Kody S

He is totally my type so if anyone has any experience.... thanks in advance

Red flags all around...@ldcr thanks for the thread as that helps a lot.

Definitely want to wrap this one up and take him home with me...so +1

Wow what a cutie. Let me know what you find out.

Probably quite a few...

Not about Martin Slovakia... but another guy that I had a very bizarre interchange with ( and shame on me for not checking with this forum first)... when he came through town (and I don’t even remember his name now) I texted to book. He then called me by mistake thinking he was calling his boyfriend with whom he has in the process of breaking up. He was drunk and didn’t realize he was talking to a prospective client. It was sad because when he realized he made a mistake he was very embarrassed. I told him it was ok.. stuff like this happens. He then started crying and wanting help.... and it goes from there. I listened for a bit and then he eventually hung up. Needless to say, I did not book a massage. Didn’t want to have to provide a counseling session.

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Anybody?

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Completely agree on privacy considerations.

Yep

Add me to the list...

PM me for details. I saw him a couple of years ago. He was quite different then and for the same $$ did quite a bit more. But then he fell off the radar and re-emerged as what we see now. He is a nice guy.... but waaaayy to high a price for just an B grade Massage.

Anyone have experience with Jay in LA? https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/26901/

Completely agree. A true sensual connecting massage is glorious and doesn’t involve h/ e but few understand that it have experience with it.

Again what others have said... but whatever happens (or doesn’t happen) don’t take it personally. There are a gazillion and six reasons why a masseur would suggest a sensual massage only for it to turn out therapeutic and sometimes even badly at that. Everything from the masseur having a boyfriend who doesn’t like his partner engaging in forms of intimacy (or body contact) with another (even if it relates to the work of massage)... to the masseur just having a bad day. I have known of multiple masseurs who (back in the day) advertised as erotic and it was everything but that... and those who were « therapeutic only » and it was not that at all. You really never know why... not exactly. And so much depends « in the moment. » What actually frustrates me more is when a masseur advertises as therapeutic, but then strips down and massages nude but doesn’t allow for any mutual touch or even that electric « brush » by of the body. Nothing. I mean what’s the point of being naked? Better off going to the mall or airport and getting one of those chair massages where you are nearly mauled to death and everyone keeps their clothes on. Sigh. But yes. As others have said... clarify up front... or... hang on for the ride and see what happens.

Hey! I’m looking for the best ways to do research on new masseurs I want to hire. Asking for 411 on this site is probably the best and most reliable way. But for someone no one had tried yet what are ways you do your homework? There is googling the phone number or reverse image search but what about other ways? Some of you are really good at this. I want to get better. Thanks! Kody S

Pasha is my go to... amazing.

As a client skill (in addition to the above) using good manners, showing respect for them, and treating them well like you are genuinely glad to see them, welcoming their touch, and knowing how and when to touch them (should they invite that) goes a long way also...in my experience

Hey Guys: has anyone tried Juan? He travels quite a bit it seems and he is coming through my city. https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/28264/ Thanks Kody S

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For Houston Recs, I have these experiences to share Daniel: he is a super nice guy but only massages your back side (weird). Had a friend who saw him and it was the same thing. https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/30466/ Josh: a great experience. Good skills and connects really well you with a wide range of touch and contact. Reads your body well and a super sweet guy. https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/32263/ Ryan: for strictly therapeutic, Ryan is the best in Houston. I’ve had several exceptional massages from him. He is a bit tricky to book because of his other work but totally worth it. https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/489/ Any others feel free to PM me.

@Midtownm4m @HungBill I had a very bad experience with Manny a while ago. Similar to yours. When I refused the upsell, it turned really weird and I couldn’t wait to get out. As you said « comically bad ».

He is coming back my way and I’ve already rebooked with him.