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As if some people around here don't try to over-commodify escorts already... A punchcard? No bueno. The most successful guys realize that this is a humanity business.
 
Good clients will keep coming back without the need for discounts or limited time offers: If you're a great escort giving 110% during your time together, it's just natural.

If the guy isn't already planning to come to the area and you want him to come to you and see you only, then yes you should compensate him for travel.

No, that's not the rule but often happens that a client flies an escort for an overnight and instead of going back home the next day he decides to stay in town a few days seeing other clients.
 
I know escorts who won't fly anywhere without an "anchor", a client who will pay for the flight and/or commit to multiple hours to see him guaranteeing a profitable trip.
 
Maybe the guy you want is concerned about investing money on a flight and hotel and have clients flake on him making him loose money. Possibly he's been burned before going to places to have guys cancel because of a death in the family, flu, falling in love, etc.
 
At the end it's up to you to make the choice to invite him or not.

No, that's not the rule but often happens that a client flies an escort for an overnight and instead of going back home the next day he decides to stay in town a few days seeing other clients.
 
I know escorts who won't fly anywhere without an "anchor", a client who will pay for the flight and/or commit to multiple hours to see him guaranteeing a profitable trip.
 
Maybe the guy you want is concerned about investing money on a flight and hotel and have clients flake on him making him loose money. Possibly he's been burned before going to places to have guys cancel because of a death in the family, flu, falling in love, etc.
 
At the end it's up to you to make the choice to invite him or not.

I've always got about eight different condoms in my travel kit, along with different lubes, just in case I come across an unexpected find- a regular provider looked in my kit once, turned around and gave me a salute- calls me "Boy Scout" to this day!

Bring a Condom Buffett - After it is all business supplies and deductible

Condom size generally refers to the girth of a man.
 
Awhile back I made a mistake and used a regular sized condom on a guy who should have been in a magnum. Semen leaked out of the condom because it was too tight and I ended up with a cream pie. Oops.
 
This obviously effects bottoms more than tops
 
Freaked me out at the time.
 
Lesson learned make sure the condom is the right size. For both larger girths and smaller girths.
 
Unsolicited condom recommendations
Snugger: kimono micro thin
Average: Trojan bareskin
Larger: Trojan magnum bareskin
All three condoms are amazing in terms of thinness and durability.
 
My motto: safety first

Most clients will overlook one bad review as long as there'a number of favorable reviews by established reviewers. Just don't make the mistake that if you do get one to quickly fabricate a number of fake positive reviews to compensate. That looks worse. Just respond to any negative feedback in a positive, professional, upbeat way and it will make you look better in the long run.

Don't worry about something that hasn't happened yet.
Note: DaddysReviews will send you a head's up on a negative review.

FYI, I emailed them about a week ago regarding their lack of a SSL certificate, and this was their reply:
 
http://i66.tinypic.com/1z1ai5d.jpg
 
Today, when I checked their site, I finally saw the green lock:
http://i63.tinypic.com/2lw835y.jpg
 
So, while their operations seem to be rather roughshod, they do appear to be responsive. Time will tell how successful they become.

During a 1-2 hour session, that's a huge no.
 
With overnights/days/weekends, I believe there's a reasonable expectation of LIGHT phone use, but that should be discussed beforehand along with all of the itenerary for extended bookings.
 
Checking emails/texts once a day is a reasonable guideline - to make sure there's not something going on outside of the time together that needs his attention --- friend/family emergencies come to mind, but admin work as well.
 
 
Phone time, daily routine, sleeping expectations should be discussed along with the rest of the itenerary.
 
 
That being said, checking while in bed is just... Rude and tacky.

If secure communication is a concern - one should be using an app such as Signal/Telegram or an encrypted email service such as Protonmail.
 
 
Text/Phone communication is not secure.
 
Using the above options are a bit more secure but only when both parties communicating use said services every time.

In my experience, a ‘good bottom’ is a skill that needs to be developed. I don’t know anybody that was a ‘good bottom’ on day one. Eager, maybe; nervous, certainly.
 
Yes, you should practice with the right toys, you should use enough lube and you should start slow and persevere when you and a buddy are going there.
 
A good top will read your body language. Will help you stretch before entering and will take it slow until you are comfortable before he starts hammering away, so to speak.
 
Now stop beating yourself up about it. It takes two to tango and a tango takes coordination (and a lot of practice). If he is a decent sort, he will brush it aside and be happy to help you practice!
 
I am 99% sure the 2nd time will be better and more fun - get back on the horse and have fun!

If it’s your first time bottoming, those feelings are natural. Things are supposed to exit your ass not enter it lol. Just like when you practice oral, you train your gag relfex not to engage so very often. You have to get your body aquatinted with the feeling of penetration. One big factor is your preference in lube types, water or silicon based. Also if you’re afraid of being dirty back there you can look up fiber supplements like “Pure for men”. Keep in mind anatomically that your intenstines bend about 4 inches into the anus and you can find positions to start with to accommodate with that before you’re loosened up.

I just mailed a donation for this year, finally!

I also sent a donation via the cash app with the note: "Forum support." I've never used the Cash app before, so please let me know if it went through.

Perfect. Funds are a bit tight now, but I hope to donate more (and more often) when business picks up. Maybe I'll be able to donate enough to be let into the Cabana

Work phone in Left pocket. Personal phone in right pocket.

I would suggest a prepaid line as a second phone make sure you block or change your caller ID.
Since everything is under a main cloud account now on phones cross referencing anything on the same phone runs the risk of mixing the 2 world's.
If you are trying to conseal your real id and remain discreet, use the second phone only for work, nothing more.
Personally, I like to believe I do a decent job not using real world info on my phone, and use one phone for personal and escorting, and those I converse with in real life either know I escort or I don't care if they find out.
For personal matters such medical or finances, that's the number i.chose to use Google voice for

You would think eventually there would be no more numbers to assign.
 
Personally, I have a separate tracfone for this hobby, but I'm still conscious about what I say in my texts.

Since google scans everything and analyzes it for advertising, transcription, and more, it makes sense that they'd delete any obvious ToS violations since they don't want to be fined or held liable if the long arm of the law catches up with that GV user.

I’d be glad if RM goes down at this point. Their decision to allow cis male tops to show their throbbing hard-ons but block trans guys from showing ourselves with our dicks “strapped on” means that trans guys who top professionally simply can’t compete. People believe only what they see, not whatever you write about yourself in your profile. If I can’t show myself in similar poses to the ones that cis tops are using in their advertising then it comes across as pretty unbelievable in my ad that I’m a top. I’m not interested in advertising as a bottom so RM is pretty useless for me as an ad venue.
 
Oddly I’ve found that I have this same problem with almost every major ad venue- their rules make it impossible for me to advertise effectively that I’m a top, whether it’s female-oriented escort venues that won’t allow us to discuss sexual activities/preferences at all, or male-oriented ad venues that won’t allow me to show myself with my “equipment” the way cis guys are allowed to show theirs. I’ve pretty much been WITHOUT any available/effective ad venues since SESTA/FOSTA took down all the websites that were not censoring me and thus yielding me clients.
 
What am I doing? Focusing on my regulars. Getting creative about how I get my brand out there and branching out into other sectors of the adult industry until a solution presents itself. Any ad venue that actually allowed me to advertise my brand without censoring me would have my loyalty in a heartbeat. But as far as I know, there are none.

+1 but for VPN AND Tor

I like WhatsApp, but it is owned by Facebook.....so I know some who have concerns over how they (really) use your data......still, I do agree it’s better than SMS.
 
Anyone tried Viper?