MrMattBig

Nothing is ever so clear cut. Outside can possibly and most likely be less of a risk, still depending on spacing. What about public restroom use, handrail use for stairs, promoting carefree behavior to share/trade beverages, supplies, etc.

Sorry about those instances then

From an escort advertising aspect, it just opening the door to say I am open to and not discriminate against xyz...to be blunt i shit piss and puke on people several times throughout the year, that is the extreme end of the wild and pig part for me....if speaking about an escort speaking about wild or being a pig....treat that as an open door for whatever level of kinkiness you are looking for, but don't assume one way or another.

I myself prefer to not discuss details beforehand...especially if specific such as "will YOU be able to top ME and feed ME YOUR cum?" Describing yourself/your interests will go a long way at the initial contact " Hi, total bottom here looking for a top that will go gently/hard and feed me their cum towards the end. If you think we would be a good match to meet, let me know your availability, etc"... The first part I am responding with "I am sure you will leave our time completely satisfied" as to not be overly incriminating

I think it was someone else as well who talked about oral stimulation of as escort to make them cum...keep in mind everyones sensitivity levels are different...I rarely cum from oral...even if its very good I am more likely to thrash around for eternity before cumming, but if i can control the sensations by intercourse or jacking off I can definitely bring myself to the edge and let a mouth finish the job:) As far as charging extra...thats a semi complicated discussion and psychology to marketing...because yes, if an escort cums, that lessens our abilty to perform adequately with someone else or take another appointment in general, so compensation may be asked for in essense by upcharging...."service" oriented providers are more likely to upcharge..."experience" oriented providers will be less likely to upcharge

I generally agree and frequently call out "pulling a “you, on “you” myself, but as sex workers our job is not just bjs penetration and getting off...but providing a level of comfortability and being non-judgmental. Additionally, if escorts are going to pick and choose who they take as clients...they should indicate that in their profile to be as upfront as possible.

IF I can get away with saving it and still leaving my partner satisfied I will, that way it builds up for the next person, if you happen to be that next person I am cumming twice probably:p For me at least it boils down to not if I can (I never schedule appointments if I wouldnt be able to) or want to (I always want to btw) but how much fluid I have in the tank or need in the tank for later.

just state your preferences/what you are looking for when first contacting, but keep in general terms for legality. Example: Im looking to bottom and cum while swallowing a nice thick load... Post orgasm blues may come into play so if a client cums before me, I let their body language usually speak for itself whether they still want me to cum afterwards....as a side note this is why I stress booking in advance...sometimes I feel I annoy clients actually for wanting to cum multiple times myself before I leave lol!

@Daverwr sorry it didnt turn out how you would have liked:(

Keep in mind this person set a day/time/location...reconfirmed the day before...then the morning of deleted their RM profile and blocked me from the email that they sent this from... As for the role play, I'll be as detailed as humanly possible here so I don't have to be when we meet. I have a terrible time conveying exactly what I want in person. My nerves and excitement get the best of me and I don't want to leave anything out. I also want you to be comfortable and capable of what I'm asking for and totally aware of what I want. Ideally I'd like to cover all the details prior to meeting so we can get started shortly after my arrival. When I arrive, I will change into panties, put on a blindfold and I will need you to tie my hands together. I'll leave it up to you whether you want them tied behind my back or in front of me but I do want my arms restrained to start. Then I'd like you to guide me to the bathroom, put me on my knees, turn off the lights, leave and shut the door. Make me wait for 5-10 minutes... as long as you think is necessary. I like to build the anticipation and agonize about not knowing what awaits me or how bad it will be. ------------------------------ The Role Play: I am a beloved and high ranking enemy officer with the East army and was recently captured during a battle between our factions. I am being held hostage in a remote location as a prisoner of war. After my initial interrogation by your intel team, they have concluded that I likely have critical information but it will be extremely difficult to extract. Considering I'm a such high ranking officer, your commanding general has decided to take a different approach with me regarding my interrogation. An technique that has never been used before but could possibly force me to give up any pertinent information regarding the East and will certainly destroy the morale of my men. The general's plan is to have one of his top tier and most aggressive soldiers enter my interrogation room and torture me by brutally fucking my throat with zero remorse. In the most aggressive, degrading, humiliating and demoralizing way possible. Such treatment may force me to divulge any info I have and the interrogation/torture will be recorded on video and uploaded to the internet to be used as propaganda for both of the East and West armies to see. He's betting that when the soldiers of the East see their most beloved and fearless leader restrained, in panties, in his most vulnerable state being throat fucked into submission by the enemy and left gasping for air in a pile of spit and cum, it will completely destroy their moral. He also knows that such will vastly improve the moral of the west and possibly lead them to total victory over the East. Your unit has set up multiple video cameras in my interrogation room (we won't actually be recording anything), they have blind folded me, restrained my hands and stripped me down to panties. Your general has ordered you to carry out the torture/interrogation session. You are an exceptional soldier, known for your aggression, brutality and absolute willingness to help the West in any way possible. He also was made aware that you have the tool and mentality to efficiently complete this mission. My interrogation time has been set and I have no idea what awaits me. I have been in the interrogation room alone for hours, in the dark, blind folded, restrained and on my knees. You receive the order to proceed with the mission. Shortly after you get the green light, you barge into interrogation room and carry out your mission. ------------------------------ Given the nature of this role play, I really want this to feel like pure torture. I absolutely love getting my throat fucked. Everything about it, the tears, gagging, spit, choking, air deprivation and the submission aspect. I want it hard, fast and relentless. I may not seem like I'm enjoying myself during and I may fight back a little. Don't let that slow you down... I love it rough and it fits this role play perfectly. I don't want anything to feel scripted, you're in control and I will submit. I love not knowing what's coming and want no chances for breaks or to get comfortable. Like I said, pure torture. Feel free to call me names and I love heavy verbal abuse and humiliation but kept within the realm of the role play. All I ask is that you stay in character until we are finished. Here is a list of what I'm into and NOT into: What I'm into: Not knowing what's next Spanking (DON"T LEAVE MARKS) Whips (DON"T LEAVE MARKS) Extreme verbal abuse & yelling Humiliation Choking with your hands and cock Big dildos being forced down my throat - if you're into it Extreme gagging Air deprivation Light slapping (DON"T LEAVE MARKS) Hair pulling Forced into different positions (every position possible... I want all of them) Spit Thrown around and manhandled Sucking balls and taint Cock rings My head and hair being used as leverage for deeper and faster fucking Not letting up even when I struggle I'll rim if you want but it's honestly not my favorite thing to do NOT Into: Anything penetrating my butt Safe word is RED In closing, I apologize for the long email but I appreciate you taking the time to read through it. I just wanted to get everything on the table. If this is something you don't think works for you, please tell me.

On an admittedly somewhat limited view and knowledge on credit...credit is soooo annoying. How is it that in California I had to pay an apartment deposit of 1.5 times the rent, but in Vegas I just qualified to pay half the listed deposit amount...all on similar credit scores??

In terms of asking questions, I like when a client tells me what they are looking for, so in phrasing from the client " I am into/looking for xyz..." Preferred over from the client "what are into? Are you xyz?..." I am supposed to show you a good time so it's better that I know more from what you are looking for instead of just asking what I like. Additionally, in theme of the time waster subject of this thread some inquiring clients ask negatively affirming questions or use the omission for an interest by just forgetting to mention it as a disqualification. For example, some ask if I pnp, not because they are looking for it but because if you say yes it's a deal breaker...or asking if I bottom...not because they are looking for that but because they don't want someone who is willing to bottom and really want a top...or asking what I'm into and I'll list top, bottom, kissing, oral...a d they reply back "oh I was looking for rimming too, sorry I'm gonna pass" even tho I am into rimming as long as everything is clean. Keep asking questions, but don't be afraid to describe yourself out there too!

Most likely the OP is right about them being the same person. Similar things have happened to me. The actions tho are typical of providers over reacting and jumping to conclusions. I would have asked "hey did we talk earlier? From your description you sound like someone I already talked to and set an appointment with" I would try and confirm first, or if for certain based off exact wording and punctuation, cancel the appointment with the first for obvious game playing. Maybe it's just me, but with game playing inquiries I like to call them out so they don't flood my phone with another number, then another...

If you met with him and confirmed they were photoshopped in person I apologise. But the pics look to me like they are edited and filtered with whatever methods used (color saturation, theme filters, smoothing, sharpness, contrast, etc) Photoshopped implies false, fake, physically altered to specifically add, remove, augment, or reduce.

I actually had an instance where a client scammed/stiffed me out of $2,000. A short time after in small talk with a regular who is a lawyer after a session, I asked him for advice and if I could try and make a case in court. Because of the specific dynamics of the meeting and messages and how I explained and argued my case to him, he actually said I could have a case for small claims, that would't implicate prostitution specifically or directly. But still because of the obvious nature, he said good luck getting the small claims court judge to rule in my favor. So I didn't proceed.

You may not like to hear this, but bad and ignorant escorts already speak out about clients online behind there back. I personally, have had to add comments on the Mr. Number app (type of caller id app) disputing negative claims/comments left about a number/client several times. At least if some version existed here, it could be monitored by trusted admins and monitors. Oh, and @Frankly11 needs to crawl back in the hole he came from. Sorry not sorry.

Havent read all the posts here yet...but it will be opposed so hard it will never happen...and for reasons rightfully so. However, this is where character limiting is beneficial...and it could be a sub thread on here, and monitored by the admins here, with the advantage of potential rebuttals, just the the review site for escorts Example: Title: Chicago 6/1/2020 warning 312-xxx-5555 Called on phone asking for pictures, sent one then asked when he is available to meet and never got a response back. Game player and pic collector. To be clear, clients should be entitled to complete discretion and anonymity. That is also a 2 way street. Insistence on electronic payments via Zelle instead of Venmo or Cashapp where you can protect identity...infringes on escorts privacy Insistence on address often before setting a time, and in often cases never showing up anyway...puts escorts in the lines of stalkers or worse. Not willing to travel without apartment number/room number of escort...same as above There are so many instances where escorts encounter frequently, situations and behaviors of those that contact us, that put our discretion and identity in vulnerable circumstances as well.

Very true, that part skipped my mind. There's always morning or afternoon to meet, or even hunker down before curfew and spend all night together;). As long as crowds are gathering too, navigating directions/time of travel/distance will probably be the biggest deterrent to hooking up/hiring even before curfew hours take effect. But I think the desire itself will both lessen and rise and overall stay balanced.

It will vary. People will either feel too numb to think of intimacy and sex, too busy with many other things to make time for it, or have their financials too impacted to partake, or on the flip side be in desperate need of catharsis and an escape and be seeking to hire someone for that.

Because of the structure of RM, the way to get more views of your ad is to make yourself 'available' to push your ad towards the top. Additionally, way, way, way more times than not, when a client inquires 'are you available' , two things usually happen. Either by time the logistics are worked out multiple hours have passed, or the inquiring client is 'at work' and will be available when they get out. So, escorts, whether consciously or unconsciously, get conditioned to advertise 'now' and expect those meetings to end up happening later. Also, depending on the dynamic (whether cleaning out, getting to an outcall, various special requests) rushing to be ready can occur, and no one likes to be rushed. Also, we are human, sometimes it's nice to slowly get ready, watch some porn, get turned on by the anticipation of everything. And by waiting till the moment of, you also run the risk that another client like yourself beat you to it (never fails especially when I travel, I have to tell someone I am no longer available because someone else messaged 20 minutes before.) Also with travelers, to maintain traveling, we have to develop the sense that the trip makes sense, which means putting appointments on the books beforehand. And with the basic human action of eating. I have told inquiring clients that I will be available later, specifically because I just ate a meal and don't want to give a subpar experience because I am full or bloated. I do not think there is anything wrong with same day appointments in general. And some escorts will be only for or against them based on their preferences, experiences, and mentality on scheduling. I always prefer to put a day in blocks: inquire in the morning for an afternoon appointment, inquire in afternoon for evening, and try to inquire at least 2 hours in advance.

Reminded me of high school antics where a girl in my class would goof around trying to hit that high note. This song in hign school a few of us joined in singing for a prom-posal within our group. Thanks for reminding me of a moment that made me chuckle today

From the MGM website shows are cancelled through June 30th. I would imagine though that that date might be pushed back a few weeks minimum, because the next 2 weeks will probably be used to monitor how the initial versions of reopening will pan out, and then another few weeks for planning, coordination, and notification.