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A couple of my faves.... "you can lead a horse to water but you can't make him drink" "would you jump off a bridge if everyone else did" "Don't look a gift horse in the mouth" "your smiling because your guilty" "what kind of shit excuse is that?" "your lying because your sister ratted you out" "'This ain't a damn restaurant, eat what I make you" "I can't wait till you turn 18!" Ah the good old days, I had some one liners for them too, being a teenager was hoot.

$50, it was a holiday scratcher, a nice surprise...

I usually keep it to a very simple text. One sentence that’s to the point. If I don’t get a response, unless I’m really hot for that guy, I don’t send a second text. I have one guy that a sent a text to that’s coming through town….muscular and hot as hell. He didn’t respond, no problem, there are other guys to ask or save my money for. I’m not trying to entice, this is not a date. This is for an uncomplicated meet up with someone I find attractive enough to spend money on, nothing more, nothing less. Respect goes both ways, if they don’t respond; better to know how they are in that moment than to waste money and find out in the session.

When a couple stops trending…..it’s time to move on.

Drove to LA this year, the furthest I’ve gone for some play dates. Didn’t realize how expensive it was going to be (nickeled and dimed for everything from parking to shopping bags) but would totally do it again. I did quite a few free things to make up for the other expenses. In that time one of my providers introduced me to the sling….and I enjoyed the hell out of it.

Funny, I used to draw. I started doodling again last night. Better than a stick figure but far from real life portraits. The goal is to create a life like drawing of a gorgeous naked man that would be worthy of hanging in a museum...or an erotic book cover.

The innocence of being new to the gay lifestyle (once the innocence is gone....) Going dancing in an actual gay bar/club (the gay cowboy bar was my hangout) Letting a total stranger talk me into hooking up in his car after a drink Life before social media, this is the extent of social media I do....Facebook is evil Gas below $2 Yesteryear gay porn stars (Billy Herrington, Rico Dulce, etc)

Yes, but only if I could be guaranteed great sex every single time. I better be quivering and shaking with bliss.

Had this happen before, but went ahead with anyway. I made sure I was extra rough during the encounter to make a point that I didn’t appreciate the deception. 😈

Today I was turned down by a massage therapist that I had frequented on occasion...permanently. No real explanation why, just that he was semi-retired and that he no longer wished to see me again. To give you a little background, I have been his client for about 4 years on and off, always with something extra special at the end. He has always been paid and I have always respected him, his practice and his home. I'm totally baffled by this because I feel like we had a rapport with each other and I felt that we connected because we did chat at the end each session and we even know the same people. I attempted to ask why, but he has blocked me. I know there are other therapist out there, and believe me I intend to replace him, I just wonder.....have any of you had the same experience?

There is a porn model in town and quoted $350. I can see why but I can't justify that kind of money for 1 hour. $300 is the limit, no matter who the guy is. I paid more for a guy that was very considerate and bought me a drink from Starbucks on his way to my place. Very sweet of him, so I gave him extra for being thoughtful.

Unless they are asking to hook up for free, which rarely happens, they need money. Nothing to be flattered about….

Yeah I saw this and figured he’s doing some fundraising, must need the cash bad enough. He has already done reshoots of the same picture through the years and there is video of him being okay with being the iconic cover of an album that changed the fundamentals of rock and roll. I always thought the pic was interpreted to be that we are all chasing the dollar the moment we are born. There are worse album covers that do exploit others…most of the time it’s women. To Live Crews album cover was totally a sexual. We’ll see what happens. In court justice is served only if you have enough money to afford it and an attorney that is brilliant/conniving.

Another one bites the dust. Although I am surprised by the idea that they are moving away from adult content, I'm sure there will be another service waiting in the wings to pick up the pieces. Money has a way of making things more complicated, especially when large sums of money are earned from what is deemed questionable means. They better not take my RM away....not until it goes dark web.

As Connected as I want to be. I work in a field that has more than enough gay people that I interact with on a daily basis. Everyday is Pride!!!! As for the bars, clubs and neighborhoods, there are all basically gone. Being gay is just that….being gay. It’s easier to live your life than it was when I first came out and honestly it’s a breath of fresh air. Hopefully that won’t change. I do think the rise of social media and the cell phone has drastically changed the way we interact with each other, not necessarily for the better.

I really like this show, I discovered it last year while on lockdown. It’s a shame that it hasn’t been renewed for another season to at least give a satisfying conclusion.

I saw that pic and instantly wondered what it would look like from the other side with him totally naked. He’s so flexible and limber…..

I enjoyed it a lot. The "boy hole" as they refer to it does feel different than an ass. It's naturally wet and if they are into the session it gets a little messy. If your curious by all means go for it. You only live once in this life and for me I don't want to have to wonder "if only I had..."

Indeed, the end of an era....but no real explanation given as to why. I don't really visit the site anymore because stuff just started to decline. It seems as though unless a site can reinvent itself or stay up to date, it will eventually fade away.

OMG that video totally brought me back to The First Wives Club.

I do care, but let's be real, not everyone is being honest. Anytime you do this hobby you do so with the understanding that it is at your own risk.

When I was going out it was budlight...not for the taste but because it was cheap and I could get a guy to buy me drink pretty easy. The video...meh...the guy is cute but lets be real....that bitch ain't no total top like he's advertising.

Met him before the pandemic, very nice guy. PM for details.

I love Asstrailia.

I have a buddy who does readings for me. I call him a jack of all trades... I met him years ago, I'm his massage client...and let's just say when I see him I get the extra special treatment. Until I met him I never really put stock in the idea that people could tell me my future or my past. I just reconnected with him (Covid) and he told me that he primarily does tarot readings as a form of income and rarely does massage...but for me he'll do massage. Before he did tarot, we would finish the massage, have some fun and then he would go into a reading. The first time he did it, I was shocked at his accuracy. I don't really talk about myself but there were certain details about my life that he nailed. This last time that I met him...we did the massage, the fun and then he brought out the cards. He has 3 decks and shuffled them before me and started the reading. It was surreal...he would ask me a question and I would answer and while I answered he would flip the cards. The same cards would pop up every single time and then he would go into detail about what the cards were saying. It was very accurate and then just to be sure he would shuffle and flip the cards again. The same cards would come up again and again...he said the energy is giving this answer for some reason. Then he asks me more questions and the cards get flipped more and it's like they are telling me what's happened and what will come next. It's insane.....almost scary. The other thing that my buddy does a little more amazing. On occasion I've had aches and pains that don't seem to go away and without saying anything to him..during the massage he will stop and linger on the part of my body that hurts. One time I had overdone it at the gym and my left shoulder was in so much pain. He stopped at my left shoulder and just held it in his hands. He then started shaking and the next thing I knew the pain was gone. I wouldn't have believed that something like that could happen but it did. It's like there is an energy that he posses because no one...out of all of the massages I've ever had....does that. I asked him last time I saw him, how did he know and he told me that it's an energy that sends a signal to him. He is truly an amazing man!