Kody S

Again what others have said... but whatever happens (or doesn’t happen) don’t take it personally. There are a gazillion and six reasons why a masseur would suggest a sensual massage only for it to turn out therapeutic and sometimes even badly at that. Everything from the masseur having a boyfriend who doesn’t like his partner engaging in forms of intimacy (or body contact) with another (even if it relates to the work of massage)... to the masseur just having a bad day. I have known of multiple masseurs who (back in the day) advertised as erotic and it was everything but that... and those who were « therapeutic only » and it was not that at all. You really never know why... not exactly. And so much depends « in the moment. » What actually frustrates me more is when a masseur advertises as therapeutic, but then strips down and massages nude but doesn’t allow for any mutual touch or even that electric « brush » by of the body. Nothing. I mean what’s the point of being naked? Better off going to the mall or airport and getting one of those chair massages where you are nearly mauled to death and everyone keeps their clothes on. Sigh. But yes. As others have said... clarify up front... or... hang on for the ride and see what happens.

Hey! I’m looking for the best ways to do research on new masseurs I want to hire. Asking for 411 on this site is probably the best and most reliable way. But for someone no one had tried yet what are ways you do your homework? There is googling the phone number or reverse image search but what about other ways? Some of you are really good at this. I want to get better. Thanks! Kody S

Pasha is my go to... amazing.

As a client skill (in addition to the above) using good manners, showing respect for them, and treating them well like you are genuinely glad to see them, welcoming their touch, and knowing how and when to touch them (should they invite that) goes a long way also...in my experience

Hey Guys: has anyone tried Juan? He travels quite a bit it seems and he is coming through my city. https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/28264/ Thanks Kody S

+1

For Houston Recs, I have these experiences to share Daniel: he is a super nice guy but only massages your back side (weird). Had a friend who saw him and it was the same thing. https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/30466/ Josh: a great experience. Good skills and connects really well you with a wide range of touch and contact. Reads your body well and a super sweet guy. https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/32263/ Ryan: for strictly therapeutic, Ryan is the best in Houston. I’ve had several exceptional massages from him. He is a bit tricky to book because of his other work but totally worth it. https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/489/ Any others feel free to PM me.

@Midtownm4m @HungBill I had a very bad experience with Manny a while ago. Similar to yours. When I refused the upsell, it turned really weird and I couldn’t wait to get out. As you said « comically bad ».

He is coming back my way and I’ve already rebooked with him.

Marco: I had a great massage experience with him a few months ago. I know others have suggested his massage was perhaps not the best, but in my experience his masssge was quite good and it went the full 90min, good pressure, thorough, and nice experience. I would repeat.

Stelly is great. Consistently good in my experience.

Hey... try Pasha. I have had consistently great experiences with him with what you are looking for. For me, he is gives a massage that is worth the money. https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/6076/

Are you talking about the Brad that lived up in Inwood/Manhattan?

In my experience, the very best masseurs I’ve had who travel use a table. The others who use the bed are a mixed bag. Having said that, the two worst experiences I’ve ever had have been on tables with guys who don’t travel at all. So there you go... lol.

While rare, I’ve had the following happen: A masseur stopped after 40 minutes of a 90 minute session saying he was tired and then proceeded to talk my ear off about this that and the other thing. I paid for 40 min and left. A masseur stopped at 50min of a 90min session saying he really needed to pack up and get on the road. Charged me only for 50min which was ok but sort of a weird situation.

For me, it is frustrating and unprofessional when your masseur doesn’t give you the time paid for. If the fee is $100/hour then you should get the hour. How that hour is structured may vary but that is up to you and the masseur to negotiate or at least be informed about. The very best massage experiences I’ve had include the full time paid for, an excellent massage experience, and no sense of being rushed. Good masseurs who know what they are doing can manage time and client expectations quite skillfully. But granted... things happen, people have bad days, and sometimes sessions need to end early for different reasons.

Wish I had known about Philip...

Yes! Scott was my go to guy when he used to live in NYC (prior to Boston). Saw him regularly. Fantastic deep tissue massage (therapeutic only) and a super nice guy! I highly recommend him.

Another one that is counting on clients being attracted to his physique. Too many out there like that...or maybe it’s a ymmv situation?

That is very unprofessional... to be on the phone (or doing anything else) while massaging.

Also try Josh... he’s quite good. https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/32263/

PM if you want and I can give you some thoughts on Dallas (which I’m not far from) and yes, a group that has changed over recent years.

I totally get what you are saying (doesn’t sound stupid at all

@BigNoiseDallas @fm0322 I hear you. It has happened to me and it can be disappointing. But in reality there are gazilions of reasons. One masseur who I had sort of become friendly with got into a relationship and had to stop and went off the grid for a year or so, others have family issues or job issues, who knows. It’s probably rarely ever about he clients. Plus it’s easy for clients to get more attached to the masseur than the masseur to the client. They see many a day / a week, and we see them in a more focused way. It’s an interesting dynamic actually. But again who knows the reasons? Best to move on.