but again driving all that way to meet up I didn’t want it to be for nothing. I think I may start sticking to a one and done policy. I’d like a regular guy but it seems like my luck just isn’t allowing such a thing…

Yeah, I gave up on softcore porn when the internet took over. Why bother unless it's a celebrity. When I was younger, I loved late night HBO and Skinemax... but most of that was female boobs and ass, rarely the men showed anything.

Thanks for the input, it all comes down to $$$$, just like everything in this world. We’ll see, gotta do something besides hearing the mattress squeak. I love nature but I also love the big city. I was also trying to factor Pride into it since I’ll be doing the first or second weekend in June. I haven’t experienced Pride in a large city.

I’m planning a trip but wonder which would be fun with regard to providers and things to do. Denver, Salt Lake City, and Las Vegas or Dallas, Austin, and Houston? I’m thinking of visiting all three cities in a road trip. Just can’t decide if I should go to Texas or the Western States. I’m driving. Hoping one area is a better value than the other. I also want hot providers. thanks!

That’s why there is a 2 drink minimum in those clubs. Make sure they are strong so your too drunk to get to the stage. There was this one show I used to watch years ago…I think it was on A&E improve or something like that….and there was this one guy who would work the room and he was merciless. Some of the patrons were amused and others wanted to jump up on stage and do a backhand to the guy. I bet they had security just for such occasions. Money and fame allow a lot to happen. It’s funny on old shows like Dynasty, someone would slap the hell out of Alexis and no one bothered to move. Seems like reality is imitating shows.

I noticed he now has a legit youtube channel where he discusses how to beat slot machines. Very sexy voice.....during one of his videos he won $1500 back to back on the same slot machine. If anything he'd be a good guy to take to the casino. He has his hands across many different pots with the porn modeling, the ad and the youtube channel, not to mention the skill at winning against slot machines. I thought about taking a drive to SLC just to see him but even then he's about 2 hours out of town. Never been to SLC and not sure I'd go just for my hobby.... When he lived in PHX he was number 1 on my list to see. Oh well....easy come easy go...

He's from my hometown, I wish I had the chance to meet him before he left. He hardly ever comes back to visit. He sounds like a really cool guy. Occasionally he co-stars on the gay porn podcast. Very nice guy.

I was lucky enough to use a bidet at Japanese themed spa. It felt like a dick was taking a warm piss on my hole! I loved it!! Plus my star fish was squeaky clean!!

I used to collect watches, and have lusted after a Rolex for years. After my collection of watches got stolen, I have stuck to wearing my Apple Watch. I still want a Rolex…

Since I have started getting massage the communication has gotten worse and the price has gone up. I’m not blaming anyone but nowadays anyone can post an ad, put up some scantily clad pics or pics from the glory days, a fake pic of a massage studio and say anything they can to get your business. It happens every single day. Since everything is getting more expensive I’m most likely going to stop getting massages or going to reasonably priced people male or female. I prefer extra in my sessions but I’ve been getting burned too many times. The last guys place was filthy, his pics were outdated and he lied about his skill, he made an offer but after getting dog hair all over me I declined. The term of sensual and erotic are vague because people can say almost anything. Someone told me the sensual aspect of their massage was using a peacock feather during the massage to tickle my feet. One guy started playing games with me and told me he couldn’t elaborate. I didn’t pursue his business further. I hate playing games with guys, if I wanted that kind of back and forth I’d be on scruff. Like I said things are getting expensive, gas, food, and bills come before massages.

I’ve been having the worst luck with hires….yesterday I drove an hour out of the way to get a massage. No promise from the ad of anything extra but there were a couple things I wished he would have told me. The first thing is that there would be a dog….a pit bull…accompanying the massage. I have a fear of dogs like pit bulls….I was bitten as a young child..but to not mention something like that kinda put me off right away. The dog was whining the entire massage and immediately went for my crotch when I came to the door, which kinda freaked me out. I guess he knew I was horny as fuck… The other thing was that the guy was quite a bit older than the pics led on. I really don’t like it when someone does that. At least the face looked the same but some guys don’t even look anything like the guy in the picture. I wish guys were also more honest about their skill. I’ve had enough massages that I know a pro from someone who does the massage as a hobby. Aside from lying on an old painful massage table in his dirty living room, I’m thinking this was the worst birthday weekend ever! Every guy I hired was a dud….I may as well have taken the money and set it on fire.

I got up early and went to Costco. I figure I better use the membership that I pay for. I hardly go to Costco but since things are getting expensive I go in on a regular basis now.

AARRGH!!! I got flaked on again from a provider!!! I’m having the worst luck with finding dependable providers. It’s like this year is looking bleak to even get someone dependable to meet. It’s my birthday weekend and figured I’d give myself a gift that I always enjoy, some good company. Unfortunately the massage was strictly a massage (which really disappointed me) despite our history of doing extra, the rent guy cancelled on me a couple hours before we were to meet up and the other guys I’ve contacted aren’t responding or are playing games with me and one wanted an obscene amount of money for 1 hour of time. I don’t get it….is this the new normal? I was going to travel to another city (Phoenix) but my budget is a little constrained…and it’s too pricey to stay in a decent hotel in a decent part of town. I’m totally bummed out. Sigh…..maybe I’ll have better luck with the ladies?

Hey All, I’m looking to do a little traveling and I’m having the damndest time deciding where to go. Denver, Phoenix or Tucson. Denver has the best hotel prices but it’s still cold there and Phoenix and Tucson have the nice weather but the hotel prices are ridiculous. I really want some nice weather for a change…along with some good company…but I cringe at paying $130 for Motel 6. I hate to sound picky but I tend to stay mid tier places like Marriott and Hilton and in Denver the hotels are reasonable. That same type of hotel in AZ is $230 for 1 night. I like hotels over airB&B just because a hotel can’t cancel on me or give me last minute issues like surprise roommates, it’s happened before…. Any recommendations or ideas? My limit on a hotel is $150 a night.

He came thru town last year and I reached out but one of his rules is a deal breaker for me so I passed.

I use the AMEX Gold Delta card, which is hardly worth the fee but AMEX has the best customer service hands down! I’m trying to do the Chase Trifecta. You can get a lot of points by using a mixture of cards and use the points for airlines, hotels and rental cars. The idea is to get an obscene amount of points so you can basically travel for the cost of tax on the ticket. If you can gain points by using a fee free credit card, your practically gaming the system. I use credit for everything just so I get the points. Is it worth it….hell yes….I’ve had enough to buy a ticket and upgrade to first class a couple of times. In some cases Chase offers a better deal on the same hotel room or plane ticket than the actual company.

If a provider were offering that to me, I’d tell him, “you just got yourself a new regular!” Once a month minimum.

My regular guy is starting to flake on me regularly and the extra perk has been rescinded due to him having a boyfriend. Although I’m bummed about that (no playtime post massage) I understand. So I’ve started trying out other guys, seems like the going rate has increased quite a bit but times are different now so I accept that. So a couple days ago I went to a new provider. He’s a bit more expensive ($160) but I figured what the hell. I set up an appointment and tried him out. His technique was more of an Asian style, which is okay, but it was totally intense. I was sore and worn out. At one time during the massage he put his hand around my throat like he was strangling me. Not really my thing but I’m open….. At one point during the massage he said almost like a prayer “let all intentions on the table be known.” I thought, cool maybe I’ll be getting extra at the end. I don’t start grabbing my providers or talking dirty unless they physically make the first move. Don’t get me wrong, the massage was good…although I don’t think he’s licensed but I was hurting afterwards. He left the room and I took about 10 minutes to get off the table to recover from the massage. Most guys think that my musculature requires deep tissue and sometimes they leave bruises on me. I didn’t get the happy ending…he kept bringing up his partner during the session…so I didn’t pursue… but fuck….my balls were blue when I left. The session was 90 minutes. Will I go back? Probably not, I think he saw my disappointment when I left. Am I crazy? Ads on masseurfinder are so ambiguous. If you check rentmassuer you see the same ad with a little more info but this guy only advertises on masseurfinder….. Oh well

I know I'll get some heat for this one but I never saw the fascination with Channing Tatum. Magic Mike was a good movie but when you put Channing next to Joe.....really....there is no comparison. Don't get me wrong...Channing has a cuteness to him but when he was made to be People's sexiest man alive I didn't understand why. He just looks average, Joe on the other hand is strikingly good looking. If Channing walks into a room I wouldn't do a backwards glance, but if Joe walked into a room.....damn.....