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In the 1960's & 70's men wearing their hair longer distressed some elements of society. Tastes change. I much prefer the look of Jim Bentley, Kurt Marshall and Jeff Quinn in the porn of the 80's than today's popular models. So what? As is the case with popular music and movies, I recognize that my demographic group isn't driving the market. I have no interest in getting a tattoo but have had way too much fun with tattooed guys to turn away from them. C'est la vie

Your experience keroscenefire is exactly what I want to avoid. There have been some recent new ads and I am concerned that they don't or won't know how to deliver.

What is worse: 1. When an escort shaves a few years off his age and posts dated photos; or 2. When we shave a few years off our age for grndr or scruff?

Thank you for your responses

Recently, a visiting (Boston) provider quoted me 400 for an hour. He looked good and had good RM reviews but there were none on Daddy's and limited discussion here. Soon after a new guy with no record (no reviews, no discussion, new ad) quoted 300. If the first has a special niche and it works good for him but I'm not going there. The second is too much on a dare, he'd have to have good reports. Boston isn't a cheap city but hotel rates are presently way down. There are good providers in the area who charge less and offer what I'll call frequent flyer rates. (Hush!) Does anyone mind reporting rates quoted and the locations? Thanks

Heed David1024's hint! Hire an attorney. Not someone off a billboard. Find out, probably from a realtor, the name of an attorney or 2 who represent buyers and sellers in the area of your home. They know the issues, the language, the contractors, and the players. If you get a mortgage the closing attorney works for the lender not you. Protect your investment and your mental health!

Yeahman, I encourage you and other forum members to have a physician with whom you can be candid about your sex practices and who is culturally and medically current on gay health issues. It may be more challenging in rural areas and places with smaller gay populations but it matters. I am a bit more adventurous when traveling. It helps to be able to tell your doc what you did (baths, cruising areas, sex parties, and of course rentboys!) so he can advise you on STD tests, whether to get hep vaccines, etc.

My experience is similar to Sam. My MD explained 2-1-1 but I don't always plan ahead. Pre-COVID if I heard from a Scruff hookup or FB on short notice I was ready to go with daily. I stopped completely for a long time during the lockdown and will again if there's another outbreak. I don't take any other meds and have experienced no side effects with prep. Having lived through the HIV crisis I recognize the irony of being more worried about COVID than HIV.

I met nice guy at the beach in Provincetown this summer. It was a weekday and not crowded. After a few nods and smiles he moved his blanket near me and we chatted away. He was about 30, average build with a nice full beard. I'm 50, slim, 140 pounds and 5'10". (Hung BTW) At one point after telling me how much he enjoyed talking he said, "I wish you were more of a Daddy type, I could get into you." I asked what he meant (although I think I knew) and he replied bigger and hairier. Can one be a a trim smooth Daddy? Is it more than age?

I get the New York Times daily. It has been frustrating to remain a print subscriber in recent months because of frequent delivery issues. If I end up a digital subscriber it will be a result of exacerbation. While the reporters and folks who run the presses are unionized, newspapers have contracted out delivery and it pays poorly.

Don't worry about it Lchnsf. No one considers him a genius!

I met him 2 or 3 years ago. He looked very good and was smart and personable. His endowment and stamina were impressive. I doubt he's fallen apart since our meeting and I wouldn't hesitate if he passes through here again.

Bump. In Boston now with no RM reviews

They posted the review without receiving my tel #. I got an email confirmation. I'm getting too many robocalls on my cell lately.

I just submitted a review to RM. It asked for a phone # to send verification. Is this new? I deferred. They have my email address. Am I paranoid to demur?

Lots of good advice. Thanks everyone

Took a chance on an unknown and hit the jackpot! Highly recommend

This has been discussed before. Daddy's had to make adjustments to survive and it has been explained. Even if it doesn't offer explicit detail a review can help us clients avoid fakes and learn who is reliable. Rentboy is gone and Daddy is still here!

DmitriGXXX anyone have any experience?

Piss play depends heavily on the participants. I think it's a lot to ask of an escort who's not into it. Some years ago I was playing at a bathhouse with an escort who is still popular on this site. He's a take charge guy and at one point stopped and said, "Let's hit the showers." He told me to kneel down and pissed all over me in the crowded showers. It was a massive turn-on. We had a small crowd follow us back to our room. A lot of hot guys just couldn't pull it off. I've seen Michael Lucas look sexy peeing in his videos while other guys do not.

I will soon be visiting a friend's beach house and have arranged to meet up with an escort while there. Unlike a hotel room with maid service, or my place where I can change the sheets, I am concerned about getting lube, cum (hopefully nothing worse) on his sheets. I don't know that I can discretely wash them. Aside from a big towel on the bed, does anyone have any techniques that can help me be a good guest and keep things reasonably clean? Thanks

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This thread reminds me of what I guess were the old days. It must have been common practice for many members here. I traveled often for business in the late 80's and 90's. After checking in to my hotel I would take a walk to the gay neighborhood if there was one and find the local gay paper. It had ads for bars and they helped one figure out which was a neighborhood bar, leather, dance, etc. It also let one know what special events were taking place on certain nights of the week. Importantly, the back section contained personal ads followed by "massage ads." I suspect there are very few local rags that have survived. Kudos to South Florida's Hot Spots for surviving.

Listen to DrownedBoy. I have been discreet since my long term partner began having health issues. I have a few FB's and FWB's including couples. None look like guys in videos or RM ads. Occasionally, I treat myself to a hire. I think a little balance will take away that high/low experience.

Herring Cove Beach in Provincetown can vary. US Park rangers occasionally patrol and give citations for being nude. Guys keep suits handy and shout alerts when they come by. Does anyone know how it has been this unusual summer?